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Basically we had a rough falling out. Not yelling and arguments rough, but more like, I couldn't just flip the "off switch" to our relationship. I still wanted to talk and there was just awkward moments where I didn't know how intimate we could be. And there was a lot of what I perceived as mixed signals. I finally told her to stop playing around with me, and I didn't want to speak to her for a while. For the second time actually. First time it happened because she decided she wanted to get back together, then break up with me a day later because she said at the time she was just thinking on impulse. She told me she just needed some more time for herself and to break up with a new boyfriend, and she'd get back together with me, and to give her a month. A month passes and I ask about it and she gives me the whole "well, maybe" bull crap. I told her I'm not going to deal with it. Some time has passed and she wants me to hang out with her and her family on July 4th. I'm still very interested in getting back together, since other than this we've had an amazing relationship and she's without a doubt the love of my life. She might be interested, but I'm not sure if I'm only seeing things from a tainted viewpoint. As lame as it is, her myspace status' have been saying how miserable and hurt she is, and she recently put up a picture of her wearing an old bowler hat I gave her. I like to think she's thinking about me, but I'm not really sure. Well, should I go for it? And if I do how should I go about acting? Looking forward to some advice. Forgot to mention that regardless I'm going to see her on her birthday on the 7th, I was planning for that to be the "last day" to see her for even just a second. She's my ex girlfriend by the way. Her parents adore me. Actually I got this figured out. Dumb question really. It's turned into, should I see her now or later? I'm just going to tell her I have to close at work and can't make it and then see her on her birthday. Thanks for the replies so far, it's greatly appreciated.

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I'm going to the beach for two weeks with my family and my cousins are staying with me. Every year one of them is always telling me to go talk to some girl. His son always has girls when he goes with us but it seems like they come to him with out him even trying. I always have opportunities but I never follow through. Please give me some tips on how to be more confident.

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this question is mostly for the guys but girls please answer as well. My boyfriend and I were each others "firsts" .. ever since the first time we had sex, he simply refuses to wear a condom. I'd really like to practice safe sex more for the risk of getting pregnant but he won't wear a condom. Any ideas why he would be so against condoms? I honestly think he's trying to get me pregnant. Help me out please. any suggestions other then birth control pills? Im 17 and he is 19.

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DrHelpWithStuff? Who has talked to him?Who is he? I already asked this question but I really wanna know cuz he is really helpful! Sorerry for askin sooo much There's this guy with the screen name DrHelpWithStuff on AIM. Some kid from my school found out about him from his cousin who apparently goes to school with him and now a bunch of people at my school have talked to him (including myself) and even a bunch of kids from other schools and he just like talks them through things and helps em with stuff and gives out advice on basically any topic (I've talked to him a few times) he really is so helpful. Does anyone know who this is or if he has another SN? I wanna talk to him off of that screenname or if hes here on yahoo answers. Anyone know who he is or go to school with him? hes from NY im pretty sure dont know his real name or anything tho but he really helped me alot and i wanna be able to thank him without bothering him on DrHelpWithStuff

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Going to try to make this short & simple. I have been talking/dating this guy for about 4 months now - At first it seemed he was up my butt constantly because I wanted nothing to do with men. I have 2 kids, single mother, so it's been heart breaking for me. So he kept saying he was trying to "break the wall" that I had built from being heartbroken and said he wasn't giving up. Said he was ready to settle down and have a family. Was always asking me when are we gonna hang out. I finally gave him a chance, I considered a lot of what he was telling me and considered since he's 8 yrs older than me that he could actually be more mature. Now, after he's got me (got a piece of me, whatever you wanna call it)... it seems he doesn't make as much contact... and it upsets me. I had actually flipped on him about it ya know cause i'm not stupid... (I hate flipping but I had gotten to my boiling point). It seemed as if he was being like all of the rest of the typical player guys.... but when I flipped he got angry and said that he does like me but he just wants to take it slow - and that I needed to stop being insecure and acting psycho. Well, excuse me, but I don't know how "slow" we should go I mean he did get in my pants, he did say he wanted to settle down and have a family....... *When I say I finally gave him a chance I meant I finally let him start coming around.... he did hang around the house and the kids and did real well with the kids and that's what confused me... but I did let him in my pants about a month n a half - 2 months later...because I thought we were both really into each other*

