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  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me?????????

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to meat the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • Facebook photos, do you think I am ugly, average or pretty?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

  • Have you ever felt like you dont matter?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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  • YIKES!!! Should I continue to date him or not?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    He shouts and gets angry for the slightest thing. He is very intolerant. He wants me to send him loving messages all the time, I do but not too many as we have only been dating 6 weeks. I want to take it slowly as I have been hurt before. I bought him presents (perfume, an easter egg, shirts). Sometimes he cancels dates but wants me to be available all the time when it suits him. Once did not show up at all and never called me. He went off for the weekend with his friends witout telling me and had his phone switched off. I was waiting at home for his call. He never apologised but ended up shouting at me that I worried his brother as I phoned his brother asking where he was and his brother didn't know. Yet, he wants me to be available for him when it suits him and gets angry when I am not. He gets angry easily for little things and has a temper. So I am not really sure he is a great guy .... He has no education and works in a factory and ever second week works on the night shift. I am studying for my Masters. His last girlfriends were vulgar and uneducated, one worked as a stripper. He used to work as a stripper. He is jealous and controlling and told him that I don't need to see my friends much any more. The first night we slept together he took me to a hotel. I dont know why he didnt take me back to his place. Ive been there since. I told him that I had been hurt in the past and that I wanted to take it slowly. He shouted and got angry and said "Everyone has been hurt in the past. Just get over it" He is not understanding but expects me to be understanding and caring towards him. Another time he got really angry because I asked to change bars and go to the bar next door as there were no seats at the bar we were at. Once when we slept together I went to the bathroom to get condoms. Three days later he brought it up in an angry voice that I destroyed the romantic moment by going to the bathroom to get condoms. Another time we arranged a blind date between my friend and his best friend and he got all angry and said "why would he phone her again as she won't sleep wth him, she is just looking for friendship" and was even shouting. SHOULD I CONTINUE TO DATE HIM? WOULD MANY WOMEN TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOUR? He also told me that I talk too much about my friends and their lives and that I should only talk about me and him and our future together. Also, some of his friends occassionally go with prostitutes even though they are married.
  • Should I do this or not? Or how to make him feel "gutted"?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    this guy hurt me in some way. he was always saying how much he "likes" me, he was telling me things like "your the one ... we've got so much in common... we need to go out ..." etc. at the time, when he was asking me out, I wasn't sure it was a good idea (I didn't know him that much, he was showing his interest, which turned out to be lie) so I said "maybe not now, maybe later". after this he stopped talking to me, I was so mad at him - he was ignoring me all week, and then - thanks to facebook - I found out that all this time he was adding my girlfriends to his friends list! and more - once my bro caught him during his date with one of my friends! luckily this girl didn't know that it was my bro and that this lier and hypocrite was asking me out as well. I was so mad at him. and the ugliest part of this story is that when he sees me in uni, he starts flirting! can you believe it? oh gosh I want to do something to make him feel miserable, angry and furious! I had this little plan, but I'm not sure it's good enough - I'll delete him from my friends list and then I'll send him msg like "sorry, my boyfriend didn't want you in my friends list" hah! how good/bad is that? or maybe you can suggest something else? he hurts girls' hearts, now it's time to make him feel that way! [evil laugh]. or maybe it's better just to ignore him? I'm confused.
  • Why am I with this fat, hairy, balding, lazy loser who wont hold a job?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    he also is a rude smoker, messy and basically not a considerate person when it comes to sharing a house. In the beginning it was completely different, this was 3 years ago, now I get all this plus hardly any sex or much needed attention, and that was the best part in the beginning. So what does that say about me, honestly...no jokes please, im already up all night in tears!
  • I want MY EYES to stand OUT!! but HOW?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Me and my Mum want our eyes to stand out but HOW?? my mum has blue eyes.. i have brown eyes.. can u sugget anythink a list of colors of eaither... ?? thanks x what eyeshadow colors ??????????
  • Why is he acting like more of a roomate to me?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    My boyfriend inherited 10K, now thats not alot of money. First thing he did was quit his job, then we decided to get a business going and are supposed to be usung this to start it because we are both unemployed. I am doing all the work and he stays up for hours on t he computer looking for ways to spend this money that has nothing to do with business. Not only am i afraid he is going to blow right thru this money, but I am getting no attention or affection from him at all, we dont have sex, he is just too busy having money. I have tried to talk to him, but he calls it "anxiety", i call it a kid with a little cash. Any input or suggestions? please!
  • Why do I feel like this... 10 points for best answer?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I already asked this question in mental health section, but i didn't get the respond I need so i posted here in this section 'cause I so in need for a good answer... Few days ago my sweet boyfriend (he's the first man in my life) that I love and trust blindly hurt me when we were talking about his book that going to be published soon and he admitted that used his writing talent from the start to make me love him only because I’ve never been touched by any man before and never been in love so he wanted to be the first and he said it exactly like this: " I wanted to make love to you because I knew if I would be the first man inside you that there would never be another man to ever get your love" I haven't showed him and sign of pain or anger or anything, I pretended everything is good and I’m ok with what he said but I spent two days crying and feeling so much pain and lonely thinking about the big fake fairy tale I was living. And then things wont worst yesterday when some guy I used to like very much called me after long time never heard from him, I thought everything going to be great with his call and he can make me feel better after my big disappointed with my bf. But the shock was that he didn’t even recognize me and said he only called because he found my number in his cell phone so he called to know whose number is this. I felt it right in my stomach like a stab that deep pain but I swallowed my tears and said like it doesn't matter who am I then hanged up the phone. I felt like crying but couldn’t drop a tear maybe one hour later I dropped some tears then nothing just went to the kitchen and have a late dinner which I don’t usually then went to bed… And when I woke up this morning I started to have this weird feelings or better say I have no feelings at all... I felt like nothing happened at all in the past few days I am not happy or even sad nothing at all. My mother yelled at me and insulted me because of something I told and didn't feel bad for it and didn't even got bothered with her words. And I watched this poor sick child with cancer on the TV and it was normal to me I didn’t felt pain for him. I tried to do my exercise but I couldn’t and thought like: what for? I tried to listen to some music but couldn’t feel the rhythm, I tried to pray but I couldn’t reach to the spiritual level in the prays and also tried to write about my failure relationship and some poetries but felt like there’s nothing to write about. I truly don’t know what’s wrong with me! Even when I am writing these words I don't feel like real worry I don’t' know how to describe it exactly but I only wonder why am I like this and how did I reach this level. So please would any body tell me what’s really going with me? Anything would help really. Most appreciated

