Lifestyle questions and answers

Ask a question on any topic and get answers from real people on Yahoo! Canada Answers

  • If I got The date ......?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

    Additional Details

    If I asked her for a date today..and she said yes..but she has a friend with benefit..should I worry if her and I get closer? Or will her feelings for him fade and her like me more if we get along great?
  • dad died grandmother says life insurance was drained by funeral costs?

    Family - 5 hours ago

    Additional Details

    my father died. I am his only kid Im 27. my grandmother took a life insurance policy out on my father. I was never told the details. The arrangements was no funeral parlor 2 days after he died we went to the family church and had mass then went straight to the cemetery. I am unsure of how to find out if I was lied to. or if my grandmother was the one to end up with what ever the life insurance paid off. I have heard that she may have been the primary beneficiary as long as she survived his dying. and I would then be the secondary, only being beneficiary if my grandmother was deceased when he died. can someone put this in perspective for me please?
  • Teens: Is it embarassing not to have any plans for weekends?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    Do u feel nervous when it's thursday and u sill don't have any plans for the weekend? Do u feel sad or embarassed to stay at home all day on Saturday?
  • what do u do when one of your best doesnt like your other best friend!?help mi pllzzz?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    one of my friends really doesnt like my other best friend wat can i do....
  • Help! Boy trouble! Or maybe it's me..?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    Okay,here's the deal. Whenever I like a guy,I don't want him to right away (if at all), so I act uninterested even when he shows interest.It's childish but it's a defense mechanism for me. So there's this guy I really like a lot and I've given him the cold shoulder, even when I tried to show interest (I'm messed up,I know). I want to know if there's a way for me to fix the damage,start over maybe. The only method that I haven't tried is telling him flat out,which I cannot (will not) do, especially since I think he make have lost some interest. If anyone has any USEFUL advice,strategies,etc., I'd greatly appreciate them
  • How did u meet the person u ended up marrying?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    1. how old were u and the person when u guys met for the first time? 2. where and how did u meet the person 3. did u instantly realize that the person is " the one" when u first met him/her. 4. how long did it take to finally decide to marry 5. What's the top reason that u have decided to spend the rest of ur time with him/her?
  • How different are you from your fiance/fiancee?

    Weddings - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    How different are you from your loved one? i am more of aggressive, he's passive; i am impatient, he's patient; im little loud, he's very quiet. how about you? :)
  • so i have this friend and sometimes she can be a bitch. please help.?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    i like this guy. ever since i told my friend how much i like him, she flirts with him right in front of my face and then brags about how much they talk and how good friends they are. the first time i told her that she kept flirting with him in front of me, she told me she would stop. it got to the fourth time i was telling her and she said she would stop talking to him altogether because she wanted to prove to me that she was a better friend. i told her it was her last chance. its now at the sixth time and ive had enough. she started telling me how her and my crush started talking on the phone heaps and texting and stuff and that he asked her out and she was just rubbing it in my face. i got really angry. do you think i was right to get angry at her? i recently talked to the guy i like and he told me everything that she said was pretty much bullshit besides he called her for half an hour once to find out my best friends phone number because they are like brother and sister blah blah. also i recently talked to my friend (the bitch)'s ex best friend and she told me that my friend had done the exact same thing to her boyfriend. how do we show her what she is doing? we have both tried telling her multiple amounts of times but she just says that we dont make sense. so any ideas on how we can make her stop and show her how much damage she is doing? or should we just let it go and let karma get her? please help.
  • Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

    Additional Details

    I am friends with this guy that I've hung out with 4 or 5 times. I have a crush on him and it seems like he is always flirting with me. The first time I met him it was cold and he put his arms around me and warmed me up. It seems like every time I see him he hugs me, lays on me ( jokingly), calls me his lover, etc. He gave me his number (but didnt ask for mine) and I texted him so he would have my number. We had a short conversation, only 8 or 9 texts long. I didnt hear from him for about 3 days, and then he texted me last night saying "hey cutie". We had a good 30 minute conversation, and then he just stopped replying. So, does it seem like he is flirting or looking for something more?
  • Is is ok to kiss her suddenly?Help me thx?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

    Additional Details

    You know this girl that i like.She is my friend but not so close friend.What happen if i kiss her suddenly when no1 around?Will she slap me?What will she think?She is not cruel.She is cute and gentle.Because i going to ask her out!!Actually i asked this question .I want ask again because i need more help.Thank you for answers and i really like her more than my parents and any1 else !!Lol

Get out of debt - fast! (continued)

Money troubles got you stressed? We'll show you how to solve them

By Bonnie Schiedel
1 | 2 | 3

10. Mine your savings

Freeing up non-RRSP investments can work well, too. A few years ago, Anderson invested a small inheritance from her grandmother. When she was stressed out by her line of credit and car payments, she cashed in $9,000 - everything but her RRSPs - to pay off part of her $25,000 debt and still minimize the tax hit. Before making the move, she talked to her financial adviser and was careful to pinpoint the investments that had the fewest early-withdrawal penalties and back-end-load fees.

