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  • my husband and son-in-law have a personality clash how do we deal with this at thanks giving?

    Marriage & Divorce - 4 hours ago

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  • if a guy you really fancy, has a girlfriend, there is not anything wrong with being just friends?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    obviously i dont want to form resistant between him and his girlfriend, but do you think this is still ok
  • I wannaget him on HARD?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Me and my boyfriend are on the phone and he is talking to me and im really turned on. But i really want to get him hard but im to shy and dont know what to say. What can i do to get over my shyness and what can i say??????????!!!!
  • Help me, I wan'a be friend of a beautiful girl but she pretend doesn't like to be my girl! :(?

    Friends - 4 hours ago

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    She is a student in a university that i'm studying in, but, I don't know how to act that she likes me!! I like her very much but she pretend she doesn't. We're friends in FACEBOOK but I messaged her that I like her very much but she replied me that I don't like you! What should I do to be her boyfriend? What should I do not to be ignored by her anymore? Both of us are muslims !And have some limits! We can't go to a dance club or somewhere like that! Please , HELP ME!! :(
  • just found out my cheating partner?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i found out my partner of 3years cheated on me while away with his job (The royal navy) i'm hurt beyond belief, he says he wishes he never went to see her and it was not worth losing me over and i'll never understands how much he loves me. hes made mistakes before and i forgave but i cnt this time. I know i cant forgive him and get back with him, but a part of me wants him so bad, he's destroyed our future together and me as i person. i cant cope with the betrayal. Im in tears as i write this, please help :((
  • which are the top 10 best gifts that can be given to a guy on his birthday?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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  • Do i just really fancy this guy?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    With normal friends, i only care to an extent of what they think about me, and i dont really worry to much if i make a fool of myself. However there is this guy i am completely obsessed with this opinions of me, and I always want approval in my head from him, is this normal when u like somebody, as in he asked me what i wanted to do after graduating from university, and I was so scared of telling him, and i was too scared of what he might think. I am usually comfortable with other friends though. I just do not really want him to know my weaknesses.
  • Too much personal hygiene?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    From the ladies perspective, is there such a thing as a dude that is just too clean? or if given a choice, do you prefer to be with someone that smells good all the time? Recent studies have suggested that having too many showers, etc. may actually affect your immune system; but I wanted to know if the ladies had a preference.
  • For 80 million dollars would you....(relationship, love (questions) and a bit more...)?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Let's say you know what is love and you believe you experienced it. You have a partner who you love and you consider this to be the best love you've ever felt and the strongest most intense one. A billionaire makes you an offer: 1.Never to see this person again in your lifetime for the sum of 80 million USD? 2.To watch your partner have sex with somebody else in front of you, however he/she cannot fake, he/she should be relaxed and feel genuine pleasure from the act (it will be detected to a brain scanning system or smth. to see that), so you'll have to watch him/her have pleasurable sex. 3.To have sex with your mother(if man), father (if woman) for this amount of money.(sorry for the sick question, a friend next to me just gave me the idea...I admit, that's sick...) Please answer both questions and specify your gender and age. Thank you. Answer to 1, 2 , 3 with yes/no.
  • How can I calm down and trust my man?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    I love my partner so much, we have been together for nearlly 10 years. I know of so many people who have split up and divorced people too. I said to my friend what would you do if your husband left you and she said, there is always someone else round the corner. My problem is I love my partner so much and I know he loves me but I am scared of him leaving me one day, it seems to happen so much in life. I couldnt stand it. I dont want anyone else who maybe round the corner I just want him. Many of the people I know leave because of an affair. I worry in case one day he meets someone else that he will fall for. He says he wont but how do you know unless you meet that person that makes you feel excited? He says he still feels like that with me and noone else could make him feel like that, How can anyone know until it happens? I trust he wouldnt sleep with anyone else for the sake of it but how can you trust someone not to do that if it just happens and they didnt expect it to either?

There’s a new black Barbie in town

Call it the Michelle Obama effect, but Mattel’s ‘authentic’ new line is flying off the shelves

By Katie Engelhart
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It took Mattel some time to get it right. The behemoth behind the Barbie brand made its first black doll in 1967: “Colored Francie,” a version of Barbie’s white cousin that did not sell well and was soon discontinued. A black friend, “Christie,” was introduced a few years later, but it was not until 1980 that a black Barbie—not a friend or a relative, but a Barbie in her own right—hit stores. Mattel has since produced a steady stream of the dolls, including missteps like 1997’s Oreo Fun Barbie, the fruit of a partnership with Nabisco, inadvertently named after a slur for African-Americans. The question of how “black” these Barbies really were has remained contentious. Early critics charged that black Barbies were simply “dye-dipped versions of archetypal white American beauty,” with Caucasian features. Later dolls like “Soul Train Shani” drew fire for promoting racial stereotypes.

