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  • I'm depressed!! And i want this feeling to go away!! How can i do that?

    Friends - 4 hours ago

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    Well it's kinda a long story but i meet this boy last year and we became good friends, and then i'm in the 8th grade and he's in the 9th grade so now he wont talk to me or hug me he just think i'm invisible all the time! like he doesn't see me anymore!! So i gave him a letter but he called me a cleany or something like that!! and it means that i hug him to much!! other girls hug him too! why not me? but i love hugging boys!! so now what i don't want to be depressed all my life help me!!
  • pick yes or no????????????

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    i have something in my mind please help me by pick either yes or no????? thanks alot
  • My girlfriend told me last night she liked her ex still and i felt sick in the stomach.Ignore it or act?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Her ex use to abuse her and did things no human should do to a women
  • Does she still like me?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I went out with this girl, and we loved each other very much. We would always tell each other we love each other. we never kissed cuz im really shy and don't talk much. becuz i dont talk much, she broke up wit me. we still flirt with each other and i still love her. i tried to get her back, but she said if i wasn't with another guy i would be going back out. Is she joking? Also my other friend, said she was checking me out, but i never noticed it. i asked her and she said "i don't remember". i told her i didn't notice cuz i was lost in her eyes. she said"awwww". She always calls me cute, messes with me, calls me boob(she has always called me that), invites me to everything, touches me(pushes, pinches, ect.) when she can, and she looks at me, but when i look at her, she looks away. She is really nice and very beautiful. i text her constantly and if i dont text her first, she texts me at any chance possible. Does she still like me or not? Please help and thank you also, im only 13 and we r BFF's now. she told me that she wishes we would have kissed and i feel bad. we only went out for about a month
  • If I wanted to move on from someone, would God help me, or no?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    There is this girl who I want to move on from. If I want to move on, must I do it all by myself, or will He help me with it?? What if He doesnt want me to move on??
  • Women, Do You Consider Yourself A Strong Person?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    Not physically, but mentally and emotionally... When you and your partner fight, or have an argument or a conflict, and it hurts so so so bad, how do you deal with it? When you want to talk about the issue because you want to fix it because you want to have a happy and healthy relationhip but your partner doesn't want to, how do you deal with it?
  • Would you say my ex boyfriend still is attracted to me?10 points to best answer.?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    We offical broke up tuesday and to sum up why we broke up, he wanted a break for a week, I was misunderstanding.dumped him the next day. he wanted me back, I said sorry and we were gona get back together then **** happened and he never called then he tried to call but I was mad because he took so long so I made it sound like I didn't want him back then he was hurt and didn't want me back when I tried the next day and then I sent him a sorry message and say I am understanding now, I was wrong and blah. he accepted it but he still wants to be friends. were on good terms now Anyway. I went up to his locker to say hi to him and the whole time he was making eye conact with me and smiling and laughing and was all happy. He was like "Hi! how are you, how did your finals go" and stuff. and like "What are you doing this weekend" so we talked a little bit but the whole time I acted depressed then he was like "are you wearing lotion or something" then he's like with a teasing smile "you smell reallly goood" and he just kept looking at me and then after I thought I should go, cause I thought he was leaving and when I tried to leave he went up to me and he was just like laughing and he's like where are you going and I said "social studies" and he's like "ok I will walk you there" so I just wanted to be like uh no because I wanted to cry but I was like ok but I walked behind him and I was looking at the ground then he appeared next to me and he's like "are you ok" and im like "yeahh" and he looked at my shoes and since their all draw over he laughed and he's like again with this teasing, cute smile "I likke your outfit"and im like "thanks.." (but the thing is I was just wearing a baggy gray sweatshirt,jeans and conversers..nothing special) and then he moved my hair and touched my face and smiled and I kinda smiled akwadly and he seemed like he felt akward then and hes like "something wa son ur uh face" and im like "thanks..." and then I kinda stoped talking to hima and he turned at the corner without saying bye -also at his locker I noticed he left up my post it note that I put on saying "my full name loves his full name forever. so I mean idn maybe he just didnt feel like taking it down. so does it sound like hes still attracted to me. because I mean eys I want him back but I atleast wana no hes still attracted to me. like I mean I am nto saying I would fool around with him, but does it sounds like he could be freinds with benefits with me. because myabe going to a realtionshipw would be stupid because hes leavinf gor college next year. but I really do love him and I mean I wana be more then friends.
