Dear Josey,
My girlfriend and I have great sex but while I can finish in most positions except when she’s on top. She can only finish on top. I prefer penetration while she prefers rubbing against me while on top, which gives me ingrown hairs. I’d be able to make her come orally but she doesn’t like me to go down on her. Any tips?
Finishing Needs Polish
Dear Finishing,
That does sounds like some great sex there. Like two peas in a pod. I’m not sure what sex manuals you’ve been reading, but I’ve obviously been reading the wrong ones if great sex equals sexual frustration. Let me make it simple for you.
You can finish in most positions. She can only finish in one. You do the math. It sucks her preferred method gives you ingrown hairs. But no orgasm for her vs. ingrown hairs for you? Again, do the math. Then, go get yourself an exfoliant and some Tend Skin from a local spa or pharmacy (exfoliate your crotch when you shower, then apply the Tend Skin with a cotton pad afterwards). If you like penetration while she’s on top, maybe she can indulge you in a poke or two before she starts doing her genie lamp act. But you do realize why she’s rubbing, right? Most women don’t come from penetration alone and need some clitoral rubbing or stimulation to get off. If she doesn’t like you going down on her, how about giving her a hand job or some manual stimulation during penetration. Same rubbing effect, no ingrown hairs -- win/win.



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