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  • Does this girl even like me or not?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    My friend Kim, and I have been friends for about a year now. When we first met she was flirting with me, she was twirling her hair, smiling and laughing at my jokes. Someone said that I think Kim likes me. I didnt belive them. She was always smiling at me in Chem labs. When I held study sessions, she always came even though she was a Chem major, she always smiled at me, and twirled her hair. I was distracted. I gave her a cupcake she smiled. Then we lost contact, and regained it in the summer, we texted all summer long. I was working, and she "boooo" ed me. She also told me she had a bf, and I was kinda bummed out. Then the fall semester came, and she smiled at me when she saw me. She told me she had to go to her bf's boss's wedding, the day after I saw her she looked like a wreck. Then, her roomy came by, and said Kim misses me. She said that I should text Kim, and that I should come visit her. 3 weeks ago, I saw Kim, she smiled at me, and I said we should hangout sometime. She always complains she is too busy. She smiles and waves at me when she says goodbye. Then, yesterday I saw her, she gave me a brief smile, not as big as normal, and I invited her to the movies. She never showed up. I did not specify a time though, perhaps that is why. My friends thought Kim likes me, but she seems to be hot and cold about me. My girlfriends also suggested she may like me, but has feelings for her bf as well. What can I do to better my friendship with Kim? I told hler yesterday that I missed her, and she should come over and watch a movie, but never showed up? Did I saw something wrong? Please tell me what to do? I dont want to lose a good friend? I want to be there for her always. I love her. One the other hand, she needs to quit playing games with my heart. She needs to choose either him or me. Im 19 and never kissed a girl. I was always waiting for the right girl. I think she may be it. She needs to quit playing with my emotions, I am going to get hurt by her. She is hot and cold. I dont get her. She is still with her bf. I NEED TO TELL HER TO CHOOSE EITHER HIM OR ME? I CANT STAND HER PLAYING WITH MY EMOTIONS ALL THE TIME! IF SHE CHOOSES HIM, I HOPE SHE GETS HURT LIKE THE WAY SHE HURTS ME. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK OF HER. I THOUGHT SHE LIKED ME, BUT I GUESS I WAS WRONG! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
  • what are you thankful for this thanksgiving?

    Weddings - 4 hours ago

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    i have to go get my turkey and go over the river and thru the woods to my mother in laws house but wanted to wish all of you fellow esteemed posters and all you brides happy thanksgiving. even though sometimes family can be diffiicult, on thanksgiving we are all happy to have family, and all of us have so much to truly be thankful for.
  • admit it, arent you thankful for all you have this thanksgiving?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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    i need to go get my turkey but wanted to wish all of you angry, hilarious, clever posters and cheaters and dingdongs and abused wives a wonderful blessed thanksgiving because all of us, no matter what else is going on, really do have so much to be thankful for.
  • Do you think once a man is married?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    he acts like a child again and expects you to take care of him. Leaves his dishes around the house, his clothes all over the floor, doesn't help with the kids, doesn't do yard work, dishes, laundry, and you can't leave for a few hours because you will come home and he hasn't taken care of anything while you were gone?
  • He lies to her to hang out with me?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    I'm married, and so is my friend. Sometimes we go out for a drink or lunch or something. My husband always knows were I am and who I am with. Recently, I heard my friend on the phone with his wife saying he was with someone else and going somewhere else. I'm not telling any lies, but I guess he is. Am I doing anything wrong? It made me sad that his wife doesn't recognize our friendship. I know her and he knows my husband. I have known both him ad his wife for 15 years--that's before they got together. The 4 of us have spent plenty of time together over the years. She and I have also been out for drinks together.
  • Is there woman for every man?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Even with most outrageous personality traits, is it possible to find a girl of your dreams?
  • How do guys feel about this? re-posting?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    How do guys feel when they are finally confronted by a girl they have been trying to avoid or whatever? You guys have only spoken online and never met in person. You guys used to talk alot and trying to get to know each other and be friends...but you have been behaving badly by ignoring her suddenly...and trying to avoid a confrontation with her. She leaves you alone and then decides to contact his friend and meet up with him to try to reason with you and get to the bottom of your behaviour a few months later. You react by telling her to get a life and leave you alone. She gets upset, then reacts by telling you that you have acted very childish and immature, and that if you had just said that to her to begin with then she would have left you alone then and not have had to contact your friend. She tells you that the reason why she tried to contact you was because you guys will be working together and wanted to eliminate any potential awkwardness and misunderstandings between you guys. You don't reply to her message. You guys will be working together later on, in about a couple of years or so, which she has tried to let you know about. How do you handle her when you see her around again? Of course at this point she is pretty pissed at you and ignores you. Do guys feel remorse when a girl they have been avoiding confrontation with has put them in their place due to their wrong-doing? And if so how do they act? Please help out. Thanks alot. i confronted him online not in person...but practically IN person i guess....
  • i need some advice on the physical side of my relationship?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Both myself and my boyfriend are virgins, i know what you're thinking! , but were both only 18 and both shy people when it comes to this sort of stuff. but how do i get around to "doing the deed" as it were, with him? serious answers please.
  • my husband and son-in-law have a personality clash how do we deal with this at thanks giving?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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  • Now I am single what is the best way to find another guy?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    My last boyfriend didn't show much interest sexually and I really want to explore that side of my life.
Yahoo! Parenting

Job stress check for moms

Posted Fri, Jul 03, 2009
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The type of job that you toll at from 9 to 5 (or on the midnight shift, whatever the case may be) has more of an impact on your kids than you might think. (What matters is how much physical and emotional stress you're exposed to while you're at work.)

Researchers from the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research and the University of St. Gallen in Switzerland found that jobs like housekeeping, teaching, nursing, and factory work that rank highly in terms of both social stress and physical hazards take their toll on both moms and their kids.

Moms who work in these types of jobs tend to arrive home from work feeling mentally and physically exhausted. They tend to be less patient, attentive, and responsive with their kids than moms in less physically and emotionally demanding types of careers.

In general, the researchers found that the worse a mother's job, the more poorly her children performed on tests of verbal skills. But the mother's education level had a significant impact on how harmful a bad job was to her kids.

Stressful jobs for more educated moms tend to pay relatively well, and Hsin believes the higher pay compensates for the higher stress mothers experience in these occupations. Less educated mothers suffer a double whammy: high stress plus low pay. They can't afford to tap into outside supports that would help to relieve the stress on themselves or help their kids catch up academically. The family budget is as stressed as they are.

A 2007 study conducted by Statistics Canada found that 28% of working women reported having a high-strain job, compared with 20% of men. One-third of women felt quite a bit, or extremely, stressed most days at work, compared with 29% of men. Shift workers were more likely to have high-strain jobs than other workers. They were also more likely to perceive their jobs as physically demanding. Individuals with low personal incomes were more likely to have high-strain jobs than individuals with high incomes. Almost 28% of workers with incomes of less than $20,000 had high-strain jobs, compared with only 18% of workers earning $60,000 or more.

So how stressful is your job? Does your job become more stressful (or less stressful) during the summer months? What do you do to try to keep all the balls in the air at home and at work?

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