a fight over these subjects may be overboard, but many of the subjects listed are points that could make or break a relationship if the man puts less of an effort into being compatible and compromising with his partner than she does.
yes, maybe say quit the nagging and only ask once, but sitting down and discussing the chores and putting the list on the fridge makes more sense along with what could be many other better suggestions for these issues rather than a crap list like this that is bound to turn most women into resentful martyrs within months and ruin potentially good relationships
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If a couple ISN"T arguing - there is something definitely wrong. Part of being a couple is learning how to argue and then RESOLVE the argument - not just simply DON"T BOTHER - as your horrible article suggests.
My particular sore spot is with the section on MONEY ISSUES. I tried "that one" for many years - do you know what happened? My husband kept ALL his money problems secret. Then - one day - he calls and says he has to close the business down and FILE PERSONAL BANKCRUPTCY! We have 3 small kids - so guess WHOSE PAYING ALL THE BILLS NOW! - yep - ME! I'm killing myself working full time, raising 3 small kids, paying every single bill in the household! I'm doing about 3 "side" jobs to help pay for bills, begging my parents for money to help me pay the rent. My husband can't work because he's bankcrupt and any money he'd make working would go back to pay his debt to the banks, the credit cards and government. Lucky for me - we had separate bank accounts and retirement money - because all HIS was confiscated! We even had to get our wedding rings assessed (and my engagement ring) - which I HAD to BUY BACK his share to lose them too!
But I guess according to YOUR ARTICLE - I shouldn't be "bothering" my husband arguing about money eh?
Nice try on the article. Hope you still have your REAL JOB! lol
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LOL I can not believe how many of these fights my husband picks with me almost daily. I think there might be one or two on the list that does not apply to me. We have two kids and one on the way, so things have changed over the years and he can not understand why... I need him to read this article and fast...
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