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  • Calling all guys your needed here!!!!!!!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    ok so I always have guy friends but never a boyfriend. Well I have but it's been a long time since I Had one. So how do I get a guy friend to ask me out? or just any guy for that matter
  • my granda passed away so suddenly!!!!......................?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    i am very sad now....i feel like .......... i am useless anyone can help me to cheer up before i go berserk...........T.T it happened when my grandpa talked to me.. i ask him he wan durian.. he blinked his eye and.......... left this world..............................................
  • Do you ever listen to girls conversation? What kind of things do you hear?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I overheard some girls talking when I was walking through the hallway. I know this is sneaky and the fact that I was behind a door is different than sitting down somewhere and listening to people talk to try to talk to them or you just happen to be there. I have no experience with girls.....I never been on a date and I never had a girl that was really a friend...more like acquaintances or short term people I associate myself with I guess i'm just trying to figure them out since I can't seem to get a date
  • How to deal with nights like tonight?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    Perhaps I've seen one to many horror movies about a teen girl home alone but im genuinly scared right now. Im only 14 but my mom lives an hour away and my dad works nights! He started working nights like during the summer but i was never worried because i was always 1 mile away from my grandparents and my aunt so i knew they could be here in a matter of minutes. either that or on nights he had to work i'd just spend the night with them. But tonight my dad wont be back for hours and my aunt is out of town and my grandparents went out to eat with some long lost relatives ( i was not invited ) so im very paranoid as you can tell. Every noise freaks me out (which there are many because even though its the country i live in a busy neighborhood. how do i deal with this? all my family is either at dinner 30 min away and no where near ready to finish, out of town on buisness or (my moms side of the family) lives 4 states away!! IM ONLY 14!!! I talked to my dad but he wont work days so i have to deal with it but my aunt is a cop and this city isnt exactly safe so please help me!!! How do i get through the night without being scared?
  • am i pretty!?!?!?!?!?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    seriously, im having a crisis, if i spelled it right....i need well, actually ANYBODYS opinion, if this was a desent pic of me, do u guys think im pretty, if u dont, what can i do to change that!?!?!?!?!
  • Do ladies get turned on by a guy with a deep voice or is that all myth?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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  • How to spice up sex life?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 9 hours ago

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    What are ways to spice up sex life? Im trying to learn and experiment different stuff...suggestions anyone?
  • does anyone else think that they're going to end up alone?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    i know i will.
  • What do I do if my ex-boyfriend is getting over me but I can't get over him?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and my ex is 19. We were together for one year. He is obviously getting over me as he started college recently at a university and he's added a few girls he goes to school with on Facebook. Me, on the otherhand, I haven't met any guys after him and I'm just always thinking about him so it's hard to get over him. I hate that he's meeting all these girls and I'm not meeting any new guys that I'm interested in. I'm kind of jealous. What should I do?
  • Please read this poem that I made about my dad?

    Family - 9 hours ago

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    Hi, Please read my poem - I know that it's long. However, it would be greatly appreciated i you can tell me what you think of it. (Please not that I am almost eighteen years old) It’s been so long since our family fell apart. I’ll never forget the damage that you punctured into my heart. All the grief, the misery, and the darkness that you put me through and how you never cared what I wanted to do. Now that you have a new family, suddenly now you decide to care. Words are only words that I only hear, but the truth is that you’re never there. You never saw the development of the woman that I became today. You only remember the bad choices that I made. But still, you want me back in your life just to please your new daughter and your wife. I’m sure that you never told them how you made my life burn like fire and how you tried to persuade me of throwing away my true desires. So, I can be daddy’s perfect picture. My heart will always remain pure, unlike yours who destroyed every hope that I had in you. Good luck to you trying to pretend to your baby girl that you’re a perfect dad. Honey, he’ll only tear your heart apart and at the end at of the day he will only see the bad. He’ll leave you crying in the corner full of misery and then he’ll try to convince you that he will change. Dad, it’s always the same. The games you play, the lies that slip out of your mouth and how you smile with that evil grin. You’re such a disappointment in my eyes, and I can count how many times you commuted sin. I’m better off now with out you holding my hand, because you were never there after all. You only watched every time someone punched me into the wall. Saying that I should do better, and you only let me down. I only hoped that one day that you would come around, to tell me that you are proud. We can’t rewrite history, and you can’t fixed the damage in my heart. Because you made me feel worthless, and that I can never end what I started. After everything that you put me through, I’m glad that I never put my faith in you.

Conception Countdown

By Ann Douglas
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Hoping to win at Baby Roulette? Before you and your partner toss the birth control in the trash and embark on any serious babymaking efforts, you’ve got some important decisions to make. The choices you make right now are every bit as important to your future baby’s health and well-being as the decisions you make after the pregnancy test comes back positive.

Here are ten steps you should plan to take in the year prior to conception.

SIX MONTHS TO A YEAR AHEAD OF TIME

1. What’s up, doc? A generation ago, your doctor would have thought you were crazy if you called to set up an appointment to talk about your plans to start trying to conceive. Today, it’s fast becoming the norm for couples to book a preconception health checkup. You may have to do a little arm-twisting to get your partner to accompany you to your appointment—a lot of guys feel that their role in Operation Conception is limited to heading up the elite Sperm Squadron forces!—but, whether he’s prepared to admit it or not, your partner also needs to do a little preconception health planning of his own.

