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  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 4 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
  • Does your girl want to party all the time, party all the time, parrr-tay all the tiiime?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    1kay made me ask this question, btw.
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • How do I stay with him, when his friends are like this?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    So earlier today, this guy asked me out. Hey guess what! we're going out now ! Now, I'm going through some problems. I'm bengali[if you don't know what that is, loook it up foool!] and hes black. so we're completely different, I dont know why he'd go for a girl like me . But I really really like him. Its being so awkward for me , and Im not racist, but its playing around with my hormones; getting me mad, some of his black friends come up to mee & they're like; "dayymm , didn't know you liked niggaaas" I try to ignore them. But also, a lot of people aren't liking us together. I was gonna be with him at lunch, but I saw him with his "brothaaas" ; He said he wanted to chill with me , BUT its really affecting everything. So I chilled with my bestfriend, and stayed away from him. the only alone time we have, are some passing periods, when no-one's looking . He said to give them time, and they'll get over it. but it annoys the shit out of me. D:
  • does anyone else think that they're going to end up alone?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    i know i will.
  • I'm so lost In my life right now! What should I do?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    I need to be as understanding to you guys as possible so that I can get as much help as possible. Let me give you the low down of how I've stuffed up my life.I'm 19 years old..Okay It was all working well I was In a Job for 4 months then I left because I wanted to move back out west which Is where all of my mates were and It was a hassle to drive out back home every Friday to go see my friends for the weekend. It was one of the most relaxed Jobs I've ever had but as with every other Job there is It got too repetitive and I didn't have the correct frame of mind to continue the Job. Then.. I was unemployed for about 5 months sitting at home.. every day for 5 months so I decided to do a course In automotive that course cost me $5000 New Zealand dollars which I have to pay back. Then I was out of money for a while so I could not get to school and I missed out on alot of classes so I gave that up In less than a month. That's $5000 In debt so far, then my Mum gave me her car which cost her $5000 then I got a speeding ticket which was $500 then my car conked out on me I don't have the money to fix It It's pretty stuffed up now I can only sell It for about $1000 and that's $500 towards my fine. So I got a car then I blew It I'm In debt. Then I decided to go Join the gym. I only earnt $160 a week the gym cost me $30 a week. Then my bank account got shut down therefore the gym could not receive anymore of my payments and now they're racked up at $120. I also owe my friend $325 and my other friend $120. And my pay of $160 was coming from my student allowance which I have to pay back. I have no Job.. I can't seem to find one or stick to one. No car my Dad still buys me groceries and pays my rent he works his ass off at work I pretty much live off him and I feel so horrible every single day that I am hear I feel so sorry for my Dad but I cannot leave because I have no where else to go. I also have OCD which Just ruined me. I cannot hide the fact that I am so very depressed and It feels like I am at the end of the road and It Is hard to keep positive ='( Far out the human brain Is wicked Isn't It. I'm getting different opinions from all over the place based on your peoples experience. I am getting unnecessary Answers here one of them which Is very rude. No I am not a girl yes I do pray because I want to believe In something that can help me. I do have other stuff going on In my life so please don't Judge me too much. I know what I need to do I know It Isn't fun but I can only handle so much. I came here for answers not criticism. Thank you all for your advice I do agree with some of you. These are all my first mistakes which Is why I made them In the first place. I do not have much motivation to do things I do not know how to Initiate motivation In myself okay. I know I'm not the only one but all I've asked for Is help not cold hearted rudeness alright. Thank you all for your advice I will take It.
  • Please read this poem that I made about my dad?

    Family - 7 hours ago

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    Hi, Please read my poem - I know that it's long. However, it would be greatly appreciated i you can tell me what you think of it. (Please not that I am almost eighteen years old) It’s been so long since our family fell apart. I’ll never forget the damage that you punctured into my heart. All the grief, the misery, and the darkness that you put me through and how you never cared what I wanted to do. Now that you have a new family, suddenly now you decide to care. Words are only words that I only hear, but the truth is that you’re never there. You never saw the development of the woman that I became today. You only remember the bad choices that I made. But still, you want me back in your life just to please your new daughter and your wife. I’m sure that you never told them how you made my life burn like fire and how you tried to persuade me of throwing away my true desires. So, I can be daddy’s perfect picture. My heart will always remain pure, unlike yours who destroyed every hope that I had in you. Good luck to you trying to pretend to your baby girl that you’re a perfect dad. Honey, he’ll only tear your heart apart and at the end at of the day he will only see the bad. He’ll leave you crying in the corner full of misery and then he’ll try to convince you that he will change. Dad, it’s always the same. The games you play, the lies that slip out of your mouth and how you smile with that evil grin. You’re such a disappointment in my eyes, and I can count how many times you commuted sin. I’m better off now with out you holding my hand, because you were never there after all. You only watched every time someone punched me into the wall. Saying that I should do better, and you only let me down. I only hoped that one day that you would come around, to tell me that you are proud. We can’t rewrite history, and you can’t fixed the damage in my heart. Because you made me feel worthless, and that I can never end what I started. After everything that you put me through, I’m glad that I never put my faith in you.
  • My brother's wife got mad at me about a "Facebook" entry. Please Read?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Okay, I am friends with brothers wife on facebook, my brother's wife name is Bridget and she is from Belize. Now, someone she knows asked for my friendship, when I notice it was one of her friends I trusted the source and accepted the friend which was a male. I am single and have already raised my daughter who is know 22years old. For some reason I thought she (Bridget) told him to be-friend me. Well, anyway the guy made a comment on my picture saying "Nice Picture" and I responded saying Thanks, & how are you related to my sis Bridget. Well, before he could even respond, she (Bridget) calls me and says: "If you want to be his friend, then be his friend, don't question our relationship, I don't go around on your friends asking: How are they related to you" Well, I was soo furious, because the question I ask him was just a conversation starter. And wasn't even like I really wanted to know how they were related, I just wanted to break the ice and start conversation with him. I didn't appreciate Bridget Tone and just hung up the phone, I really wanted to start cussing her out but I didn't. Then I went to Facebook and deleted her and this other guy as friend. What do you think, Was I wrong or was she wrong?. She keep calling me back, and she told my dad how I didn't have to hang up like a fool. Right Now, I am still mad and need to calm down because I didn't think she would go there. Its funny how you think things will turn out one way but it turns out to go LEFT
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Ghost students busted: Does spying belong in the classroom?

