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  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • am i pretty!?!?!?!?!?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    seriously, im having a crisis, if i spelled it right....i need well, actually ANYBODYS opinion, if this was a desent pic of me, do u guys think im pretty, if u dont, what can i do to change that!?!?!?!?!
  • Do ladies get turned on by a guy with a deep voice or is that all myth?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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  • How do I stay with him, when his friends are like this?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    So earlier today, this guy asked me out. Hey guess what! we're going out now ! Now, I'm going through some problems. I'm bengali[if you don't know what that is, loook it up foool!] and hes black. so we're completely different, I dont know why he'd go for a girl like me . But I really really like him. Its being so awkward for me , and Im not racist, but its playing around with my hormones; getting me mad, some of his black friends come up to mee & they're like; "dayymm , didn't know you liked niggaaas" I try to ignore them. But also, a lot of people aren't liking us together. I was gonna be with him at lunch, but I saw him with his "brothaaas" ; He said he wanted to chill with me , BUT its really affecting everything. So I chilled with my bestfriend, and stayed away from him. the only alone time we have, are some passing periods, when no-one's looking . He said to give them time, and they'll get over it. but it annoys the shit out of me. D:
  • How to spice up sex life?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 9 hours ago

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    What are ways to spice up sex life? Im trying to learn and experiment different stuff...suggestions anyone?
  • What do I do if my ex-boyfriend is getting over me but I can't get over him?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and my ex is 19. We were together for one year. He is obviously getting over me as he started college recently at a university and he's added a few girls he goes to school with on Facebook. Me, on the otherhand, I haven't met any guys after him and I'm just always thinking about him so it's hard to get over him. I hate that he's meeting all these girls and I'm not meeting any new guys that I'm interested in. I'm kind of jealous. What should I do?
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10- and 11- year old Canadian kids unhappy with their bodies: study

Posted Mon, Aug 31, 2009
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Canadian kids are heading back to school with more than books and backpacks. They've got body image concerns on their minds.

According to a soon-to-be published study by researchers from the University of Alberta and Harvard University, 10 and 11 year olds are worried about achieving the perfect body.

For males, that means being muscular and lean; for females, that means being thin.

The researchers measured the height and weight of 4254 10 and 11 year olds and asked them to indicate how strongly they agreed with the statement, "I like the way I look."

The researchers found that the prevalence of poor body satisfaction amongst normal weight, overweight, and obese girls was 5.7%, 10.4%, and 13.1%.

The corresponding figures for boys were 7.6%, 8.4%, and 8.1%.

Girls living in rural areas and who came from families with little formal education were particularly likely to report poor body satisfaction.

A number of previous studies have also indicated that weight preoccupation and body image dissatisfaction are significant issues for this generation of kids.

The good news, according to the researchers, is that schools have an opportunity to turn the situation around. 10 and 11 year olds tend to respond positively to school-based programs designed to educate them about eating well; being physically active; and positive body image.

Now over to you:

What do you do to try to help your kids make sense of the high-pressure messages in the media - the ones that say that you have to have a perfect body to be worth anything? Do your kids understand that average people don't look like supermodels and that even supermodels don't look like supermodels without makeup and photo manipulation software?

Related:

National Eating Disorders Information Centre: The Girl Guides of Canada are launching a new "Love Yourself" badge, developed in collaboration with the National Eating Disorders Information Centre. "The challenges associated with the badge are age appropriate activities which help girls to explore beliefs, attitudes and behaviours that impact body image and self esteem, and to develop resilience and life skills." How cool is THAT?

Body Talk: The Straight Facts on Fitness, Nutrition, and Feeling Great About Yourself: The body image book for preteen girls that I wrote with my daughter Julie. Julie also wrote this article ("The Don't Try It Diet") for the girls' magazine New Moon about her struggle with an eating disorder.

Ten Things You Can Do to Help Your Preteen Daughter Feel Better About Herself: Practical things you can do to boost your daughter's self-esteem.

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  • 1. Posted by anndouglas on Wed, Sep 02, 2009

    I just realized that I forgot to link to the University of Alberta - Harvard University study. Here's the link, in case anyone wants to follow up on the research: S. Bryn Austin, Jess Haines and Paul J. Veugelers. Body satisfaction and body weight: gender differences and sociodemographic determinants. BMC Public Health, 2009; (in press) http://www.biomedcentral.com/1471-2458/9/313/abstract

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