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  • Can guys explain this to me?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Why do some guys, not all of course, feel threatened by a girl and see her as competition rather than someone he should care for and respect.Usually they are nice and respectful at first and some guys stay that way but some guys feel they have something to prove and start to play up. I get that girls do this too, but i'm interested in why there are some guys who do this. Is it a power struggle? If its a woman that they feel no control with? she threatens his ego in some way? I get that it depends on the type of women, soe can be loud brash and yell "I'm a strong woman!"- those women are usually weak and also have something to prove. I'm just talking about normal mature level headed girls.
  • Should I forgive my best friend?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    My best friend of twenty odd years decided to send me a email the other day commenting on my grammar and said that my English was very bad. I had made a comment about a person in a picture and she picked me up on it, saying how, it was only a simple grammar mistake but that I should improve my english. I took this very badly, and probably replied in haste with a few horrible comments, she then said she knew I would act this way, but what I cant understand is, if she knew I would act this way, why would she do or such a thing. She has apologised but when she does it doesn't seem very sincere because she then comes back with, I was doing you a favour by pointing out your english errors, Im sorry you feel this way but......etc etc. I ended up texting her and apologising , saying I probably overreacted but she then left my 16 hours to stew, thinking that it was all my fault...again what friend does this? Im seriously stressed and upset about the whole situation, we have been best friends for years and it came out of nowhere, do you think I should forgive her and move on or would you end the friendship?? I'd really appreciate your advice peeps .
  • Did she break up with me or was it me?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    A few weeks ago she asked whether I was happy with her and if I wanted to continue the realtionship given she felt I still liked my ex. Two weeks later I broke up with her saying that I didnt think there was any future for us. Not because of the ex, but because we were not the right match. She agreed. A few weeks after when I called her she asked that I stop contacting her because she had found the the emails I had sent to my ex during our relationship. I had written how much I loved my ex and thought of her and how little my current gf meant. I was definetly embarrased, but still dont think we belong together. My question really is....was it me or did she break up..or was it mutual?
  • How do I stop being sceptical about guys?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    I dumped my ex for being a sleaze. He was just into sex and was quite disrespectful so I dumped his ass pretty quickly. However there is this new guy who is everything I could want. He is reserved, intellectual, gorgeous well mannered refined and gentlemanly. He seems shy and stares at me a lot, his face lights up when we catch eyes and he holds my gaze and smiles at me. I really want to talk to him but part of me feels angry that he is showing me he thinks i'm attractive. because of my ex i'm wary of being seen as a sex object. I don't advertise myself as one i'm shy, dignified, quiet, bookish and dress modestly. How can I appreciate the fact that a guy actually seems to like me? I can assure you forlorn hope that it was only me who was mature. This guy was the biggest creep you could meet.
  • Why does she have sex all the time and shes only 13?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    am 14 and i have this friend that is about 13 i knew her since like 4 years now and shes always been a nice helpfull person when we got to our secondary school at the end of year seven she started having fights at school and at the start of year 9 she told me she had sex with this random person and now she does it all the time. Yesterday i spoke to her and she was like ohh you know that guy from our year i had it with him. So all im wondering about is why does she do it and does she think it makes her seem cooler ?? Its maybe because she lives in a bad area or that she has 16 brothers and sisters and she is trying to have her own life without them i dont know what to think ???
  • Is it appropriate for friends with benefits to discuss their other sex partners?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I once had a fwb setup a while back. The guy was freakin gorgeous, but I would never date him exclusively. He was very affectionate and loved to cuddle. Anyway one day we decided to meet up for some sexy time. However, I had not seen him two months due to our hectic work schedules. Anyway, out of the blue he asked me had a been with anybody since we last had sex. My answer was yes. The look on his face was priceless. He asked me like a zillion questions about the guy. Then asked me did I sleep with him again and my answer was no. His reply was well he just probably used u for sex. I told him well that was my intentions as well. Then he started telling me about other girls he had met since we had last seen each other. I gave him two thumbs up!LOL. But the weird thing as after we left eachother, he didn't give me the passionate kisses he usually gives me when we departed.
  • HELP... I don't want to seem b*t*hy!?

    Friends - 8 hours ago

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    Okay, i had this friend who used to be all over every guy i like. anyway, the last person this happened with is a guy that i really like, anyways, they are now dating (as usually happens)... I am not talking to her at all now, it causes too much drama. But i still want to be friends with her bf, still my crush (who she uses as a way to upset me) and she is in my dance group at school which is only made up of four people.... Any ideas how i can not talk to her but still not come across as b*t*hy??
  • just text my cheating husband about tomorrow mornings breakfast date.?

    Marriage & Divorce - 8 hours ago

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    i know he cheated i caught him in the act in our bed a few months back and left. he text asking me to meet up with him for breakfast. he said we are gonna work things out and he said after wards if you don't mind i would love to take you back home for awhile while the kids are at school. is he wanting s*x or to what? please
  • I need some advice please? :(?

    Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago

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    My boyfriend and I share a bank account and we were suppose to be saving the money to pay for next semester's college. Now, most of the time he's the one spending the money and I save, but this time I asked him if we could cut down a bit so I wouldn't worry about having enough to pay for college and he said we would. Now today, he spent much more than he should have and I'm so angry! He said he understood that I needed security for college but he spent it anyways. Does this mean he values his purchase more than me? :( I need help.
  • This is really confusing, can I get some help?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    If she has you hold her and link arms and wont let you kiss her but it's obvious there's something there, what the hell's going on lol? She asks me how I am in relationships, she keeps bringing up gf and bf thigns. She put some flowers I gave her in her scrapbook. She told me today that I'm the only guy that's ever made her nervous and that she sees the way I look at her. She looks in my eyes and says she feels theres something I want to tell her, and there is that I like her, should I turn this into a relationship? Next time I speak to her I'm going to ask her on a date.

Turning 30 saved my life

HOW TO MAKE THE BIG CHANGES AHEAD WORK FOR YOU

By Yuki Hayashi
Turning 30 saved my life

THRISIS MANAGEMENT

If you're not sure if "this" is how you want to spend the rest of your life, you can sort it out. Here's how to make the big changes ahead work for you.

Take a breather. Many companies have been implementing mandatory vacation days and other tactics to save on staffing. Ever wanted to study Italian in Florence? Or build houses in Louisiana with Brad Pitt? Or simply spend time at home writing that screenplay? Now's the time to ask; your supervisor may be delighted to have you take a month of unpaid leave.

Travel like you're 20 again. Many adventure-travel companies are catering to the recently redundant. Intrepid Travel offers a "Laid Off? How About Taking Off?" discount of 15 percent if you dust off that backpack and head overseas to dust yourself off.

Go back to school. If you have enough saved, or you qualify for a loan, consider riding out the recession by earning an advanced degree. Why not live on a student budget rather than a frustrated admin-assistant budget? When the economy upturns, you're gold.

Maybe baby? If you want to become a mom, consider trying now. You may be able to ride out the job turbulence on mat leave. While it won't provide 100-percent job security in this economic climate, you may prefer to leave your office during a lull, not an upsurge.

Turning 30 Saved My Life has been edited for FLARE.com; the complete story appears in the July 2009 issue of FLARE magazine.

Rogers Publishing Limited copyright © 2009 by Rogers Publishing Limited. All rights reserved.

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