This time around, Mattel wanted to nail it. And if early buzz over its new So In Style Barbies is any measure, they may have. Collectors are in a tizzy over the new line of black dolls, which launched in the U.S. this summer, and sport wider noses, larger lips, curly hair and a range of skin tones. Barbie bloggers are lauding them. A fashion supplement in July’s Vogue Italia features them in place of human models. And stores are scrambling to buy them up. “We don’t usually bring in playline Barbies,” says Margaret Matsui, owner of Mississauga, Ont.’s My Favourite Dolls, which specializes in high-end collector models. But “this one’s really unique.”

Matsui thinks 2009 is “the year for African-American dolls.” It’s not just Barbie; Disney will introduce its first black princess, Tiana, in November’s The Frog Princess, complete with doll. Charisse Jones, author of Shifting: The Double Lives of Black Women in America, thinks she knows why. “Michelle Obama’s ascension has radically changed the idea of what is beautiful,” she explains. The fashion industry is charting the first lady’s every move, and models like Liya Kebede say simply having Michelle “out there” has boosted demand for black models.

Mattel says the So In Style dolls are flying off the shelves—even though Barbie saw global sales drop 21 per cent in the last quarter of 2008. Stacey McBride-Irby, the black designer behind the dolls, says that’s because Mattel put months of aggressive market research into the collection. She says the firm was committed to releasing, at last, a line of black dolls that is ethnically “authentic.”

But Barbies have had “authentic” features and skin tones in the ’90s. So why the fuss about Mattel’s newest “BFFs”? A lot hinges on hair. “Hair is to black women what weight is to white women,” Charisse Jones explains. “Meaning that it is an aspect of our beauty that is fraught with all kinds of emotions and neuroses and anxieties.” Jones says there is pressure these days on black women to conform to a Eurocentric beauty ideal—straight hair and all. The politics of black hair pop up in places like The Tyra Banks Show’s “Hair Evolution,” especially after a now-infamous incident in 2007 in which a Glamour editor dismissed natural African-American hairstyles as “political” statements that had no place in the corporate world.

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  • 1. Posted by Kery on Mon, Oct 12, 2009

    Melissa, I am not a racist and some good friends of mine are black, and Asian too. But the main thing on these stupid postings is to keep it light. My black friends would have probably written the same comments and to tell you the truth they call each other names that if a white person said the same thing that would not go over good. Haven't you ever watched Saturday Night Live or stand up comics? If this board was of a serious nature not many people would read it. Don't we all do things in life at times to just get a reaction? Hope this puts your mind at ease.

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  • 2. Posted by Melissa on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    Kery, do you think your comments are cute or amuzing? Because they are not. Don't get me wrong, I'm not offended by you, but I do pity you- if you are indeed a racist. You're missing out on life. I hope you'll retract your statement. Aside from that, the new "Barbies" are a step in the right direction. Now, all they need is a stylish Asian doll in modern clothing to make my clique complete.

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  • 3. Posted by Funisabella on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    It's ok looking, but white barbie is still more beautiful by a long shot with the gorgeous blue eyes and beautiful silky hair

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  • 4. Posted by Anon on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    Truth B. Told and John C - get over yourselves with your over-inflated egos, you morons!

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  • 5. Posted by Lorraine R on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    I had a black Baby Doll in the 50's (in England) that I just adored, she was pretty authentic too. This is not new, My mother had one too in 1930! What's new is that these are "fashion dolls", so if they had normal figures they wouldn't be like the models they ape. ]

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  • 6. Posted by Truth B. Told on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    it looks like the newer, whiter Beyonce. Hahahaha, they all wish they were white, don't they.

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  • 7. Posted by Talk2ulater on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    I totally agree with Pantheress, toy makers should make dolls of different creed, colour, with features common to them.

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  • 8. Posted by John C on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    It is a white doll painted black that is why she is pretty and Obama does not look like her and she is far from pretty .

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  • 9. Posted by Pantheress on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    i think it is about time they had a black barbie that didnt look like a chocolate dipped barbie and so why doesnt matel make a doll for each race and let the children play with the dolls and the parents leave their views on what the doll should look like out of it

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  • 10. Posted by Kery on Sun, Oct 11, 2009

    The first Barbie Ho. Cool. Think there should be a Whoopi version though.

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