Posted Fri, May 29, 2009
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Your college-aged daughter is required to do some of her course work online. A couple of times each week, she logs on to the course website to catch up on lecture notes and engage in chat sessions with her classmates and the two ghost students who are being paid by her professor to gather information about your daughter and her classmates. (Yes, ghost students.)

Educators are always looking for new ways to evaluate online learners, but does planting ghost students in the online classroom cross the line, ethically speaking?

That issue has become the subject of much debate this week, ever since The Chronicle of Higher Education reported that academics in Indiana, Connecticut, and South Africa have started to pose as students to gather information about their real students.

Critics of the practice point out that the process causes students to lose trust in their course instructors. "What other sneaky tricks do you still have to admit responsibility for?" one student asked after finding out about the ghost students.

Fans of the technique argue that ghost students can jump-start conversations, monitor student discussions, and make learning more interactive, thereby helping to reduce drop-out rates.
It puts into question the trusting and respectful relationship that has to be developed between teacher and student. And if you betray that trust, and you in effect set up an espionage system, then how on earth are you going to have meaningful, deep, authentic discussions?

In situations like this, I always ask myself how I'd feel in a similar situation, say if an employer hired ghost employees to keep tabs on me.

My verdict? Definitely not cool.

So what's your take on this online teaching method? Do you think its ethical for teachers to pretend to be students? How do you think your child would react if he or she found out after the fact that one of his or her classmates was actually a teacher?

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  • 1. Posted by Carlsberg on Mon, Jun 01, 2009

    That IS disturbing, and pretty lousy. I can't understand why my instructor can't just ASK me how I'm enjoying my online courses. Better yet; how about paying actual TUTORS/TEACHER AIDES to actually speak to the students one on one instead of this closed door garbage. This whole 'undercover' deal reminds me of the saying 'one lie spoils a thousand truths'.

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  • 2. Posted by tarzanswife2001 on Mon, Jun 01, 2009

    if you are in school ,no matter what format, why are you surprised there are teachers present.

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  • 3. Posted by lilgerdie on Tue, Jun 02, 2009

    Teaching Assistants and Graduate Assistants are the bridge between the professor and student, I agree with Carlsberg's comment. In tutorials questions arise, interest in course material is voiced. It may be too late but at the end of the course there are Teacher Evaluations where students are asked a series of questions, and some evaluations ask questions regarding student interest in course material, how effective the professor was with material etc. Ghost Students used to direct online discussions are not a good idea. If the students in the course do not grasp concepts enough to come up with related discussions online, that is an indicator the course material and lessons are not coming across correctly. That would give the profs/teachers an opportunity to discuss the material/explain it in the classroom. As for work that would be annonying and creepy to discover you have fake co-workers whose sole job is to spy on you and report to your boss!

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  • 4. Posted by Brian and Brenda Joyce on Tue, Jun 02, 2009

    Any form of deception is completely unfair and seriously wrong. This kind of interaction can just as well be done by our school's policy of "peer guides", other students who volunteer to assist younger students. They're not online, but could easily be as a board moderator or advisor.

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  • 5. Posted by noeffects83 on Tue, Jun 02, 2009

    its actually quite simple. its a good thing for 2 reasons. some students are too shy to ask for help. the ghost student can find out a student needs help and can report to the prof and get them the help. and 2 whats wrong with more teachers? more people who can help is always a good thing. if you're on a boat that has 300 crew members and 700 passengers and for some reason the boat starts sinking, would you feel "betrayed" to find out that 50 of the 700 passengers were actually crew members and those crew members helped save you from drowning? there is NO debate on this matter. unless the spying goes further than the classroom; if they start stalking you and reporting when you eat dinner and watching you sleep etc. or even if they start collecting personal information then thats different. but if its nothing personal then why is it a bad thing? lilgerdie: you are correct and very incorrect. "If the students in the course do not grasp concepts enough to come up with related discussions online, that is an indicator the course material and lessons are not coming across correctly." that statement is correct. you are, however, incorrect because the ghost students will help the real students learn. who cares if a teacher is pretending to be a student? they're still a teacher regardless so i dont see why this issue matters. Carlsberg: do you know HOW many students are dishonest to teachers? this method gives raw feedback on how students are actually enjoying/learning in the class.

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