Older moms spur mini baby boom

By Sue Bailey, THE CANADIAN PRESS
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OTTAWA - Older moms delivered a slight baby boom in 2007, a statistical jump that will continue to fray the national patchwork of child-care services, advocates warn.

Statistics Canada reported Tuesday that 367,864 babies were born that year - 13,247 or 3.7 per cent more than in 2006.

The number of births rose in all age groups, particularly among mothers aged 30 to 34, and in every province and territory except Prince Edward Island and Yukon.

The number of babies born in 2007 was the highest since 1995 and the fifth straight annual increase. More than half the jump in births, 56 per cent, was traced to women aged 30 or older.

Improved maternity and parental benefits allowing eligible parents to stay home for about a year have helped families, said Jody Dallaire of the Child Care Advocacy Association of Canada.

But the vast majority of parents want or need to return to full-time work once that cash dries up, she said. And they often face intense stress finding safe, reliable child care that is also affordable.

"It's going to be tough for those families to balance their life and work responsibilities," Dallaire said.

It's not unusual for unsubsidized child care to cost about $1,200 a month - if you can find it.

Nadine Goguen, 34, of Moncton, N.B., is expecting her third child in January.

The full-time public servant has a master's degree in business administration. She had her first child at 29.

Many mothers wait a bit longer to have children "to get established career-wise," she said. The trick is finding reliable, high-quality care that allows new moms to get back to work.

Goguen has created a computer spread sheet to help her track centres where a rare space might open for a baby as a young as four months old.

Most centres in the province don't accept children younger than 15 months, she explained. Goguen's potential pool of high-quality spaces is even smaller because she also wants her children to be taught in French.

"We want to raise our children to be fluently bilingual."

Just as more babies were born in 2007, federal funding for new child-care spaces was shrinking.

A report last week cited a drop in total federal transfers for regulated child care to $600 million in 2007-08 compared to $950 million the year before and $725 million in 2005-06.

Co-author Martha Friendly, an early learning researcher who tracks provincial services, said 77 per cent of working mothers had children aged three to five in 2007. But there were only enough regulated spaces for 20 per cent of kids up to the age of five.

Among the bright spots in the country are Quebec and Manitoba where provincial governments have at least committed to expanding or maintaining services, Dallaire said.

Elsewhere, "unfortunately right now the federal money that is flowing has very few strings attached. So there's very little way to make sure these dollars are spent on early learning and child care."

According to StatsCan, total fertility rates - the average number of children per woman - increased to 1.66 in 2007 from 1.59 in 2006.

While that was the highest total fertility rate since 1992, it remained well below the level of 2.1 children per woman needed to offset deaths.

That is the fertility rate that must be maintained to replace the population in the absence of migration.

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