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  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me??????

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to me at the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • When people say:"Oh, you make me so mad!"...who do you think cares?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    When you allow yourself to get angry or sad, frustrated or go spastic, what makes you think other people give a damn? You do it for no reason that's obvious to others...we just wonder why you think it's supposed to matter to us!
  • Facebook photos, do you think I am ugly, average or pretty?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

  • Have you ever felt like you dont matter?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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  • YIKES!!! Should I continue to date him or not?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    He shouts and gets angry for the slightest thing. He is very intolerant. He wants me to send him loving messages all the time, I do but not too many as we have only been dating 6 weeks. I want to take it slowly as I have been hurt before. I bought him presents (perfume, an easter egg, shirts). Sometimes he cancels dates but wants me to be available all the time when it suits him. Once did not show up at all and never called me. He went off for the weekend with his friends witout telling me and had his phone switched off. I was waiting at home for his call. He never apologised but ended up shouting at me that I worried his brother as I phoned his brother asking where he was and his brother didn't know. Yet, he wants me to be available for him when it suits him and gets angry when I am not. He gets angry easily for little things and has a temper. So I am not really sure he is a great guy .... He has no education and works in a factory and ever second week works on the night shift. I am studying for my Masters. His last girlfriends were vulgar and uneducated, one worked as a stripper. He used to work as a stripper. He is jealous and controlling and told him that I don't need to see my friends much any more. The first night we slept together he took me to a hotel. I dont know why he didnt take me back to his place. Ive been there since. I told him that I had been hurt in the past and that I wanted to take it slowly. He shouted and got angry and said "Everyone has been hurt in the past. Just get over it" He is not understanding but expects me to be understanding and caring towards him. Another time he got really angry because I asked to change bars and go to the bar next door as there were no seats at the bar we were at. Once when we slept together I went to the bathroom to get condoms. Three days later he brought it up in an angry voice that I destroyed the romantic moment by going to the bathroom to get condoms. Another time we arranged a blind date between my friend and his best friend and he got all angry and said "why would he phone her again as she won't sleep wth him, she is just looking for friendship" and was even shouting. SHOULD I CONTINUE TO DATE HIM? WOULD MANY WOMEN TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOUR? He also told me that I talk too much about my friends and their lives and that I should only talk about me and him and our future together. Also, some of his friends occassionally go with prostitutes even though they are married.
  • Should I do this or not? Or how to make him feel "gutted"?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    this guy hurt me in some way. he was always saying how much he "likes" me, he was telling me things like "your the one ... we've got so much in common... we need to go out ..." etc. at the time, when he was asking me out, I wasn't sure it was a good idea (I didn't know him that much, he was showing his interest, which turned out to be lie) so I said "maybe not now, maybe later". after this he stopped talking to me, I was so mad at him - he was ignoring me all week, and then - thanks to facebook - I found out that all this time he was adding my girlfriends to his friends list! and more - once my bro caught him during his date with one of my friends! luckily this girl didn't know that it was my bro and that this lier and hypocrite was asking me out as well. I was so mad at him. and the ugliest part of this story is that when he sees me in uni, he starts flirting! can you believe it? oh gosh I want to do something to make him feel miserable, angry and furious! I had this little plan, but I'm not sure it's good enough - I'll delete him from my friends list and then I'll send him msg like "sorry, my boyfriend didn't want you in my friends list" hah! how good/bad is that? or maybe you can suggest something else? he hurts girls' hearts, now it's time to make him feel that way! [evil laugh]. or maybe it's better just to ignore him? I'm confused.
  • Why am I with this fat, hairy, balding, lazy loser who wont hold a job?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    he also is a rude smoker, messy and basically not a considerate person when it comes to sharing a house. In the beginning it was completely different, this was 3 years ago, now I get all this plus hardly any sex or much needed attention, and that was the best part in the beginning. So what does that say about me, honestly...no jokes please, im already up all night in tears!
  • my parernts-in-law are always saying how it's cruel to love their daughter without loving them -is this true?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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  • Why is pot such a crutch? Do you think its addictive?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    My BF is such a nicer guy when he smokes pot. In fact he can be quite the jerk when he doesnt. everytime he gets some he is outside taking a hit every 15 minutes. its incredible. plus instead of getting tired from it, he stays up all night smoking it. He tried a few times to quit, but goes right back to it because he has no patience, flys off the handle, and stays depressed and is even mean alot to me. I dont know if I want him to quit or not, but im not sure i can handle it either way.

