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  • My friend is scared for me. It scares me that I've gotten to this point. Long but please read. Help?

    Friends - 8 hours ago

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    I'm depressed, I've been cutting, I hate my self, and I want to die well more of kill myself. I was in one-on-one therapy for a week but I cut myself again and had to go to the ER and they sent me to the Insitute of Living for the night and was there all last Tuesday and had one-on-one therapy on Wednesday. They set me up with group therapy. Yesturday, I had to go in the morning for like don't know how to put this into words but like introduction pretty much. I then had a horrible day at school included with crying a lot a lunch because I'm pretty sure I'm going to have to quit swim team and band (I'm a section leader in band and I worked hard for my position) and my best friend Alex comes over to sit and he says, 'Am I the only one not depressed here' I looked up and told him to shut up and he comes over to my side of the table and hugs me and talks to me about it, trying to make me feel better. So then on the bus, I get a text from my ex friend saying 'I Heard wat happened and i just wanted 2 say im srry' and I asked her who told her and she said Alex and when I asked Alex why he told her he said 'I told nikki cuz im scared for u... I dont want u to get even more messed up... And im bad at talking ppl out of stuff... Nikkis good at it... Terrance says hi.' And it just really freaked me out because a bunch of people are worried about me and I'm used to that but he's my best friend and he's SCARED for me. And this morning going to encore I passed him in the hallway and he asked if I was okay and I turned and shook my head no and he came up and hugged me and I just don't know what to do he's just so close to me that it hurts. And last week we had a friend in the Insitute of Living because she was planning suicide, so I'm pretty sure he also doesn't want me to end up at that point. But, he doesn't know that I know how I would kill my self I only talked about that this morning with Justin. And I haven't told Alex how hard it is just to get through the days now, and I just find everything so pointless, and that I'm just sick of being around. He does know that I wanted to switch schools. And I'm just so scared in myself because I've gotten to the point that he's scared for me. And I just don't know what to do.
  • Should I give this guy a chance or is he just playing me?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I met this guy through a friend. He lives in a different state and we email back and forth on facebook. It was his turn to email me but he never emailed me back. Before then, we email each other frequently like every three days. Two weeks go by without an email. He ended up 'liking' what I said on my facebook status a few weeks after I never heard from him. So I assumed he still wants to communicate with me so I emailed him again. Its been one week and then I hear from him again. It wouldn't matter but he updates his facebook through his phone and doesn't email me back when I clearly want a response from him. I enjoy getting emails from him. He recently emailed me back and said he was busy with work. He ended up asking me if I'm dating anyone. I told him that I was not dating anyone. Its been one week and he updates his facebook but doesn't email me back on facebook. I mention to him that there were pics of me and some American Idol contestants on tour on my facebook. I got a pic with one singer that I have a crush on and he's cute too. Do you think he got jealous? Why would he ask me if I'm dating anyone and stop communicating with me at the same time? Do you think he is dating anyone and wanted me to ask him if he is dating anyone?
  • A Question For ALL The Women Out There ?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • All that matters .........?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great? I'm not letting it phase me because we arent together and have only known eachother for 8 days. I want things to get serious with her and I first.
  • My ex threatened to files charges against me with my human resources department?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    I dated her for 8 months and I broke the relationship up several months ago. She was fine with it and never came after me and didn't make a big deal at all at work. (We work in the same company, but in diff building, so we dont work together). I tried to be friends and would show up to say hi every so often. I'd ask her for lunch, but she declined. She never really reciprocated and once I asked for lunch again...she finally said no and asked for me to stop. She told me she had found emails that I had sent to my ex during the relationsh (true) and had no interest in pursuing any kind of relationship with me. She threatened to go to the human resources department if I insisted. I think i made the situation worse by trying to be nice. Am I missing something?
  • If I got The date ......?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • If one of your love ones got sick due to another person, would you.........?

    Marriage & Divorce - 9 hours ago

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    Be Mad at the person that infected your love one?? Also if your love one pass away due to the infection??? I'm talking about fever
  • are bi guys hot ?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    I am bi. and I asked a question earlier about how to tell my gf that I am bi. I am just wondering you think bi guys are hot. Like, guys kissing and hooking up. I am bi, so I find it incredibly hot. just wondering if girls find it hot like guys find two girls kissing hot.
  • Whatever happened to playing games like Monopoly with the family?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 10 hours ago

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    Do families play these games any more or is everyone too busy in their own room in front of the computer? Whatever happened to those good old days when families gathered and played a good game?
  • What does it mean if you confront/accuse someone of something and they go into a rage over it?

    Marriage & Divorce - 10 hours ago

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    Does it mean the person is innocent and highly upset that you would suggest such a thing? Or -- does it mean the accusation is true?

Canada's top family-friendly employers

Our annual list of Canada's top family-friendly employers

By Lisa van de Geyn
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If you're a veteran Today's Parent reader, the first thing you'll notice about this list of companies offering progressive family benefits to their employees is the fact that it's twice as long as last year's. So many employers are now offering such a wide array of perks that it was too difficult to whittle the final selection to just 10. "When we started this list six years ago, I don't even think all of the employers had maternity top-up," says Richard Yerema, editor of Canada's Top 100 Employers, the annual guide from which our list is taken. In contrast, all of this year's top 20 offer significant top-up to parental leave benefits - the majority for up to a full 52 weeks. Flexible hours, alternative work schedules and the ability to work from home at least part of the time have also become more common among employers of all sizes. Read on for information on the entire top 20, listed alphabetically.

AMAPCEO

Public sector bargaining agent, Toronto

Full-time employees: 24
• tops up maternity and parental leave benefits to 93% of salary for 52 weeks, for new mothers, and 37 weeks for new fathers
• paid spousal leave to attend birth or adoption for up to three days over and above parental leave
• employees receive four weeks paid vacation after one year of service
• self-funded leave program allows employees to take time off with pay

Catholic Children's Aid Society of Toronto

Provider of social services to protect children and families in need, Toronto

Full-time employees: 597
• tops up maternity and parental leave benefits to 70% of salary for 29 weeks, including adoptive parents
• new mothers and fathers have the option of extend their leave for up to three years
• employees can take unpaid leaves of absence ranging from a few days to a full year
• family leave benefit offers eight days off at 100% of salary to deal with family-related emergencies
• new employees receive four weeks paid vacation to start, plus personal days off
• offers paid time to attend an accredited program of study

Durham Regional Police Service

Provides police protection services, Durham Region, Ont.

Full-time employees: 1,345
• tops up maternity and parental leave benefits to 75% of salary for 52 weeks for new mothers, and 37 weeks for new fathers
• offers tuition subsidies up to $1,500 a year for continuing education
• offers alternative work options, including flex hours, telecommuting, job-sharing and compressed work weeks

Farm Credit Canada

Provides financial and management services to farmers and agriculture businesses across the country, Regina

Full-time employees: 1,295
• tops up maternity and parental leave benefits to 95% of salary for 50 weeks for new mothers, 35 weeks for new fathers
• flexible health plan lets employees convert unused health benefits into retirement savings
• new employees receive three weeks paid vacation to start, plus six personal days per year

George Brown College of Applied Arts and Technology

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