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  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • am i pretty!?!?!?!?!?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    seriously, im having a crisis, if i spelled it right....i need well, actually ANYBODYS opinion, if this was a desent pic of me, do u guys think im pretty, if u dont, what can i do to change that!?!?!?!?!
  • Do ladies get turned on by a guy with a deep voice or is that all myth?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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  • How do I stay with him, when his friends are like this?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    So earlier today, this guy asked me out. Hey guess what! we're going out now ! Now, I'm going through some problems. I'm bengali[if you don't know what that is, loook it up foool!] and hes black. so we're completely different, I dont know why he'd go for a girl like me . But I really really like him. Its being so awkward for me , and Im not racist, but its playing around with my hormones; getting me mad, some of his black friends come up to mee & they're like; "dayymm , didn't know you liked niggaaas" I try to ignore them. But also, a lot of people aren't liking us together. I was gonna be with him at lunch, but I saw him with his "brothaaas" ; He said he wanted to chill with me , BUT its really affecting everything. So I chilled with my bestfriend, and stayed away from him. the only alone time we have, are some passing periods, when no-one's looking . He said to give them time, and they'll get over it. but it annoys the shit out of me. D:
  • How to spice up sex life?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    What are ways to spice up sex life? Im trying to learn and experiment different stuff...suggestions anyone?
  • I'm so lost In my life right now! What should I do?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 8 hours ago

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    I need to be as understanding to you guys as possible so that I can get as much help as possible. Let me give you the low down of how I've stuffed up my life.I'm 19 years old..Okay It was all working well I was In a Job for 4 months then I left because I wanted to move back out west which Is where all of my mates were and It was a hassle to drive out back home every Friday to go see my friends for the weekend. It was one of the most relaxed Jobs I've ever had but as with every other Job there is It got too repetitive and I didn't have the correct frame of mind to continue the Job. Then.. I was unemployed for about 5 months sitting at home.. every day for 5 months so I decided to do a course In automotive that course cost me $5000 New Zealand dollars which I have to pay back. Then I was out of money for a while so I could not get to school and I missed out on alot of classes so I gave that up In less than a month. That's $5000 In debt so far, then my Mum gave me her car which cost her $5000 then I got a speeding ticket which was $500 then my car conked out on me I don't have the money to fix It It's pretty stuffed up now I can only sell It for about $1000 and that's $500 towards my fine. So I got a car then I blew It I'm In debt. Then I decided to go Join the gym. I only earnt $160 a week the gym cost me $30 a week. Then my bank account got shut down therefore the gym could not receive anymore of my payments and now they're racked up at $120. I also owe my friend $325 and my other friend $120. And my pay of $160 was coming from my student allowance which I have to pay back. I have no Job.. I can't seem to find one or stick to one. No car my Dad still buys me groceries and pays my rent he works his ass off at work I pretty much live off him and I feel so horrible every single day that I am hear I feel so sorry for my Dad but I cannot leave because I have no where else to go. I also have OCD which Just ruined me. I cannot hide the fact that I am so very depressed and It feels like I am at the end of the road and It Is hard to keep positive ='( Far out the human brain Is wicked Isn't It. I'm getting different opinions from all over the place based on your peoples experience. I am getting unnecessary Answers here one of them which Is very rude. No I am not a girl yes I do pray because I want to believe In something that can help me. I do have other stuff going on In my life so please don't Judge me too much. I know what I need to do I know It Isn't fun but I can only handle so much. I came here for answers not criticism. Thank you all for your advice I do agree with some of you. These are all my first mistakes which Is why I made them In the first place. I do not have much motivation to do things I do not know how to Initiate motivation In myself okay. I know I'm not the only one but all I've asked for Is help not cold hearted rudeness alright. Thank you all for your advice I will take It.
  • Please read this poem that I made about my dad?

    Family - 8 hours ago

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    Hi, Please read my poem - I know that it's long. However, it would be greatly appreciated i you can tell me what you think of it. (Please not that I am almost eighteen years old) It’s been so long since our family fell apart. I’ll never forget the damage that you punctured into my heart. All the grief, the misery, and the darkness that you put me through and how you never cared what I wanted to do. Now that you have a new family, suddenly now you decide to care. Words are only words that I only hear, but the truth is that you’re never there. You never saw the development of the woman that I became today. You only remember the bad choices that I made. But still, you want me back in your life just to please your new daughter and your wife. I’m sure that you never told them how you made my life burn like fire and how you tried to persuade me of throwing away my true desires. So, I can be daddy’s perfect picture. My heart will always remain pure, unlike yours who destroyed every hope that I had in you. Good luck to you trying to pretend to your baby girl that you’re a perfect dad. Honey, he’ll only tear your heart apart and at the end at of the day he will only see the bad. He’ll leave you crying in the corner full of misery and then he’ll try to convince you that he will change. Dad, it’s always the same. The games you play, the lies that slip out of your mouth and how you smile with that evil grin. You’re such a disappointment in my eyes, and I can count how many times you commuted sin. I’m better off now with out you holding my hand, because you were never there after all. You only watched every time someone punched me into the wall. Saying that I should do better, and you only let me down. I only hoped that one day that you would come around, to tell me that you are proud. We can’t rewrite history, and you can’t fixed the damage in my heart. Because you made me feel worthless, and that I can never end what I started. After everything that you put me through, I’m glad that I never put my faith in you.
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Rock, paper, school scissors: It's all about the school supplies

