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  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me?????????

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to meat the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • Facebook photos, do you think I am ugly, average or pretty?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

  • Have you ever felt like you dont matter?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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  • YIKES!!! Should I continue to date him or not?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    He shouts and gets angry for the slightest thing. He is very intolerant. He wants me to send him loving messages all the time, I do but not too many as we have only been dating 6 weeks. I want to take it slowly as I have been hurt before. I bought him presents (perfume, an easter egg, shirts). Sometimes he cancels dates but wants me to be available all the time when it suits him. Once did not show up at all and never called me. He went off for the weekend with his friends witout telling me and had his phone switched off. I was waiting at home for his call. He never apologised but ended up shouting at me that I worried his brother as I phoned his brother asking where he was and his brother didn't know. Yet, he wants me to be available for him when it suits him and gets angry when I am not. He gets angry easily for little things and has a temper. So I am not really sure he is a great guy .... He has no education and works in a factory and ever second week works on the night shift. I am studying for my Masters. His last girlfriends were vulgar and uneducated, one worked as a stripper. He used to work as a stripper. He is jealous and controlling and told him that I don't need to see my friends much any more. The first night we slept together he took me to a hotel. I dont know why he didnt take me back to his place. Ive been there since. I told him that I had been hurt in the past and that I wanted to take it slowly. He shouted and got angry and said "Everyone has been hurt in the past. Just get over it" He is not understanding but expects me to be understanding and caring towards him. Another time he got really angry because I asked to change bars and go to the bar next door as there were no seats at the bar we were at. Once when we slept together I went to the bathroom to get condoms. Three days later he brought it up in an angry voice that I destroyed the romantic moment by going to the bathroom to get condoms. Another time we arranged a blind date between my friend and his best friend and he got all angry and said "why would he phone her again as she won't sleep wth him, she is just looking for friendship" and was even shouting. SHOULD I CONTINUE TO DATE HIM? WOULD MANY WOMEN TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOUR? He also told me that I talk too much about my friends and their lives and that I should only talk about me and him and our future together. Also, some of his friends occassionally go with prostitutes even though they are married.
  • Should I do this or not? Or how to make him feel "gutted"?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    this guy hurt me in some way. he was always saying how much he "likes" me, he was telling me things like "your the one ... we've got so much in common... we need to go out ..." etc. at the time, when he was asking me out, I wasn't sure it was a good idea (I didn't know him that much, he was showing his interest, which turned out to be lie) so I said "maybe not now, maybe later". after this he stopped talking to me, I was so mad at him - he was ignoring me all week, and then - thanks to facebook - I found out that all this time he was adding my girlfriends to his friends list! and more - once my bro caught him during his date with one of my friends! luckily this girl didn't know that it was my bro and that this lier and hypocrite was asking me out as well. I was so mad at him. and the ugliest part of this story is that when he sees me in uni, he starts flirting! can you believe it? oh gosh I want to do something to make him feel miserable, angry and furious! I had this little plan, but I'm not sure it's good enough - I'll delete him from my friends list and then I'll send him msg like "sorry, my boyfriend didn't want you in my friends list" hah! how good/bad is that? or maybe you can suggest something else? he hurts girls' hearts, now it's time to make him feel that way! [evil laugh]. or maybe it's better just to ignore him? I'm confused.
  • Why am I with this fat, hairy, balding, lazy loser who wont hold a job?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    he also is a rude smoker, messy and basically not a considerate person when it comes to sharing a house. In the beginning it was completely different, this was 3 years ago, now I get all this plus hardly any sex or much needed attention, and that was the best part in the beginning. So what does that say about me, honestly...no jokes please, im already up all night in tears!
  • my parernts-in-law are always saying how it's cruel to love their daughter without loving them -is this true?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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  • Why is pot such a crutch? Do you think its addictive?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    My BF is such a nicer guy when he smokes pot. In fact he can be quite the jerk when he doesnt. everytime he gets some he is outside taking a hit every 15 minutes. its incredible. plus instead of getting tired from it, he stays up all night smoking it. He tried a few times to quit, but goes right back to it because he has no patience, flys off the handle, and stays depressed and is even mean alot to me. I dont know if I want him to quit or not, but im not sure i can handle it either way.
  • I want MY EYES to stand OUT!! but HOW?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Me and my Mum want our eyes to stand out but HOW?? my mum has blue eyes.. i have brown eyes.. can u sugget anythink a list of colors of eaither... ?? thanks x what eyeshadow colors ??????????

Back-to-School Advice for Adults

What to consider for a successful return to learning ...

By Martha Li
Back-to-School Advice for Adults
Elementary school kids and teenagers will be back in the classrooms in just a few weeks. Perhaps you, too, are contemplating a return to academia. Here are five essential things to think about if you’re considering seeking higher education.

Your purpose for going back to school

Do you want to further your existing career or switch careers altogether? Or maybe you’re simply looking to enrich your knowledge base in a subject you currently know nothing about. Whatever the reason, it's important to define why you want to return to school and the goals you intend to achieve.

Your finances
There are many costs associated with a return to formal education, including the income you’ll be losing out on during the time you’ll be in school. If necessary, are you willing to take out a loan, dip into your savings or even move back home to pursue higher education? Thoroughly go over your financial situation and consider all these factors when making your decision.

Receiving funding from your employer
If your main goal is to improve yourself at your existing job, then check to see if your employee benefits include tuition reimbursements. This could be a great way for you to return to school without financing it entirely on your own. Keep in mind, however, your employer is expecting a return on their investment. They will likely only approve tuition reimbursements for courses which will clearly enhance your job performance. Also, be aware of any stipulations such as a required minimum grade to be achieved or the length of time you must stay with the company after you’ve completed your studies.

The amount of time you’re able to invest
Anticipate the length of time it will take for you to complete your formal studies. Are you looking to finish as fast as possible or are you alright with the idea of completing your studies at a slower pace? Also, given your other responsibilities, estimate the amount of time you’ll be able to reasonably set aside for school. These are all factors that will help to determine the programs available to you, and whether now is the right time to go back to school.

How your plans will affect your significant other
If you’re in a committed relationship, it’s important to have the support and understanding of your spouse. Talk openly with him about your goals and reasons for returning to school, as well as all the implications, so that both of you are prepared for what lies ahead. Things to talk about include any possible shifts to household duties as well as how each of you feels about living on a lesser income during the period that you’re in school.

How it will change your daily life
Be prepared for an adjustment in your lifestyle. Tuition and textbooks are costly so you may have to scale down on some of the luxuries your full-time income has afforded you thus far. Returning to school is going to require you to dedicate a large number of hours to studying, attending lectures, and working on projects and assignments. The most important thing is to prioritize your commitments so you don’t wind up feeling overwhelmed and exhausted.

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