  • tried to move on but i cant!?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    my story is that i met this guy from england in januarywhile he was here in the states on vacation, and we really hit it off. i hung out with him only twice for a total of maybe 7-8 hours or so. i FELL IN LOVE. and he really started to like me too, and he told me he did. when he went back to england, i found him on facebook like he wanted me to and we talked occaionally. then i noticed he was in a relationship...slowly we havent talked in a long time. im extremely jealous of this girl because i know that if he was here, we'd be together. now we havent talked in a few months. i know he has completely moved on. i still think about him everyday. everything reminds me of him and its really hard. i even sent him a message recently and recieved no return. people have given me the same advice to move on already and they'll be another guy just as good or better. its just impossible. ive tried to find a distaction in another guy, but theres no one. i dont know what i expected, i mean really. its just hard to know that he read my message and didnt even respond. its been 11 months, and i still havent gone through a day that i havent thought of him. i hate that he doesnt think of me like that... what should i do? song suggestions? HELP
  • Does he actually like me? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    So this is what happened yesterday, I was at lunch in my table talking with my BFF's. And then this guy name Luis came over to our table with his detention paper and showed it to his friends. Then I heard Luis say "Hey hang hang on I got to talk to this girl." So he sat next to me and he said "What's up?" and he just kept staring at me up and down. And I said nothing much and then he said "So anything personal you want to tell me? Because I know yesterday your friends said you like me...Oh wait, what was it? Right....Genevieve likes me." (genevieve is my name but when he said that he didn't mean it in a mean way) Then after he said that he looked down at the table and was nervous for a few seconds then he said "Why did you tell your friends that you like me? I wanted it to be kept a secret..." and I just told him I don't know. And then he was like "Did you just looked at me in the yearbook?" and I told him yes and then suddenly my friend Cassandra just blirted out to me saying "Genevieve don't act like a *****...." and I told her "But I'm not acting like a *****...." and then Luis said "Who called you a *****?" and I said "Cassandra did." and suddenly it looked like as if he defended me because he said this to Cassandra: "Shut the **** up don't call her a *****." then he looked at his picture in the yearbook and he said to his own picture "Haha **** you!" very rapidly. Then somehow at the end he just kept staring at me and staring at me and so did I and I was a little nervous and then Cassandra said "Why are you staring at her?" and he said "I don't know 'cause I'm bored...." and he kept staring at me and not looking anywhere else and I also stared at him and we didn't say anything. Then I heard my other friend Marrisa whispering to my friend Cassandra saying "I think there having there moment...." and then the bell rong and then he got out of his chair and I just packed up and when he passed by me he turned back to look at me one more time. Also in the beginning I called him cute and he then he said "Yeah...." while staring down. I think he doesn't want to admit that he also likes me too? Also I kind of stalk him when he talks to girls and he just acts all normal to them and he doesn't even stare at them that much and I've noticed that he talks to them differently then when he talks to me. Does he like me? Is he kind of nervous to admit his feelings even though he has the confidence to come and talk to me? How can I move on to the next level with him? We don't know each other that much we recently started talking about 1/2 weeks ago. Also I swear whenever he stares at me he stares STRAIGHT INTO MY EYES not anywhere else and so do I. My heart beats a little because I do like him.
  • Do girls actually like sex?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    It really seems like they don't. Like they're all sophisticated and above it. Do they just do it to please their man?