2. Testing one, two, three. I know, I know: lying spread-eagled on an examination table isn’t my idea of a good time either, but the experts are pretty much unanimous on this point: the ideal time to schedule a pap test is before you start trying to conceive. That way, should anything abnormal show up, you and your doctor will be able to deal with the problem prior to rather than during your pregnancy.

3. All systems go. You wouldn’t even dream of heading off on a cross-country expedition checking to ensure that your car’s equipment was in good working order. Well, you’re about to embark on the ultimate of journeys—the journey to motherhood—so it’s even more important to make sure that your body is firing on all cylinders. Your doctor will generally give you the green flag if you are in reasonably good health (e.g. any chronic health conditions such as heart problems, diabetes, or high blood pressure are under control; and you haven’t tested positive for any sexually-transmitted diseases such as chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea). Your doctor may also want to talk to you about any hazards that you may face in the workplace—strenuous working conditions or exposure to hazardous agents, for example—since they may impact on your pregnancy as well, notes Ottawa maternal/fetal medicine specialist Andree Gruslin, M.D.

4. The human pincushion. Don’t relish the thought of being turned into a human pincushion? Chances are you won’t have to. While it’s always a good idea to have your immunity to both rubella (German measles) and chickenpox checked before you start trying to conceive, most adult Canadian women are immune to these two diseases. If it turns out that you’re not, it’s time to roll up your sleeve: both diseases can be devastating to the developing baby. What’s more, according to Vancouver family physician Colleen Kirkham, if contracted during pregnancy, chickenpox can pose significant health risks for the pregnant woman as well.

5. Shaking your family tree. Something else you might want to do before you and your partner move into the “action phase” of babymaking is to find out what types of skeletons are hiding in your family tree. Certain types of birth defects and serious—even fatal—disease are genetic in origin, and it’s possible that you and your partner may be carriers for certain types of inherited diseases. A geneticist can help you to determine your odds of giving birth to a healthy baby.

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8 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Bianca on Fri, Nov 20, 2009

    jimileed- I have a 6 month old son, and am planning on having another one in a few years. I am perfectly ready to make this choice. Overpopulation has nothing to do with welfare sweety. Welfare is a government assistance program to help low-income families support their future. And as for Aids, and STDs, just because you become pregnant, does not mean that you will get an STD. Likewise, just because you have an STD does not mean you have been pregnant. I am STD free, so is my partner, I have had a baby, and when I have my second child, I will still be disease free. Maybe before you post nonsense to a message board you should do a little research instead of giving half baked, harebrained opinions, that are void of actual facts honey.

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  • 2. Posted by Tanisha on Sun, Oct 18, 2009

    jimileed I'm not sorry to say but your mother should of abort you,and she would of saved the money it cause to raise you and bought a house. Now how dare you, you ingreat. there are people out there that have soo much love to give and you as a animal feel it should'nt happen. you are an a**hole

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  • 3. Posted by Jane on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    well jimileed its obvious you are against children being bought into this world but what would you say to your mum, do you wish she never had you! people who want babies it should be up to them to judge whether they can look after their children, they wouldn't try if they didn't want the responsibility and if they are in a relationship with that special someone and want to start a family well who are you to judge them, we have been trying for a number of years and will do until successful

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  • 4. Posted by Tasha R on Mon, Sep 14, 2009

    Well,I found this helpful... and as for Jimileed... so just because i was not blessed with a silver spoon u think I shouldn't be allowed to have a child?

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  • 5. Posted by Diane K on Sun, Aug 30, 2009

    you are an idiot

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  • 6. Posted by Jazzie S on Mon, Jun 8, 2009

    yeah this article is really helpful. I am very thankfull for having a heart to share these informations.the reason why we search for this article is we are sure that we know the responsibility of commiting this things. and you can't do it if you're not ready.Since you are interested with this topic it means that you are ready because you know that you become a responsible parent in the future. Keep it up, you had a wonderful insight. You're super.

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  • 7. Posted by Amanda on Thu, May 7, 2009

    To jimileed whoa u know what wwelfare is not a bad thing me and my husband have food stamps and we both work so b4 u open u mouth maybe u should think twice

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  • 8. Posted by Jimileed on Sun, May 3, 2009

    YOU ALL ARE CRAZY TO B THINKING OF GETTING PREGGERS IN THIS DAY AND AGE!!! UMMM.... DOES OVER POPULATION MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU PEOPLE? STD'S? AIDS? EVEN NEW ONES THAT WE HAVEN'T HEARD OF YET!! CAN YOU AFFORD A CHILD OR IS PUBLIC ASSISTANCE (WELFARE) YOUR JOB OF CHOICE? YOU SHOULDN'T B HAVING A CHILD IF YOU CANNOT SUPPORT YOUR OWN SELF FOR A GOOD FIVE YEARS!!! THEY ARE ALOT OF WORK!! THINK ABOUT IT B4 YOU TAKE THE PLUNGE!!!

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