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10 things you don't know about sex

Wing Sze Tang reports.

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1: Ready, set, go—there’s nearly no difference in the amount of time it takes healthy men and women to reach peak sexual arousal: roughly 10 minutes.

2: One per cent of adults have zero interest in sex and have never felt sexually attracted to anyone at all. Asexuality may be an under-the-radar sexual orientation, but researchers have only just begun to study it. On the other end of the rainbow, an estimated 3 to 6 per cent of the population have some form of sex addiction.

3: Straight, gay or flexible? Recent research suggests women may be “intrinsically bisexual,” and the higher their libido, the more they desire both sexes. In another study, the female subjects—whether they considered themselves straight or gay—were physically aroused by erotic films of both men and women. In contrast, the straight men were excited just by women, and the gay men only by men.

4: Canadian men have, on average, 23 sexual partners in total (notably more than the global average of 13), according to one recent worldwide survey. Their female counterparts reportedly have 10. The hitch? Number crunchers say the finding that men have substantially more bedmates on average than women is mathematically impossible.

5: Beyond its unsexy smell and taste, smoking appears to double a man’s risk of moderate or complete erectile dysfunction.

6: Once upon a time, doctors treated women suffering from “hysteria” by stimulating them to orgasm—a service dubbed “medical massage.” By the 1930s, it was abandoned in favour of psychotherapy.

7: Why do I bed thee? Let me count the ways. U.S. researchers who set out to catalogue all the reasons why humans have sex came up with 237 distinct ones. Among the top 10 motives, women and men had eight in common. A notable exception: “I realized I was in love” came in at number nine for women, but at number 17 for men.

8: Having sex regularly—at least once a week—may promote fertility in women by regulating hormones and menstrual patterns.

9: Male sweat contains androstadienone, a compound that enhances mood and sexual arousal in women. Alas, it also boosts levels of stress hormones. The chemical has been used as an ingredient in men’s fragrances.

10: What’s love got to do with it? Sexual arousal and romantic love activate quite distinct areas of the brain—and love is clearly the more powerful. The latter turns on dopamine-rich regions linked with motivation, and falling in love is not unlike the rush of taking cocaine, hence the addictiveness of a new crush, and the withdrawal-like symptoms of love lost.

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7 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Eleventwo on Mon, Nov 2, 2009

    I like this article and this is all news to me and I think it was very helpful to the answer to my quest to know. thanks.

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  • 2. Posted by Scholes on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    yes, it was a true that man doesn't need much sex than a woman. Woman always move by men..

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  • 3. Posted by Crankshaft1289 on Fri, Aug 28, 2009

    in response to item $ 5....are you a idiot....i,ve smoke since 1969 and never had a hrad time getting it up.only a morron would think that duh.....................

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  • 4. Posted by BOB M on Sat, Apr 25, 2009

    women have always been able to take more sex then most males can give i feel

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  • 5. Posted by Flyboy.... on Sat, Apr 25, 2009

    I had a friend who was one of the one per cent of adults have zero interest in sex. Turned out he had fibromyalgia (sp?) After treatment he not only became sexual he gained muscle and a more mature masculine facial shape.

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  • 6. Posted by Kali on Sat, Apr 25, 2009

    I've heard that women are intrinsically bisexual before and I just don't agree. I'm a straight woman and I feel no arousal whatsoever for the female form. I wonder if it has something to do with there not being a lot of viewing material out there for the female eye. Women are a lot hornier than is commonly believed and they have to direct that energy somewhere.

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  • 7. Posted by Sara on Sat, Apr 25, 2009

    So exactly how does this the logic of this #4 survey report work? If we had 3 prostitutes each serviced 100 men in a year; then the women surveyed had a LOT of partners and the men only had a few. For the men to have more partners that the women, then you would need a cattle herd pattern with one bull impregnating a LOT of women; while the other bulls did nothing. But the number crunchers say that for the survey to be representative, one must consider that there are equal numbers of both men and women; and that the non-participants must be averaged in. Thus the outcome (of averaging) would ALWAYS be equal mathematically. Thus, either the survey was not taken against a representative sample of the ENTIRE population; or survey respondents are NOT reporting their activities accurately! Male “braggadocios”???

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