Posted Tue, Aug 21, 2007
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There are two types of people on this planet: those who consider shopping for school supplies to be a necessary evil and those who treat the annual trek to the school supply aisle as an almost sacred ritual.

For me, the back-to-school season has always been about the school supplies.

When I was a kid, I'd be half-crazy with excitement if my parents bought me a new set of coloured pencils as opposed to trying to convince me to reuse the remnants from the previous year (a previously glorious set with the very best colours worn down to the stumps). Ditto for a brand new geometry set in a shiny tin box; a fresh pencil case (one that had yet to be doodled on by a scribble-happy classmate); plus the usual roster of items that made the teachers' must-have lists year after year. I even asked for items we never seemed to need. If the teacher said we had to have it, I had to have it. (Binder page reinforcements, anyone?)

Decades later, I can still remember the smell of freshly snipped pink erasers (the teachers at my school would cut ours in half to double the number of stubs that were in circulation); the way pencils with the darkest lead would smudge all over the page if you erased too vigorously; and how earthy the end of a pencil tasted if you chewed on it during class (an almost wholesome blend of wood and lead). But the thing I loved most were the sheets of binder paper and the school notebooks; fresh, blank and open to the possibility of an entirely new school year.

I never stopped shopping for school supplies after I graduated from university and no longer had any real reason to frequent the school supply aisle. Nor did I stop during the years when I was newly married, pregnant and caring for children who were too young to go to school. Buying school supplies continued to be a late-summer rite of passage, a way of saying goodbye to summer and marking the rearrival of the season of responsibility.

Now that I've been shopping for school supplies for my own school-aged kids for over 15 years, you'd think that the thrill would have started to wane: that a pencil would just be a pencil and that a notebook would just be a notebook.

As if.

If anything, school supplies are even more enticing. Not only is the back-to-school aisle charged with memories of my own school days gone by, they're also alive with memories of my children's school days, too. As I gaze at the blank notebook pages, I remember walking each child to the bus stop for the very first time: hearing the sound of the school bus pulling away and feeling the emptiness in the palm of my hand as I walked back home alone.

So, what is shopping for school supplies like for you? Do you love or hate this back-to-school tradition?

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  • 1. Posted by mrgouge on Thu, Sep 27, 2007

    My is really into music & MTV . he bought ALL his stuff at http://www.rockpaperpencils.com They make notebooks, Pens, Pencils with all his favorite bands. This school year will rock for him this year !!

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  • 2. Posted by Brenda Nixon on Thu, Oct 11, 2007

    Thank you for sharing these wonderful memories. As a professional speaker on child development and parenting issues, I'd love to share your thoughts with my audiences when I speak on helping kids do better in school. My topic, "Boost Your Child's School Success" mentions the importance of shopping together for school supplies, as this increases together-time, generates enthusiasm for school and teaches the value of preparation. I hope you'll permit me to share a bit of this blog with audiences. You may visit my site and reply to me at www.brendanixon.com.

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  • 3. Posted by JodyT on Fri, May 16, 2008

    I adore shopping for school supplies. I start bugging the school for a shopping list before school ever lets out. I want to be prepared when the sales start. I have enough supplies to last both of my children through middle school, but I can't resist when those crayons go on sale for 9 cents a box. I have to buy them. There is always a need in the community for school supplies for children whose parents can't afford to buy them, so it isn't like they will go to waste. That is my defense when my husband starts questioning me about the large hoard of supplies that I have stored in their own special closet. When my children take their supplies out to take to school, there just seems to be an empty space that needs to be filled.

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  • 4. Posted by Gill on Fri, Aug 29, 2008

    Ah, a kindred spirit! I am a self confessed school supply junkie. My children are grown, my grandchildren's schools have a pre-order system, but I have discovered several charities in our area asking for donations of school supplies. Hooray! I have been happily filling my shopping cart with new notebooks, pencils, crayons.......Aaaah yes! http://www.grandparentscafe.com

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