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  • I want to marry a ghanaian and we want to know what forms we have to submit?

    Weddings - 5 hours ago

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  • EX BF, keeps asking if im dating.. (10 points)?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Im single he is not, he ended it nearly one year ago, doesn't seem happy in new relationship. He recently started flirting with me, contacting me, he suggests to meet up for coffee a few times, but for some reason doesn't arrange it. is it quite likely he wants to try again? if so, why hasn't he.. I would really like to try again!
  • Some guy called me kinky...i need help?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    so i was texting this guy and i told him i was sore from gymnastics annd then he replies kinky... what the hell. i don't get it
  • My boyfriend smells really badly, and he just won't take the hint? Even when I tell him flat out?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    My boyfriend and I are both 21, and have been dating for 3 years. Recently, he has smelling really badly whenever I am around him. I ask him if he showers, brushes his teeth, etc..because I cannot for the life of me understand what is making him smell so bad. Recently, I was at his house, and I saw that he throws his laundry all over the place, doesn't wash his bed sheets, his house smelled musky and moldy, like he had mold. He told me" I shower twice a day, and wash my hair one of those times each day". Well, the smell isn't his hair, trust me. And sometimes he has even told me he forgets to brush his teeth for a couple of days! He is 21, he should not be acting like a 5 year old! And plus, he is over weight, and that being said, sweats more and seems to stink more. I ask him politely to put on more deodarant or shower again, and he says " I already put it on once today, and that's it im going to put it on". I don't know what to do with him. I love him, but it's never been as bad as this. I don't want to have a boyfriend that I have to go over and clean and wash his clothes, his bedsheets, remind him to wash right, or brush his teeth! I have tried sitting down talking to him, but he seems to just not care!! Should I just take this as a bad sign and just leave him??
  • How can I convince my fiance to do a test drive?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    I'm a Christian and I believe in sex and cohabitation before marriage. My fiance wants to wait till marriage to have sex, but I want to test drive before we get married. He must understand that times have changed and most women would never marry a virgin. If he won't change, I'll find another man who has a higher sex drive.
  • Guys! is it really that big of a deal if a girls boobs are not big?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    i am in shape and fit, i have a nice butt, but my chest is only about a B cup size. a small B. is really that big of a deal?!?! best answer will be chosen ***
  • Why does my wife act like she loves me more when I'm a jerk?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    I used to be caring, loving and romantic, and my wife treated me like crap. Now I'm cold, arrogant and distant and she tries to be all lovey dovey to me. She even mentioned missing the old me and I told her, "But its clear to me that you prefer the way I am now, because if you really liked how I was you would of been nicer to me back then." So what's up with this? I was a nice guy and she cheated on me and now I'm a jerk and she loves me more, but wants me to be a nice guy again? Can someone explain this to me?
  • My ex husband was deported I told him we're through ....?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    but not bc he was deported, for other reasons instead. Abuse and what not. He kept saying hes going to come to canada to be with me. Now that I am chatting on good terms with him he is saying whats the point of coming to canada, minds well stay in italy. So he clearly doesnt love me , right?
  • Just being friendly or more??

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    A guy in my college course would stare at me a lot. I started talking to him little bit by bit (im pretty shy tho, so can't do anything too obivous). He responded nicely, then all of a sudden he seemed to ignore me one day. Next day he keeps looking at me again, esp. when I laugh, which I do a lot in class haha. Anyway, how do I get to know him better. He's a Christian Conservative and so am I, which is hard to find on my campus.
  • Why would I be shallow because I refuse to support my boyfriend?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    He works a lot, I drive him around, gave me $ in the first months, now he just doesn't come up with it, excuses, lies. He says he loves me but when I said no $, then best to leave, he did very mad.

Conception Countdown

By Ann Douglas
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Hoping to win at Baby Roulette? Before you and your partner toss the birth control in the trash and embark on any serious babymaking efforts, you’ve got some important decisions to make. The choices you make right now are every bit as important to your future baby’s health and well-being as the decisions you make after the pregnancy test comes back positive.

Here are ten steps you should plan to take in the year prior to conception.

SIX MONTHS TO A YEAR AHEAD OF TIME

1. What’s up, doc? A generation ago, your doctor would have thought you were crazy if you called to set up an appointment to talk about your plans to start trying to conceive. Today, it’s fast becoming the norm for couples to book a preconception health checkup. You may have to do a little arm-twisting to get your partner to accompany you to your appointment—a lot of guys feel that their role in Operation Conception is limited to heading up the elite Sperm Squadron forces!—but, whether he’s prepared to admit it or not, your partner also needs to do a little preconception health planning of his own.

2. Testing one, two, three. I know, I know: lying spread-eagled on an examination table isn’t my idea of a good time either, but the experts are pretty much unanimous on this point: the ideal time to schedule a pap test is before you start trying to conceive. That way, should anything abnormal show up, you and your doctor will be able to deal with the problem prior to rather than during your pregnancy.

