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  • Is My Nephew Cute? Nice Only Please?

    Family - 4 hours ago

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    Hes The Guy With the white shirt on who is surronded by ladys ^.^ he calls them his "buddies" And Remember hes only 11 So back off pedifiles Sowwy Its Sooo Small http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/9572/shaneisapimp.jpg And He Is 13 here ---->http://img109.imageshack.us/img109/706/myphotos031.jpg
  • Why won't my bf ask me to marry him??? Part 2.?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    We have been together for 4 yrs. In the 1st 6mth's he wanted too(didn't actually have a ring just talked about it a lot) and I didn't cause it was to fast. We have a wonderful relationship. He has taken my son in as his own. We have lived together for 3.5 years. We do almost everything together. When he goes away on trips, like hunting/camping and I ask him questions about it, he automatically resorts to "I don't trust him" and says that is why we are at a stand still. The thing is that I do trust him, I am slightly insecure and a little nosy so I ask questions about their plans, etc. isn't that normal of someone who cares? I think it's an excuse, I don't believe he thinks that. I don't know what to do...I feel used and I am starting to think that he is waiting for someone better. He's really good to me and my son, I hope that's not the case. I am tired of the embarrassment when asked "why hasn't he married you yet?"...now I am asking myself that question. The whole "why buy the cow when the milk is free" is haunting me. I am to afraid to change anything because he is stubborn (so am I) and I am afraid he will just let me go because he will think that I don't want him, it seems too risky. I love the idea of getting away for the weekend, but I already did that, he always misses me alot (calls, texts, etc) right now he is away hunting and he calls and texts me. I usually text him but I really haven't this time cause I don't want to be viewed as none trusting. I'm hurt and I don't know how to get what I want...and if I don't get that I don't think my relationship will stay together since the feeling of insecurity grows inside of me with time :( I don't want to mess this up but I don't want to be just a gf either.
  • Girls, would you be embarassed if...?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    you found out you could physcially carry your bf like a baby? Or would you be proud of your strength? Could you easily do that to me if I'm only 5'8 and 138 lbs (65 kg)?
  • Is it disrespectful for a guy to call a girl his prized possession?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Well, this guy told me that. But the way he said it made me think he was being disrespectful. what do you think. BTW; the reason is because he's considered the school player and he doesn't own me. Were not evening dating. Do u think he was playing with me?
  • how do i casually ask a guy for his number?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    how do i ask a guy on facebook for his number so i can text him?
  • I feel kind of bad, even though I know I shouldn't?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    Yesterday I was at the movies with my best friend, and these two girls next to me kept texting throughout the movie. Finally, I turned to them and asked them to "please stop texting, it's starting to get annoying." I mean, I wasn't going to sit there with a blinding light next to me throughout the whole movie. The girl closest to me turned to me and said "You're fcking annoying!". She gave me this look like she totally hated me. Now I feel bad, even though I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything wrong. Any advice? Thanks for reading :)
  • I told him I did not think he loves me, so I just wanted to be friends,?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I told him I wanted to be friends because I did not think he loves or cares for me, I told him I wanted to still be cool you know every now and then speaking, or texting, but he said no. He removed me from all online social networks and would not reply to any of my calls or texts. I called him a lot after freaking out because I still cared for him and wanted to remain in contact with him, he came very upset and told me that I don’t mean a thing to him( I don’t want to believe that, after 1 year and 7 months of dating) and that I was crazy and need help ( I don’t want to believe that, after 1 year and 7 months of dating) I was very, very, very good to him... I just want to know why would somebody say that to someone that he maintain such a close friendship with for so long, the just erase them and not want to be coo, ok or anything with that person? He was good to me also... it has been about 15 days since I called, and text and sent him what I then called my last email saying... I just wanted to be friends what was the harm in that and that he hurt me, and no good would come of him not treating people right. I told him in the email I was here if he need and I have not contacted him again. Thing is I really care for him and I can not stand not being able to communicate with him at all. I’m not asking for a girlfriend boyfriend thing I just don’t understand why we cant still be friendly. I want to know should I wait a month or so to reach out, and if so what do I say. I’m not mad at him, and I don’t want him to be mad at me. Should I just leave him alone as he asked? We have been through this before and some how we always started to speak again but this time feels different somehow. I remember when he told me we would always have something special... I don’t see how a few phone calls and texts should make that change. I don’t understand... I know he said we cant be friends because we have been intimate, and had emotions.. but I feel that’s the exact reason we should be... because we do(did) at one time or another share so much how could we not. When should I try to say something to him, if at all? If so what should I say to open the lines of communication? I cant seem to get over him? I sit and wish and wonder.... if he thinks of me, if he thinks he said too much that he cant contact me. Is it possible that he really did not care after all that time, and what he said 15 days ago was what he really felt. Any advise is REALLY appreciated.
  • Do you think a 14 year old freshman girl should be dating a 17 year old junior boy?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    they are both very good kids straight A's respectful etc. they hang out at each others houses supervised. And occationally go to movies. I was wondering if it is appropriate. or wrong or sick
  • how do i get my girl to have a 3sum my last girlfriend did and i just miss it..and suggestions?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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  • Brother Trouble Help Me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

