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  • dad died grandmother says life insurance was drained by funeral costs?

    Family - 5 hours ago

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    my father died. I am his only kid Im 27. my grandmother took a life insurance policy out on my father. I was never told the details. The arrangements was no funeral parlor 2 days after he died we went to the family church and had mass then went straight to the cemetery. I am unsure of how to find out if I was lied to. or if my grandmother was the one to end up with what ever the life insurance paid off. I have heard that she may have been the primary beneficiary as long as she survived his dying. and I would then be the secondary, only being beneficiary if my grandmother was deceased when he died. can someone put this in perspective for me please?
  • Teens: Is it embarassing not to have any plans for weekends?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    Do u feel nervous when it's thursday and u sill don't have any plans for the weekend? Do u feel sad or embarassed to stay at home all day on Saturday?
  • what do u do when one of your best doesnt like your other best friend!?help mi pllzzz?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    one of my friends really doesnt like my other best friend wat can i do....
  • Help! Boy trouble! Or maybe it's me..?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay,here's the deal. Whenever I like a guy,I don't want him to right away (if at all), so I act uninterested even when he shows interest.It's childish but it's a defense mechanism for me. So there's this guy I really like a lot and I've given him the cold shoulder, even when I tried to show interest (I'm messed up,I know). I want to know if there's a way for me to fix the damage,start over maybe. The only method that I haven't tried is telling him flat out,which I cannot (will not) do, especially since I think he make have lost some interest. If anyone has any USEFUL advice,strategies,etc., I'd greatly appreciate them
  • How did u meet the person u ended up marrying?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    1. how old were u and the person when u guys met for the first time? 2. where and how did u meet the person 3. did u instantly realize that the person is " the one" when u first met him/her. 4. how long did it take to finally decide to marry 5. What's the top reason that u have decided to spend the rest of ur time with him/her?
  • so i have this friend and sometimes she can be a bitch. please help.?

    Friends - 6 hours ago

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    i like this guy. ever since i told my friend how much i like him, she flirts with him right in front of my face and then brags about how much they talk and how good friends they are. the first time i told her that she kept flirting with him in front of me, she told me she would stop. it got to the fourth time i was telling her and she said she would stop talking to him altogether because she wanted to prove to me that she was a better friend. i told her it was her last chance. its now at the sixth time and ive had enough. she started telling me how her and my crush started talking on the phone heaps and texting and stuff and that he asked her out and she was just rubbing it in my face. i got really angry. do you think i was right to get angry at her? i recently talked to the guy i like and he told me everything that she said was pretty much bullshit besides he called her for half an hour once to find out my best friends phone number because they are like brother and sister blah blah. also i recently talked to my friend (the bitch)'s ex best friend and she told me that my friend had done the exact same thing to her boyfriend. how do we show her what she is doing? we have both tried telling her multiple amounts of times but she just says that we dont make sense. so any ideas on how we can make her stop and show her how much damage she is doing? or should we just let it go and let karma get her? please help.
  • Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    I am friends with this guy that I've hung out with 4 or 5 times. I have a crush on him and it seems like he is always flirting with me. The first time I met him it was cold and he put his arms around me and warmed me up. It seems like every time I see him he hugs me, lays on me ( jokingly), calls me his lover, etc. He gave me his number (but didnt ask for mine) and I texted him so he would have my number. We had a short conversation, only 8 or 9 texts long. I didnt hear from him for about 3 days, and then he texted me last night saying "hey cutie". We had a good 30 minute conversation, and then he just stopped replying. So, does it seem like he is flirting or looking for something more?
  • Is is ok to kiss her suddenly?Help me thx?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    You know this girl that i like.She is my friend but not so close friend.What happen if i kiss her suddenly when no1 around?Will she slap me?What will she think?She is not cruel.She is cute and gentle.Because i going to ask her out!!Actually i asked this question .I want ask again because i need more help.Thank you for answers and i really like her more than my parents and any1 else !!Lol
  • My friend is putting guys before me (7th grade)?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    ok my friends has been obsessing over guys lately.. ever since she's been playing volleyball with them she's been falling down and injuring herself on purpose just to get attention and to have guys help her up so that they can hold her hand and also she cries whenever she doesn't get a lot of attention so that the guys will notice her and treat her like a princess or something also she once told this guy that i liked him because she likes him too and she told him i liked him just so that he could talk to her more i mean what kind of friend tells someone else my secrets???? she promised not to tell ANYONE. but she told him just to get his attention. all the guys who play volleyball always treat her like a princess now and she just ignores me. like after i was playing vball with her and the guys the bell rang and then i was gonna give her something but she just ignored me every single time i called her. i was like 10 feet away from her! and then all her guy friends just dragged her away and they were laughing at me and stuff. :( wat should i dooo?? she's being such a jerkk.
  • How come people tell me that i'm pretty and have personality yet I absolutely don't get hit on by any guys?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    I'm twenty. The only guys who really hit on me are homeless men with no teeth who come up to me and tell me that I am beautiful. (non-homeless guys have said this too though) Men just look, no one talks to me. What's going on??