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my boyfriend txted me saying my best friend Rihana txt him saying that he is hot sexy and funny.shes a slut ...she said she wud never do that 2 me cuz shes my best friend ... now im ticked off ..... here's another problem ..my friend jynette was walking in walmart and a 14 yr old guy was walking by her(shes 10) and they madout !!!!!! 4 like 10 seconds!!!!!!AND SHE HAD A BOYFRIEND :( WAT DO I DO :( plz tell me

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I have only ever been with 2 guys. My husband for 19 yrs and my boyfriend of six months. Both were quite experienced before I met them. But my bf has been with lots of women and has several different experiences. He's been to a brothel, he's been in a threesome, he's had 4 girlfriends at one time. He's definately more experienced than anyone I know. I do sometimes regret not having more experiences myself and I think this is part of my jealousy. I also think that the idea of him having some great experiences with someone other than me hurts. I know our relationship is sucky at best (nobody except his sister knows about us and we both want to keep it that way). Since we have to keep a low profile, we don't get to have any great experiences together. Usually we get together before work about once a week. Contrary to popular belief, sneaking around and trying not to get caught does not make for a more exciting relationship. I know we can't be seen in public together. I know we can't let anyone we work with know about us. It just sucks that I can't have any thing to make me smile when I think about it. Before anyone judges him, we do work together and he does have some superiority over me (though not much) but I was the one who sought him out. I feel in love with him after we became friends and wanted the relationship to go further. But I also knew we would have to keep it a secret for both our sakes. I just want to know how to deal with my feelings. I don't want to tell him either because I don't want him to think he has to hide things from me. I like how open he is with me. I just want to be able to accept these things. Hope this all makes sense.

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ok so like me and my friend have seen like a ton of webshows on youtube and decided to get one! we want it to be kind of like an icaly or something. were only 12 so please no outragous stuff but we want it to be funny!!!:D plaese help!

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I shave my privates but sometimes I feel a little weird shaving it all (makes me feel like I look like a 10 yr old). I know my guy likes me shaved but says the amount of hair removed is my choice. I wish he would just say if he likes me bald or not. I figured since he won't tell me, maybe I'll ask a bunch of strangers what they think. Please be honest and please don't say whatever I feel more comfortable with. I'm asking because I want to know your own personal preferences. Thanx guys

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Hey everyone. So I'm 16 years old, going into my Junior Year of High School and I've never had a girlfriend. Not to sound arrogant or anything but I'm a good enough looking kid and I know girls like me because I always hear that so and so thinks/thought I'm/I was cute, hot, whatever and that so and so likes/liked you. Again, not to sound arrogant, I think I have a pretty good personality. I have a lot of friends (girls and guys) and I've heard more than once "***** you're seriously like the funniest kid I know". Anyway so in middle school (and I guess today still) I was really insecure. I thought I was ugly and that no one liked me even thought I had tons of friends back then too. I also would think I was in love with like a different girl everyday haha. I always changed my crush and I was always convinced I was in love with them but I never ever mustered up the courage to ask anyone else out myself (once or twice my friends did it for me but I denied it and the girls ended up thinking it was a joke.) Then when I got into high school I switched out of my district and went to a different school and got another crush but nothing like it was in middle school. Then over the summer after 9th grade I stopped liking that girl (I didn't even really know her, so I guess you could call it a crush, ya) Since then I can pretty much genuinely say I haven't crushed on or liked anyone since then. NO I'm not gay I still am very attracted to girls just none of them have stood out in particular to me or have gotten me to the point where I want to go out with them. For the first few months, this whole not-liking-anyone thing was awesome I felt so free. Now it's been I think a whole year since I've liked anyone and I'm really getting tired of it. (BTW i switched back to my old school district halfway through 10th grade so I've gotten to meet a lot of people.) Like I get really depressed when I think about being single now because a lot of my friends recently have been getting into relationships. But I'm also the kind of guy that won't just go out with any girl, I need to connect first. I guess you could also say I'm very shy around girls that I don't really know. Anyway my real question is: What should I do? I go to the Mall and the Movies a lot and I feel like I want to "hit-on" (for lack of a better term) girls when I'm there but I can't find the motivation. I guess the real thing is I really just want to like someone again so I have someone to try to go out with but the problem is that there's just no one that I like and I'm really tired of being single and not being interested in any one girl more than any other. I feel like if I try to meet new people I can find a girl I'll like enough to go out with, but again I'm pretty shy around girls i dont know. Please guys, if you have any useful advice i would APPRECIATE IT SOOOO MUCH because just thinking about this stuff makes me feel so depressed and lonely Thanks again PEAAAACE