    Family - 6 hours ago

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    My brother is super immature, he is 14 and I'm 12 but it seems like I am always the older sibling! He hurts me and doesn't care what I say, he makes stupid jokes and all the girls think he's hot even my friends! I hate it and can't take it any more it's not normal he lies all the time. He tells me I am fat and anorexic and I'm not either of thoughs I have allways wanted a nice brother a cant deal with it any more.

Giving the guys a lesson in true grit

Two female directors show their mettle with tales of war and terrorism

By Brian D. Johnson
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The Hurt Locker

Forget the blockbusters. The most exciting movie of the summer is not Public Enemies or Terminator Salvation or The Taking of Pelham 1 2 3. It's a tough little film called The Hurt Locker, Kathyrn Bigelow's nail-biting thriller about an American bomb disposal squad in Baghdad. Strangely, there are still very few female directors making mainstream movies, and the number of women directing films about war and terrorism is even more scarce. And yet, along comes another one-Fifty Dead Men Walking, which opens July 31.

Like The Hurt Locker, Fifty Dead Men Walking is a gritty suspense drama about a group of men who become walking targets in the chaos of urban guerrilla warfare, where battles are fought in residential neighbourhoods and no one can be trusted. It too is directed by a middle-aged woman, Ottawa-born filmmaker Kari Skogland. Her previous movie was The Stone Angel, an earnest adaptation of Margaret Laurence's CanLit classic. But in watching the taut, visceral drama-starring Jim Sturgess as an IRA informant and Ben Kingsley as the British cop who recruits him-you'd never guess that this U.K. co-production is a Canadian movie, or that its director is a woman.

What gives these films a rare sting of authenticity is that they're based on first-hand experience and shot on location, in or close to the trouble spots where the stories take place. Mark Boal, who wrote the The Hurt Locker, spent several weeks embedded with a U.S. bomb squad in Baghdad, and Bigelow (Blue Steel, Point Break) shot the film in Jordan, sometimes very close to the Iraq border-most movies about the war on terror tend to be shot in the safety of Morocco. "We were staging American soldiers shooting Muslims in a Palestinian refugee camp at three o'clock in the morning," recalls Boal. "Some of the actors had rocks thrown at them," adds Bigelow. "I was scared out of my wits every day. It's such a lethal environment because the violence is so hard to predict-you don't have an enemy in uniform and a pile of garbage can be used as a weapon."

That sense of danger is palpable onscreen. That's also the case with Fifty Dead Men Walking, the true story Martin McGartland, an IRA police informant in the '80s who's now in a witness protection program. The film was shot in the same Belfast neighborhoods that had been shattered by violence 20 yeas ago, and the wounds were still fresh (as is evident with the recent renewal of rioting in Belfast). While the onlookers were largely supportive, one night Sturgess was smacked in the head by a stone. "You suddenly realized," says the young actor, "there were people there who still had a certain amount of feeling about what happened." Still, filming in Belfast "was the special ingredient that brought the film to life," says Kingsley.

Skogland navigated a tricky shoot with "great strength, intelligence and charm," says Kingsley, who added that she brought a "a female eye to this tragedy, knowing that women and children are implicated." The female perspective, he says, plays out beautifully: "At the centre of the film you have a baby being born. Then you see women and children in the streets, watching in doorways, sitting like a row of birds on a wall, and casually joining in the destruction, burning cars and property."

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