Get out of debt - fast! (continued)

Money troubles got you stressed? We'll show you how to solve them

By Bonnie Schiedel
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6. Think big

Nancy Nelson of northern Saskatchewan turned her love of wild berries into a successful business. In between farm chores, she started selling homemade preserves on eBay.ca and soon branched out to antiques, clothes and collectibles found on her yard-sale and auction jaunts. The profits went into a separate bank account. "Within a couple of years, I had earned enough to pay off our mortgage!" she says.

Hellen Koufakis of Toronto also set her sights on a higher cash flow when she was saddled with $12,000 in back rent and unpaid utility bills after her divorce. "I was a receptionist and was determined to find a better-paying job. I moved to a temp agency and landed a contract position, which led to a permanent job as an executive assistant. I now make almost twice as much as before and that income, combined with a budget that has become a habit, means I'm now doing marvellously well."

7. Make creative cuts

The old "tighten your belt" advice is true: start reducing your costs wherever you can. You'll be surprised at how quickly small cuts can make a big difference. "One of my clients paid off her debts almost a year ahead of schedule just by colouring her hair at home, rather than at the salon, and applying the savings to debt repayment," says Lori Bamber, Chatelaine's Ask an expert financial columnist.

Kathryn Anderson, a program administrator for a career centre in Vancouver, agrees. "When I tracked my expenses, I found I was buying a lot of groceries, but wasn't using them because I was eating out instead. Now I have a monthly food budget that I decide how to spend, and if it's a lot of restaurants and a few tuna sandwiches, it's ok as long as I stay within my budget. This way I don't feel deprived."

8. Get a loan(Yes, that's right, a loan!)

Toronto resident Sera Weiss got fed up with making only the minimum payment on her credit cards each month and living paycheque to paycheque, so she took action. First, she discussed her situation with her family, and her grandmother and aunt gave her a combined one-time-only cash Christmas gift to help her get out of the hole. Then she went to her bank and got a $5,000 loan with set payment terms and a repayment schedule at a substantially lower interest rate than her credit cards. "My bank really wanted me to open a line of credit instead, but I knew it would have been too easy to dip into, and I would have ended up further in debt. I needed to know I had to repay a certain amount each month for a limited amount of time." Now she's out of debt and lives within her means.

If you are employed, have a good credit rating and some form of collateral, you could probably qualify for a consolidation loan from your financial institution, says Bamber. "This is good for people in a tight, but not extreme, situation," she notes. "A consolidation loan is a bank loan you use to pay off your various debts, leaving you with one debt, generally at a better interest rate, and one monthly payment."

9. Dip into your RRSPs

Does the very idea make your hair stand on end? Guess what: RRSPs don't have to be sacred, especially if you have lots of unused contribution room. "If you're earning eight per cent interest on your RRSP assets and paying 18 per cent interest on your credit-card debt, the idea of saving for the future is a complete illusion," says Bamber. Crunch the numbers to see if it's worthwhile for you. Then, once you've paid off your debt, talk to your financial adviser about balancing your RRSP withdrawal with a low-interest RRSP loan(generally easy to qualify for)that can be used to reinvest, lower the amount of tax you pay and get you back on track.

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  • 1. Posted by Night on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    The best way to drop debt is not to buy what you can't afford or don't have the money in the bank to pay for. We didn't have one car until four years after marriage and had furniture from our parents basements or attics until our kids were old enough to care for what we bought. We bought our first home after 10 years of marriage and saving and paid it off in only 10 years. It wasn't fancy but had a huge yard and we painted and papered and redecorated it ourselves but hired pros to do the electrical and plumbing and even re-roofed it ourselves with our parents and friends helping. I got my first automatic washer and dryer when my parents moved to an apartment and gave me their old ones and bought my first dishwasher for our 25th anniversary. We went to baseball and hockey games regularly, coached and refereed and umpired in minor sports so our kids enjoyed their time with us and we with them. Going to a movie was a special event and we never bought fast foods but I cooked our meals and worked full time as well. After 30 years in our home we sold it for 80% more than we paid for it including the renovations etc. Life can be fun without all the amenities people seem to feel they must have today. Our kids could wash and dry clothes and dishes and cook when they headed off to university and even had money saved to help pay their fees. Things are just considered too important today and credit is just too easy. We now own a private school, two cars and two homes and an apartment and all are paid for. Life is only as easy as we make it ourselves and we've both worked hard for our life to be so good in retirement. No debts and only one credit card and a bank card were all we ever needed and our credit card was paid off each month and still is but it's seldom used. Our cars are paid for and less than two years old. We now have money, time and the joys of sharing all with our family. People today want everything all at once and pay forever for being lazy and impatient.

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  • 2. Posted by Nobody on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    A lot of bad advice that doesn't address the real problem. Lifestyle. We're on the third step of 7 baby steps that we started working on last September. It's not fancy, but it works. http://www.daveramsey.com/

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