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  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.
  • Should I have done this?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Okay, so over the years my best friend has had a really great boyfriend - or so we thought. I'm regretting it a little since I got myself involved, but what he did to her was really horrible and the way it ended wasn't good at all. I'm not going to dive too deep into the details of what happened, but since I'm trying to help my friend cope I came up with a silly and stupid ploy to do for revenge. Apparently he cheated on her with this asian girl, and I feel cruel for doing this but I photoshopped his head onto a body of a Geisha... LOL!!!!! Stupid and immature, but my best friend Jenna needed a good laugh. We're debating whether or not we should send him and that girl the photo on Myspace or Facebook, but I'm kinda scared to, haha. What do you say? I think he deserves some embarrassment... Original picture - http://i45.tinypic.com/2d9bfo0.jpg Geisha makeover - http://i45.tinypic.com/142ubn8.jpg Hahaha, it's official. I am awesome. <3
  • PORN QUESTION........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    y husband and i have been going through a rough patch since we discovered i was pregnant in January 2008, now i have had the baby she is 3 months old my husband has started watching porn on the INTERNET body is not what it used to be and i dont like my husband becoming aroused over these women. How can i explain to my husband how i feel without making him feel like he is being attacked, he says that it helps with his sex drive does that mean i no longer turn him on. have any other women had a similar experience with there husband
  • If a girls your friend with benefits?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    But acts like you two are talking to form a relationship, what gives? What's that about? If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. I like her, should I turn this into a relationship?
  • Should I take this in a relationship direction?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me. I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing.
  • I have a question, regarding her feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    So this girl and I are at the friends with benefits stage, but so far she hasn't even let me kiss. On saturday she was looking in my eyes calling me handsome, and shy, and she pressed her body up against mines for warmth, linked my arm in hers, I knew she likes me, but I only got to kiss her on the forehead. I rubbed her butt, rubbed her back at the party, just to let her know it's alright to be physical with me. But when around public, or my close friends, I don't like to be intimate with women. Well today she asked me how I am in relationships and she said she sees the tension in me, and she gets a weird vibe from me I say good or bad she says not bad, and that she feels theres something I want to say to her. She changed infront of me today with her sister in the room and she's real cool with me, whats her intentions? I'm starting to like her, but stopping myself because its a friend with benefit thing. I was going to text her 2nite and say "Whats up would it be bugging if I asked if we could kick it tomorrow". Good or bad idea? Thanks. She's cool and I'd get with her, should I take it in the relationship direction?
  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 8 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................

Five Frugal Ways to Get Ready for Baby

Are recession worries tempering your joy over the imminent arrival of Baby No. 2? We've got what you need. With a few easy financial strategies, you can find the money you need to welcome your second child in style and serenity

By Sandra E. Martin
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1. Reduce, re-use, recycle. Chances are your first child was born into an embarrassment of baby-gear riches, as friends and relatives showered you with too-cute-to-resist gifts. Free up some cash by selling what you definitely don’t need; then organize the items you do plan to use with the new baby (sort sleepers and onesies by age; resurrect receiving blankets for swaddling, bring out the burp cloths, etc.). Then you’ll be able to identify if there are any items you still need and source those out as economically as possible. For instance, if baby No. 1 is still in the crib and you feel she isn’t ready to graduate to a big-kid bed, you might borrow cousin Amanda’s crib or check out gently-used options on Craigslist. Just be sure that any used items meetcurrent safety standards.

2. Curb your cash flow. A common financial mistake is waiting until your new baby arrives to trim spending. If you’ve been a two-income family, remember, unless your employer generously tops up government benefits, you’re about to face a year or so with substantially less money coming in (see , for tips on that front). So start living on your future, lower income now and sock away the spare cash in case of emergencies (a leaky roof won’t wait till you’re back at work!).

A few ideas for making life less expensive:

• Instead of meeting friends for dinner at a restaurant, have a potluck at your place or theirs.
• Switch to no-name packaged foods and cleaning products, at least some of the time. And stick mostly to the perimeter of the grocery store when you’re food shopping — that’ll help you avoid high-priced processed foods.
• Buy in bulk when it’s a good deal, and cook bulk meals to freeze; this will reduce the temptation to order takeout or rely on pricey frozen dinners.
• Keep your maternity clothing purchases to a minimum. Yes, you still need to dress yourself, but no one but you will remember if you wear the same skirt twice this week. And, once the baby’s born, you may never wear it again!

3. Divide and conquer. If you and your partner both qualify for parental leave top-up payments from your employers, it probably makes sense for you to divvy up the year at home with baby. Say mom gets 15 weeks of salary top-up; after those 15 weeks are over, she’s back to the bare-bones government benefits, which max out at $447 per week, before income tax. Unless dad’s salary is significantly higher than mom’s, you’ll probably pull in more cash overall if she goes back to work for baby’s final weeks at home, while dad claims his share of government benefits plus the full amount of top-up his employer offers.

4. Take a second look at your daycare decision. Can you afford to keep your first-born in daycare while you’re on leave? Do you even want to? Consider that, especially in big cities, taking your child out of care for a year could mean your family goes back to the end of the waiting list. Now’s the time to decide how you’re going to handle child care after your next leave. Can you afford to have two kids with your current care provider? If not, brainstorm other alternatives with your partner; for example, would it make sense for one of you to stay home? Ouronline calculatorcan help you decide. Find out about lower-cost, reliable care from friends or neighbours, and investigate those options as soon as you can.

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