3. All systems go. You wouldn’t even dream of heading off on a cross-country expedition checking to ensure that your car’s equipment was in good working order. Well, you’re about to embark on the ultimate of journeys—the journey to motherhood—so it’s even more important to make sure that your body is firing on all cylinders. Your doctor will generally give you the green flag if you are in reasonably good health (e.g. any chronic health conditions such as heart problems, diabetes, or high blood pressure are under control; and you haven’t tested positive for any sexually-transmitted diseases such as chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea). Your doctor may also want to talk to you about any hazards that you may face in the workplace—strenuous working conditions or exposure to hazardous agents, for example—since they may impact on your pregnancy as well, notes Ottawa maternal/fetal medicine specialist Andree Gruslin, M.D.

4. The human pincushion. Don’t relish the thought of being turned into a human pincushion? Chances are you won’t have to. While it’s always a good idea to have your immunity to both rubella (German measles) and chickenpox checked before you start trying to conceive, most adult Canadian women are immune to these two diseases. If it turns out that you’re not, it’s time to roll up your sleeve: both diseases can be devastating to the developing baby. What’s more, according to Vancouver family physician Colleen Kirkham, if contracted during pregnancy, chickenpox can pose significant health risks for the pregnant woman as well.

5. Shaking your family tree. Something else you might want to do before you and your partner move into the “action phase” of babymaking is to find out what types of skeletons are hiding in your family tree. Certain types of birth defects and serious—even fatal—disease are genetic in origin, and it’s possible that you and your partner may be carriers for certain types of inherited diseases. A geneticist can help you to determine your odds of giving birth to a healthy baby.

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10 Comments

  • 1. Posted by James J on Sun, Jan 24, 2010

    Jimileed-- I have never heard anything so ignorant and uneducated come out of anyone's mouth! You're wacked!

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  • 2. Posted by Christina D on Sat, Jan 16, 2010

    Jimileed

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  • 3. Posted by Bianca on Fri, Nov 20, 2009

    jimileed- I have a 6 month old son, and am planning on having another one in a few years. I am perfectly ready to make this choice. Overpopulation has nothing to do with welfare sweety. Welfare is a government assistance program to help low-income families support their future. And as for Aids, and STDs, just because you become pregnant, does not mean that you will get an STD. Likewise, just because you have an STD does not mean you have been pregnant. I am STD free, so is my partner, I have had a baby, and when I have my second child, I will still be disease free. Maybe before you post nonsense to a message board you should do a little research instead of giving half baked, harebrained opinions, that are void of actual facts honey.

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  • 4. Posted by Tanisha on Sun, Oct 18, 2009

    jimileed I'm not sorry to say but your mother should of abort you,and she would of saved the money it cause to raise you and bought a house. Now how dare you, you ingreat. there are people out there that have soo much love to give and you as a animal feel it should'nt happen. you are an a**hole

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  • 5. Posted by Jane on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    well jimileed its obvious you are against children being bought into this world but what would you say to your mum, do you wish she never had you! people who want babies it should be up to them to judge whether they can look after their children, they wouldn't try if they didn't want the responsibility and if they are in a relationship with that special someone and want to start a family well who are you to judge them, we have been trying for a number of years and will do until successful

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  • 6. Posted by Tasha on Mon, Sep 14, 2009

    Well,I found this helpful... and as for Jimileed... so just because i was not blessed with a silver spoon u think I shouldn't be allowed to have a child?

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  • 7. Posted by Diane K on Sun, Aug 30, 2009

    you are an idiot

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  • 8. Posted by Jazzie S on Mon, Jun 8, 2009

    yeah this article is really helpful. I am very thankfull for having a heart to share these informations.the reason why we search for this article is we are sure that we know the responsibility of commiting this things. and you can't do it if you're not ready.Since you are interested with this topic it means that you are ready because you know that you become a responsible parent in the future. Keep it up, you had a wonderful insight. You're super.

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  • 9. Posted by Amanda on Thu, May 7, 2009

    To jimileed whoa u know what wwelfare is not a bad thing me and my husband have food stamps and we both work so b4 u open u mouth maybe u should think twice

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  • 10. Posted by Jimileed on Sun, May 3, 2009

    YOU ALL ARE CRAZY TO B THINKING OF GETTING PREGGERS IN THIS DAY AND AGE!!! UMMM.... DOES OVER POPULATION MEAN ANYTHING TO YOU PEOPLE? STD'S? AIDS? EVEN NEW ONES THAT WE HAVEN'T HEARD OF YET!! CAN YOU AFFORD A CHILD OR IS PUBLIC ASSISTANCE (WELFARE) YOUR JOB OF CHOICE? YOU SHOULDN'T B HAVING A CHILD IF YOU CANNOT SUPPORT YOUR OWN SELF FOR A GOOD FIVE YEARS!!! THEY ARE ALOT OF WORK!! THINK ABOUT IT B4 YOU TAKE THE PLUNGE!!!

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