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lizroth27 - May 9, 2008 06:38:40 AM PST
How much have you all really had sex? This is like stuff you learn in grade school? Throw a pillow under her back, that way, if the male is in the missionary position, the likely hood of stimulating the G-spot is much greater. I recommend that all men and woman learn alot about the G-spot before giving up. As well, kiss the ear and neck areas. Due to the density of fine touch nerve fibers, which are also located on the male and female genitals, fingers and face, this is a sure fire way to get her excited.

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Does this apply to everyone?
Frank Rizzo - May 9, 2008 05:19:47 AM PST
I think not..keep telling someone that they are a great lover by burning into their subconcious mind? Ok, so what we`re trying to do here is brainwash our partners??

These sex tips seem to have been written by people with no children, and therefore hold very little value to the mainstream public. The only people who need these tips are those that wake early to take out the dogs, to an empty house with no children. Most who have children will agree,tiredness and routine results in sex becoming infrequent for a while, but once it starts again, you learn to seize the moment,and that moment is hot,very hot, no input or imagination needed. So to all of you who have written these, aren`t you late to take the dogs for a walk?

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why men dont talk about this
big jay - May 9, 2008 01:20:38 AM PST
all i have to say is this the best sex i had is qhen both partner play a game , it has to be fun it has to be intense u have to beleive in yourpartner for it to be great the best sex i ever had is went both of us played a role that is far away from who we really are we both acted like it was the best sex ever and in the end it was and fopr the girl i have to say this (my english is not the best since im from a french background ) girl encourages your hose tell him to go harder or smoother tell him what u want in a kinky dirty way (that work for me)
when a girl say it out loud that she likes it or that she wants it harder or whaterver make me go crasy and make me want that to give her her peak. this is really empowering but still it has to be fun sex to me dosent have to be a competition or a chore it must if a man beleive that hes really habve to proove himself worthy it will not work bekauz i beleive tyhat most of us lack in insurance and cant get over it .. thats just sad when only a lill chat could solve the hole thing the worst sex i had is qhen i have pressure to do it or when it feels wrong and i beleive that is bad for both sides sex shoudnt be something that u dont feel like doing it should sound right and enjoyavle not a chore and if anywone want to correct my erros on this text i would be happy i hope somewone read this .. some of those c;ue were not bad but i feel that this article missed the point

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They're not trying very hard
YankeeDoodle - May 8, 2008 10:27:31 PM PST
I have a feeling all these interviews from across the country is one lonely editor sitting in a cubible in Mississauga making stuff up..
- Jennifer, Dallas

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I agree with Marie
Megamegamania - May 8, 2008 09:02:24 PM PST
Someone once asked me when the last time I had sex was. My response was "You mean with somebody else?". I am presently sort of dating "or not" a woman I met two weeks ago, as a man I realise I am supposed to wantonly pursue getting in the sack right away. Unless I feel some sort of emotional attachment to her it is not going to happen. I really think the best sex is when you want nothing more than to please your partner, it becomes infectious. If you really want to have good sex you had better be prepared to give good sex. Selfishness will only throw cold water on the emotion of the passion you want to share with that person.

Sam
Toronto

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From a Guy
Desmond S - May 9, 2008 01:08:11 AM PST
Hi Ladies, if I am not mistaken all the reviews or advice were given by women. I am surprised that no men its seems wrote anything. I am really glad to hear so many different points of views though. I am sure everyone has their own take on how things should be and I am sure no one way will be the BE ALL END ALL answer, the important thing is that you understand what turns you on. I am only in my 30s but I think I have been more obsessed about sex that even most guys. You ladies must be wondering how is that, arent all men only ever thinking about sex, I am just one of the rest. Well since prepubity(7years) I have linterested, learning, reading, talking and getting as much information about sex as I can as well as had more than 50 different partners to experience and to test things out myself. I can't say that I have been the best for all my lovers, but I can say that I have only had no more than 2-3 complaints or semi satisfied partners, the rest were coming back for more voluntarily. You must be thinking, sure...thats just from the ones who werent afraid to hurt your feelings and you re just a brag. No, I made sure to get my information from 3rd party sources, mostly direct, but many times I had their friends or someone else get the info on my performance from them for me(this is not an easy thing, but many were willing to tell me sincerely that they truely liked having sex with me. I dont think I am anything over special in physical terms).
My point I am trying to say, my policy has always come from what I was taught by my mentor and that was, TRUE LOVE is not all about the fluffy romantic, heart to heart, deep understanding stuff that most girls want nor is it all that dirty one time raw sex, get down and submit to me, pleasure me stuff that most men usually want. Its the combination of both. Love is doing for your partner what they love and they want instinctively, NOT what YOU want. Society these days is all about ME ME ME, what I want, what makes me feel good. When both partners do what the other wants(reciprocate love) its AWESOME. As a man I find out what she likes, what turns her on. This takes time, lots of talking lots of relaxing and gaining trust to talk about our deepest fetishes and like one girl from Surrey said, its something to not be ashamed of. Then knowing that your partner is willing to do it for you is not only so rewarding in feeling loved but it GETS YOU OFF!! Next you do for them what they love and gets them off and Voila you have a great Sex. Many women complain about men orgasming too fast. I do too sometimes but I also multi orgasm. How does this happen. My fiancee (my partner of over 5 years, and yes after my other partners but I was able to tell her that openly)pleases me by being FEMININE, that turns me on for more. I say this to guys too...What turns on a girls is what they define as being MASCULINE...not what a guy thinks is MASCULINE. I stand open to a lot of criticism by saying this but I think many women are just not FEMININE or SEXY in a way Man like...They have been reading too many magazines or watching Sex and the City or some Media version of what FEMININE/SEXY is. Everyone has their own opinion, most of all your partner. My partner is Feminine for me in the way I like, and I do the same for her. I try to be Masculine, not in the way that society tells me I should be but in what she gets turned on by. If that means have a steady job, so be it, if it means I wear colone, so be it, if it means I work out more, so be it. If she doesnt get turned on by me watching sports, I dont. If she needs someone to listen to her, I do. I cook. I do laundry but I am also a dirty fetish fiend in bed and she loves it. TRUST and giving leads to love and that leads to AWESOME SEX. HOW SEXY are you to your Parnter Are you Feminine/Masculine? Do what they like? Good luck to all, if I made any statements in here that has offended anyone, please accept my apologies. Non were intended.

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