11. Ask for forgiveness See if you qualify to have your student loan reduced or even eliminated. In B.C., students who graduated after December 2004 in fields including speech pathology, physiotherapy and audiology, and who are working with children in underserviced areas, may be able to get their provincial student loan "forgiven." That's right, no repayment required. Ditto for nursing, medical, midwifery and pharmacy students who graduated as of August 2002. Visit www.bcslservice bureau.com for details. Also, check out www. canlearn.ca and your provincial or territorial student-assistance centre for information on other programs, including interest relief and debt reduction.

Talk to a pro

If you need serious financial help, talk to an accredited credit counsellor. Credit-counselling agencies work with you and your creditors to resolve your debt. Many are non-profit, which means you pay little or nothing for the service. Ask your financial institution for recommendations or visit www.creditcounsellingcanada.ca to find an agency in your area.

Credit counsellors offer a debt-repayment or management service, says Margaret H. Johnson, president of Solutions Credit Counselling in Surrey, B.C. In a repayment program, the government-licensed counselling agency contacts the creditor on your behalf and offers to pay your debt over a fixed period of time, usually five years. In return, the interest stops accruing immediately. The downside is that your credit rating takes a nose-dive for two to three years after the debt is repaid, giving you an R7 rating(R1 is perfect and R9 is bankruptcy).

For Gloria Ciccale,* a retail employee in Charlottetown, credit counselling was the way to go. "Before, I was paying almost $700 a month in minimum payments," says Ciccale, who got behind on her payments - including payments on a loan with a staggering

33 per cent interest rate - after she separated from her partner. "Now I pay $132.50 every two weeks and will be debt-free in five years. I can't tell you what a relief it is. I can sleep at night now."

* Name and location have been changed.

First published in Chatelaine.com's January 2006 issue.
© Rogers Publishing Ltd.

1 | 2 | 3

Average (3 Ratings)2.33 out of 5 stars

2 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Night on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    The best way to drop debt is not to buy what you can't afford or don't have the money in the bank to pay for. We didn't have one car until four years after marriage and had furniture from our parents basements or attics until our kids were old enough to care for what we bought. We bought our first home after 10 years of marriage and saving and paid it off in only 10 years. It wasn't fancy but had a huge yard and we painted and papered and redecorated it ourselves but hired pros to do the electrical and plumbing and even re-roofed it ourselves with our parents and friends helping. I got my first automatic washer and dryer when my parents moved to an apartment and gave me their old ones and bought my first dishwasher for our 25th anniversary. We went to baseball and hockey games regularly, coached and refereed and umpired in minor sports so our kids enjoyed their time with us and we with them. Going to a movie was a special event and we never bought fast foods but I cooked our meals and worked full time as well. After 30 years in our home we sold it for 80% more than we paid for it including the renovations etc. Life can be fun without all the amenities people seem to feel they must have today. Our kids could wash and dry clothes and dishes and cook when they headed off to university and even had money saved to help pay their fees. Things are just considered too important today and credit is just too easy. We now own a private school, two cars and two homes and an apartment and all are paid for. Life is only as easy as we make it ourselves and we've both worked hard for our life to be so good in retirement. No debts and only one credit card and a bank card were all we ever needed and our credit card was paid off each month and still is but it's seldom used. Our cars are paid for and less than two years old. We now have money, time and the joys of sharing all with our family. People today want everything all at once and pay forever for being lazy and impatient.

    Report Abuse
  • 2. Posted by Nobody on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    A lot of bad advice that doesn't address the real problem. Lifestyle. We're on the third step of 7 baby steps that we started working on last September. It's not fancy, but it works. http://www.daveramsey.com/

    Report Abuse

LEAVE YOUR COMMENT
character(s) remaining

You must sign in to leave a comment

TODAY ON YAHOO!

Entertainment

Professional dancer Kym Johnson and partner entertainer Donny Osmond perform in the final performance show on the ABC reality series 'Dancing with the Stars' in Los Angeles November 23, 2009. REUTERS/Adam Larkey/ABC/Handout


Donny Osmond dances to victory on "Stars" finale
Reuters - NEW YORK (Reuters) - Donny Osmond danced his way to victory on Tuesday, winning the 9th...

Sports

Montreal goaltender Carey Price, right, is congratulated by teammate Paul Mara after the Canadiens defeated the Columbus Blue Jackets. THE CANADIAN PRESS/Graham Hughes


Bergeron scores twice as Canadiens come back to beat Blue Jackets 5-3
The Canadian Press - MONTREAL - As their injuries continue to mount, the Montreal Canadiens keep...

Odd News

Israeli special police forces take part in a national civil defence drill in Tel Aviv in June 2009. An apprentice spy for Israel's once vaunted Mossad overseas intelligence service was arrested by rank and file police during an abortive training exercise in the country's metropolis of Tel Aviv.  Photo:Jonathan Nackstrand/AFP


Novice Israeli spy gets nicked by... Tel Aviv cops
AFP - JERUSALEM (AFP) - An apprentice spy for Israel's once vaunted Mossad overseas intelligence...