Kris, Victoria
It's way more fun when the woman is on top! She has more control over the sexual experience, enabling her to achieve a more satisfying result.
Shirl, Cape Breton, N.S.
No matter what your age, sex with a loving partner can be fabulous. I did not find the right partner for myself until I was 68 years old and he was 73. We are together today and absolutely divinely happy. As I write this, we are off to a hotel to celebrate his birthday and the fact that the past two years have been utterly wonderful for both of us. The sex is great.
Pat, Toronto
Make your lover believe he's the best ever. Keep telling him that over and over. Constant repetition seeps into the subconscious mind. Eventually he will believe it and you will reap the rewards.
Char, Winnipeg
The best lesson I have learned about sex is that there is no one perfect scenario for great sex. Great sex is finding what works best for you and your partner and having fun with each other in and out of bed.
Nicole, Medicine Hat, Alta.
I think of a lover's body as an unexplored playground. I explore all the various ways to rock his world and never stop learning all about him. That means asking for feedback and also learning(from books, magazine articles, etc.)new ways to bring him pleasure so that over time, it doesn't become too predictable. Of course, I'm not shy about expecting, and getting, the same in return, either!
Donna, Georgetown, Ont.
First published in Chatelaine.com's January 2006 issue.
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