You can count on three things in life: moms will always give advice, kids will always believe they know it all, and eventually, we will always realize our moms were right all along. Luckily, the cycle gets shorter as we age, and the advice just becomes more valuable with time.
Like so many of you who submitted your mothers' best advice to Chatelaine.com, I, too, have found my life is richer now that I listen to my mom. She always tells me that even when times get tough, I need to do the little things that make me happy. This year, that advice helped me through the end of a relationship that wasn't working, while keeping my sanity - and my belief in love - intact.
Whether you're navigating relationships, dealing with disappointments or figuring out how to live life to the fullest, we can all learn from the sage wisdom shared here. And because I didn't say it enough growing up, thanks for all the great advice, Mom.
"Thirty years ago, when I was about to be married, my mother told me: 'When you and your husband have a disagreement, never tell anyone else about it. Long after you have forgotten, others will remember.'"
- Heather White, Toronto
"I secretly fell in love and married at 18. My mother's advice on my wedding day seemed harsh, but it served me well. She said, 'Today you will become a wife. This is your choice, just remember this.' Thirty years later, I am a happily married woman, mother of four and grandmother of three. I've had such a wonderful life because I learned my mother's simple rule: 'You can't just quit when life doesn't go your way.'"
- Noreen Fellinger, Wawa, Ont.
"Just before I married, my wonderfully active mother told me: 'Remember, houses are made for people, not people for houses!' Whenever I have to choose between polishing the floor or taking the kids to do something, I recall her advice. And housekeeping always takes a back seat!"
- Hilary Clark, Vancouver
My mom used to say to me and my teenage friends: 'Girls, anyone can have a boyfriend - if they're willing to settle.'
- Stephanie Benay Dexter, High River, Alta.
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"I was helping to harvest potatoes in our community when a neighbouring family kept crowding in - which meant fewer potatoes and less money for us. I was young and angry and I wanted to tell the family exactly where to go. My mother said, 'Why make unnecessary enemies?' To create a lasting tension because of a stupid potato field would have been petty and immature. Since then, her advice has helped me re-examine how I deal with all the situations I face."
- Heather McIsaac, Florenceville, N.B.
"The nature of my complaint never mattered - boyfriend woes, menstrual cramps, homework or lack of sleep. My mother used a piece of advice over and over during my teen years: 'Go for a jog around the block. You'll feel better.' Funny that now, whenever I am up against something, I feel the need to walk in fresh air."
- Judith George, Milton, Ont.
My mom has a wonderful way of calming me down when I'm stressed about work. She says, 'Tell them to stuff it.' I never do, of course, but it makes me feel better.
- Marisa Latini, Toronto
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