Conception Countdown

By Ann Douglas
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Hoping to win at Baby Roulette? Before you and your partner toss the birth control in the trash and embark on any serious babymaking efforts, you’ve got some important decisions to make. The choices you make right now are every bit as important to your future baby’s health and well-being as the decisions you make after the pregnancy test comes back positive.

Here are ten steps you should plan to take in the year prior to conception.

SIX MONTHS TO A YEAR AHEAD OF TIME

1. What’s up, doc? A generation ago, your doctor would have thought you were crazy if you called to set up an appointment to talk about your plans to start trying to conceive. Today, it’s fast becoming the norm for couples to book a preconception health checkup. You may have to do a little arm-twisting to get your partner to accompany you to your appointment—a lot of guys feel that their role in Operation Conception is limited to heading up the elite Sperm Squadron forces!—but, whether he’s prepared to admit it or not, your partner also needs to do a little preconception health planning of his own.

2. Testing one, two, three. I know, I know: lying spread-eagled on an examination table isn’t my idea of a good time either, but the experts are pretty much unanimous on this point: the ideal time to schedule a pap test is before you start trying to conceive. That way, should anything abnormal show up, you and your doctor will be able to deal with the problem prior to rather than during your pregnancy.

3. All systems go. You wouldn’t even dream of heading off on a cross-country expedition checking to ensure that your car’s equipment was in good working order. Well, you’re about to embark on the ultimate of journeys—the journey to motherhood—so it’s even more important to make sure that your body is firing on all cylinders. Your doctor will generally give you the green flag if you are in reasonably good health (e.g. any chronic health conditions such as heart problems, diabetes, or high blood pressure are under control; and you haven’t tested positive for any sexually-transmitted diseases such as chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea). Your doctor may also want to talk to you about any hazards that you may face in the workplace—strenuous working conditions or exposure to hazardous agents, for example—since they may impact on your pregnancy as well, notes Ottawa maternal/fetal medicine specialist Andree Gruslin, M.D.

4. The human pincushion. Don’t relish the thought of being turned into a human pincushion? Chances are you won’t have to. While it’s always a good idea to have your immunity to both rubella (German measles) and chickenpox checked before you start trying to conceive, most adult Canadian women are immune to these two diseases. If it turns out that you’re not, it’s time to roll up your sleeve: both diseases can be devastating to the developing baby. What’s more, according to Vancouver family physician Colleen Kirkham, if contracted during pregnancy, chickenpox can pose significant health risks for the pregnant woman as well.

5. Shaking your family tree. Something else you might want to do before you and your partner move into the “action phase” of babymaking is to find out what types of skeletons are hiding in your family tree. Certain types of birth defects and serious—even fatal—disease are genetic in origin, and it’s possible that you and your partner may be carriers for certain types of inherited diseases. A geneticist can help you to determine your odds of giving birth to a healthy baby.

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8 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Bianca on Fri, Nov 20, 2009

    jimileed- I have a 6 month old son, and am planning on having another one in a few years. I am perfectly ready to make this choice. Overpopulation has nothing to do with welfare sweety. Welfare is a government assistance program to help low-income families support their future. And as for Aids, and STDs, just because you become pregnant, does not mean that you will get an STD. Likewise, just because you have an STD does not mean you have been pregnant. I am STD free, so is my partner, I have had a baby, and when I have my second child, I will still be disease free. Maybe before you post nonsense to a message board you should do a little research instead of giving half baked, harebrained opinions, that are void of actual facts honey.

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  • 2. Posted by Tanisha on Sun, Oct 18, 2009

    jimileed I'm not sorry to say but your mother should of abort you,and she would of saved the money it cause to raise you and bought a house. Now how dare you, you ingreat. there are people out there that have soo much love to give and you as a animal feel it should'nt happen. you are an a**hole

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  • 3. Posted by Jane on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    well jimileed its obvious you are against children being bought into this world but what would you say to your mum, do you wish she never had you! people who want babies it should be up to them to judge whether they can look after their children, they wouldn't try if they didn't want the responsibility and if they are in a relationship with that special someone and want to start a family well who are you to judge them, we have been trying for a number of years and will do until successful

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  • 4. Posted by Tasha R on Mon, Sep 14, 2009

    Well,I found this helpful... and as for Jimileed... so just because i was not blessed with a silver spoon u think I shouldn't be allowed to have a child?

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  • 5. Posted by Diane K on Sun, Aug 30, 2009

    you are an idiot

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  • 6. Posted by Jazzie S on Mon, Jun 8, 2009

    yeah this article is really helpful. I am very thankfull for having a heart to share these informations.the reason why we search for this article is we are sure that we know the responsibility of commiting this things. and you can't do it if you're not ready.Since you are interested with this topic it means that you are ready because you know that you become a responsible parent in the future. Keep it up, you had a wonderful insight. You're super.

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  • 7. Posted by Amanda on Thu, May 7, 2009

    To jimileed whoa u know what wwelfare is not a bad thing me and my husband have food stamps and we both work so b4 u open u mouth maybe u should think twice

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  • 8. Posted by Jimileed on Sun, May 3, 2009

    YOU ALL ARE CRAZY TO B THINKING OF GETTING PREGGERS IN THIS DAY AND AGE!!! UMMM.... DOES OVER POPULATION MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU PEOPLE? STD'S? AIDS? EVEN NEW ONES THAT WE HAVEN'T HEARD OF YET!! CAN YOU AFFORD A CHILD OR IS PUBLIC ASSISTANCE (WELFARE) YOUR JOB OF CHOICE? YOU SHOULDN'T B HAVING A CHILD IF YOU CANNOT SUPPORT YOUR OWN SELF FOR A GOOD FIVE YEARS!!! THEY ARE ALOT OF WORK!! THINK ABOUT IT B4 YOU TAKE THE PLUNGE!!!

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