Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago
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Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago
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Yes, this guy is me..I have been single for 2 years now.. I am working my @$$ off at the gym and I lost alot of weight so far, but it aint enough for me to get a GF yet. I dated before, yes, but its been 2 years, last time I had a GF was in 07 and I was in a relationship this year for 4 months but I didnt consider it a "Dating" relationship.
I heard I am average, I heard im hot(Raely but I had heard of it) I heard im a little cute(Not ENOUGH). But whatever..I also need a personnality..but I dont have a good one. I mean yes, I know girls want a guy with personnality but hell..I want to be the best for my GF..and that includes looking good and beautiful.
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Look..I dont go around bugging girls or stuff like that..cause I am really shy..and I fear, if I say something, it will probably something stupid. So all I got is working out, even if that wont help me AT ALL, it will grant me looks but no real relationship.
Its frustrating..and very very sad. I aint here to throw no damn pity party, i am here to get some advice!. Yes, I was very fat lmao, didnt show much cause im tall but, I did it mainly for a healthy body, so I can participate in fun activities, sports, swimming, all that good stuff :).
But the fact is, I am not really good with women, I am too timid and too..idk..I need braces lol, my front teeth are not together and I have a lisp, damn turn off. How the hell am I gonna get a girl with a lisp?
So, what I really ask is, besides looks(Which I am improving..kinda) how should I talk to a girl? I mean, I want it to be perfect..I dont want a girl just for my six packs and abs(Which I dont have yet). But I cant help being convinced that most pretty girls out there care about that stuff..and I am feeling depressed about it. Someone, please help me and give me advice.
Most of you guys have answered my question to the letter and I enjoyed reading it all. Thanks everyone.
Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago
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Met a guy last weekend in a club. He text me the next day asking to meet up but i was busy with friends, so i text him saying i couldn't. I text him again today saying sorry bout being busy and if he was doing anything this weekend. He's just text back saying he's going to be out tomorrow night and asked was I around. I would like to see this guy but the thing is I don't really want to meet him in a club. Like, you can't talk in a club, and anyway none of my friends are going out tommorow. I can't suggest another day because he is going away then.
So, what should I text him? I feel bad blowing him off again, especially cause i text him first this time. Should I mention that I'm free in the evening instead?
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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I'm a girl and my best friend is a guy. We've known eachother for a while and we get along perfect. He's the most amazing guy ever.....he's sooo sweet, he's super smart, and he's always there for me. I truly couldn't ask for any better of a friend, he just makes me the happiest person ever. And the same goes for him. He's told me how much he appreciates me being there for him and tells me how awesome I am (: I'm pretty sure he like me a lot... he asked me to homecoming and we slow danced...it was great. And we hang out all the time, just the two of us, sitting and talking for hours and hours. And we both love it when we get to do so. I love him. I really really love him. I'm pretty sure we would go out, but there's one problem....he just got over one of the nastiest relationships ever (it was bad..) a few months ago, and he told me it's not that he thinks I'm a b***h like his ex, he's just not ready for another girlfriend. He's basically just scared..really scared.. and his confidence is at an all time low. I just need to show him that he's an awesome person and that he would make an amazing boyfriend. I need to restore his confidence enough to the point where he's ready for another relationship, but without being pushy and mean. I just don't know how to do this..... help me please!!
Family - 6 hours ago
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i hate family events i always feel like the black sheep pf the family?
Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago
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So let's call this guy Andrew. I met him this school year and he is in my PE class. We hung out, flirted, and talked a lot so I started to like him. He was showing signs that he liked me too, so I assumed so. So one day I asked Andrew who he liked. He told me that it was me, and then smiled and said just kidding. He asked me who I liked. I told him I'll give him an answer when I'm ready. He begged me for a week, so I decided to tell him. I told Andrew it was him and all he answered me was "That wasn't that hard, was it?" And since we had 1 minute to get to class, we went to our classes. Ever since then, I started to avoid him, and I'm not sure why. I guess I felt awkward and I needed some time and space. We used to be together during nutrition and lunch at the school field but I've been in my classroom doing "homework" just to avoid him. He always tries to talk to me when he sees me, and he even asked me if I was ignoring him. I lied and said that I was just busy these days. Of course, he knew I was lying. How is he feeling towards me? What should I do?
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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OK i go with a boy and he give other girls hugs and i give other boys hugs.When he be giving other girls hugs yeah im a lil bit jealous, but do i have the right to be i mean i give other boys hugs so. . .if he wanted to be jealous he would have but he loves me nd i love him help me do i have the right to be jealous???
Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago
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Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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So on t.v. show I all ways hear the words "make love". What does this mean? does it mean like to fall in love with someone? or does it mean to...you..know...get it on...?
Someone fill me in of this stuff
Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago
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When in a relationship why can't men be truthful?Why do they have to lie?Then when they get caught in a lie they act stupid or think the girl is and then its too late and they are gone.why is that please i like to know.
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