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  • A Question For ALL The Women Out There ?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • All that matters .........?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great? I'm not letting it phase me because we arent together and have only known eachother for 8 days. I want things to get serious with her and I first.
  • If I got The date ......?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • If one of your love ones got sick due to another person, would you.........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    Be Mad at the person that infected your love one?? Also if your love one pass away due to the infection??? I'm talking about fever
  • Teens: Is it embarassing not to have any plans for weekends?

    Friends - 8 hours ago

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    Do u feel nervous when it's thursday and u sill don't have any plans for the weekend? Do u feel sad or embarassed to stay at home all day on Saturday?
  • what do u do when one of your best doesnt like your other best friend!?help mi pllzzz?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    one of my friends really doesnt like my other best friend wat can i do....
  • Help! Boy trouble! Or maybe it's me..?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    Okay,here's the deal. Whenever I like a guy,I don't want him to right away (if at all), so I act uninterested even when he shows interest.It's childish but it's a defense mechanism for me. So there's this guy I really like a lot and I've given him the cold shoulder, even when I tried to show interest (I'm messed up,I know). I want to know if there's a way for me to fix the damage,start over maybe. The only method that I haven't tried is telling him flat out,which I cannot (will not) do, especially since I think he make have lost some interest. If anyone has any USEFUL advice,strategies,etc., I'd greatly appreciate them
  • How did u meet the person u ended up marrying?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    1. how old were u and the person when u guys met for the first time? 2. where and how did u meet the person 3. did u instantly realize that the person is " the one" when u first met him/her. 4. how long did it take to finally decide to marry 5. What's the top reason that u have decided to spend the rest of ur time with him/her?
  • I have messed this guy around so much, how can I just get over him and leave him alone?

    Friends - 9 hours ago

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    So I really like this guy. I think he likes me. He asked me out and I said no and I dont even know why. He asked me especially to come to his party and I said I was going but I never turned up and never told him and my friends told me he spent the whole night asking where I was. I heard he was interested in some other girl so I was really mean to this girl so she would stay away. I keep messing him around like this and I dont mean to be so cruel, but I dont know whats wrong with me. I like him so much that I cant seem to leave him alone. Am I insane?
  • Has there been any question on Yahoo Marriage and Divorce that made you search your soul or question your life?

    Marriage & Divorce - 9 hours ago

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    I ask because there was a question up today that I started to answer like any other question but really hit home and made me search my soul about my beliefs on if you will ever see those that have passed away. I know we all joke around on here, but I was wondering if anyone really had a question hit home hard to you and really made you take a step back and reflect on your marriage and life in general? I know this one sounds stupid, but it's mostly got me thinking about how I have dealt with so many people that have died in my life and how I keep going after they are gone. Some of you may think its stupid, but it's what inspired this question here. Here's the original question http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApOGCbSOG.ZBmAvLDgW33LDJPhV.;_ylv=3?qid=20091124133808AAiL4p9

Teens and horror fiction

Vampire fiction is a big draw for teens, especially girls

By Susan Spicer
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When my daughter was 13, she received a copy of Twilight, the first in a series of vampire novels by Stephenie Meyer, and was utterly enthralled by it. Since then she's gone on to devour the rest of the series. A quick look at the bestseller lists over the past few years reveals a veritable vampire craze in teen fiction. The Twilight series of four novels are the bestselling of the lot, with millions of copies sold, and the film version of Twilight, the first book, was a box- office sensation.

Why do stories with dark themes and characters so captivate the teenage imagination? Should we be worried about kids reading them? As one reader on a Todaysparent.com forum discussion put it, "Vampires make me nervous!"

I can relate. For me, the iconic vampire is Dracula, the bloodthirsty monster created by 19th-century novelist Bram Stoker. It's a tale rife with themes of repressed sexuality and evil - all that business about vampires sneaking into the bedrooms of young women at night and stakes through the heart was pretty creepy when I read it as a teen.

But when I asked my daughter what the attraction was, she said, "It's not about evil or the dark side, Mom. It's about romance." What about the vampire? I say. "Edward? He's so wonderful, Mom."

She's right, says Veronica Hollinger, a cultural studies professor at Trent University in Peterborough, Ont. The monster has been rehabilitated over the past 30 years or so, beginning with Anne Rice's Interview with the Vampire. Meyer's creature, Edward Cullen, is a vampire, but he's tortured by his predatory nature. He's not only the most gorgeous guy in her school - so beautiful that he sparkles like diamonds in sunlight - but quite gentlemanly; there's no biting before marriage in this relationship. "Edward and his family - who call themselves vegetarians because they feed on animals, not humans - would rather starve than kill humans," says Hollinger. "They're ethical vampires who seek another way to live." Edward is more akin to Angel, the reformed vampire who appeared in the Buffy the Vampire Slayer TV series, than to Count Dracula.

For her part, Bella, the ordinary, very human high school girl who falls for Edward, is socially insecure, and torn between the bad-boy werewolf who also courts her affection, and the nobler but also dangerous Edward.

Fantasy exploration

Fantasy allows kids to explore the issues that challenge them as they move from childhood into adulthood, says Vancouver parenting writer and Today's Parent columnist Kathy Lynn. In the netherworlds where demons, sorcerers, zombies and vampires exist, the stakes are higher whether the conflict is the battle between good and evil or whether to kiss the boy. And while adult readers may find the pace of Edward and Bella's courtship to be excruciatingly slow - every gesture or sidelong glance is painstakingly documented - "why go so fast?" said Meyer in a recent Time interview. "Slow it down and experience everything."

This is classic escapist fiction, says Hollinger, the ultimate romantic fantasy. "There's nothing wrong with that. Bella is perfectly sensible and coherent," she adds.

Still nervous? Lynn has some advice: "Don't overreact. This is part of trying on new ways of thinking and being," she says. "Every generation has something that helps them say, This is who I am, separate from my parents."

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