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  • what does it mean when your best "girl" friend asks you to go to a movie with her?

    Friends - 5 hours ago

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    like we've been best friends for almost 7 years now and she never asks me to go to the movies or anything and im just confused whether she likes me or just wants me to accompany her to see that new twilight movie.
  • our daughter wants her father and I to pay for marriage counseling for her should we do it?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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  • SURVEY: For all you Older people out there...?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    How would you women feel about your partner not caring about his appearance, i mean not even trying to dress nice, go to the mall with you with tatty cut - out pants made into shorts, abit dirty, a shirt with a couple of holes and stained, (He says its clean,its been washed) but you can see its not looking nice. And he is bare foot aswell., he is always like this no matter what amount of clothes you buy him. I buy him a new shirt and new pants and not long and he has worked on some dirty job at home wearing them and ruined them with grease etc. Happens again and again, how would you feel about that? I feel ashamed to be seen with him like that in public as he looks like a homeless person . Does it mean i do not love him enough because it affects me?? Would you love some one no matter how yucky they dress because they just do not care or would it make you love them less and feel ashamed?? I want my man to dress nice and care about his appearance but he does not. Guys, are any of you out there like this?? Why is he like this? please no silly answers, i am serious. person He is my ex - husband and he has been wanting to get back together, but it really puts me off with the way he doesnt care about looking half decent. (Always was like this and has not changed) I did try when i was with him, hopelessly.
  • does he like me or not?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    there is a boy in my school who always stares at me in class and in the hallways...he always tries to get closer to me, and when his bascket ball team enter in compitions he always bring me tickets for the first row... does he like me? shal i get closer to him?
  • advice wanted. girls preferred?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Well at uni i was a good friend with a girl (at least i thought i was). While at uni we did help each other when needed. Well when we left uni she started to act strange. She has been ignoring my calls and texts for no reason. I know i have not upset her at all. This has been happening since Spetember. I know that she could be busy but to not reply to my text and to ignore nearly all my calls shows that she wants to ignore me. I have been told this in secret form her friend and have been told to act as if i am not aware about it. Now what i want to know is what should i do? I will totally ignore her and remove her as a friend on fb (although that seems childish). but if and when i see her what shall i say? I am saying this becasue we do have common friends. Shall i question her about why she has been ignoring me. I know that we can lose in touch with people but this si totally out of the blue and strange. I have given her some space. I mean i stopped calling her for months and when i did she still did not really talk
  • Dose she like me?????

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to meat the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?
  • ALL GIRLS, am i the guy that you would like?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    im very short for my grade. im about 5'0" I am a nice guy who is 13 in december. I have had this one girlfriend who i really liked and she broke up with me about a year ago. I told her i loved her every day and i would always say good night and good morning. I tried to get her back when she broke up with me but that didn't work. People always say im a nerd or a n00b. i don't ever play video games and if i do it is for about an hour a week. this year, my school got open enrollment and this one girl came. i thought she was cute and i am in none of her classes, but lunch. I started to notice that she constantly looked at me and when i looked back, she would turn away. Im really shy and only talk to people i know really well. i am friends with everyone in my grade, literally. i talk to the nerds, the emos, the cool kids, the nerds, everyone. i talk to this one kid who everyone makes fun of cuz he talks funny, so i try to be nice to him. i finally asked this girl out and she said, give me time. so i did and at a high school football game, she said yes and gave me a hug. later, she broke up wit me cuz i was still shy and didn't really talk to her. i talked to her and asked for another chance, and she said i still like you, but i have another bf. we talk/text all the time. i help her with everything, but not just her, every girl. i hold doors open, help with homework, i even flirt sometimes, i give christmas gifts that come from the heart(i make them(bracelets, neckleces, ect.)), i dont like girls for their body of hotness(even tho i got both beautiful girls), im considered cute by all girls i've asked out(but apearently im not their type, which i understand). i just wanted to know if i am a good guy, would YOU go out with me if you knew me, what type girls think i am, or anything else. Thanks i also play football, basketball, and track and i weigh about 79 pounds, very underweight for my age my 2nd gf was the best and i never wanted to let her go, but ppl made fun of me (cuz i didnt deserve her and there were 13 guys who asked her out and she turned them all down for me) and thats part of the reason y she broke up with me
  • Hey i like this girl but... please help girls u rock at this! for info, i am the sensitive gu type?

    Singles & Dating - 9 hours ago

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    Ok, well i like this girl,and she said she liked me, but she cant date, her parents wont let her.(mom super strict) wat should i do? where do igo from here? But, a rumour went around that she and some both liked each othr and the guy told me without knowing i liked her tht she said she would date him if she could! idk if hes lying, PLEASE HELP
  • Men: Do you let your wives out of the house for anything other than grocery shopping?

    Marriage & Divorce - 10 hours ago

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    I only let my wife go out when we need groceries and once I month I will let her take the kids to visit her parents. Other than that she is in the house cooking and cleaning where she belongs.
  • i miss my girlfriend so much it hurts?

    Singles & Dating - 10 hours ago

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    we have been together for 9 months and spend a lot of time together (about 3-4 days a week) but she has had to stay with her auntie who lives quite far away and will be there for about 3 or more weeks. A few days have passed already and its killing me not getting to be with her It feels like she has just broke up with me. we talk on the phone but after a while the feeling comes back... is there anything i can do to make this go away. i can't do anything without thinking about her non stop.

Get out of debt - fast!

Money troubles got you stressed? We'll show you how to solve them

By Bonnie Schiedel
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11 ways to slash your debt

1. Psych yourself up

"Begin with your brain," says financial coach Nancy Zimmerman. "What works for your personality? If you need to meet a goal quickly to feel successful, for example, there's what I call the fast-and-furious method. Make your minimum payments and also direct as much money as you can each month to one debt(preferably with the highest interest rate)until you get it paid off. This gives you a real 'woo hoo' sense of satisfaction. Then move on to the next bill."

2. Lower your interest rate

Negotiating a lower interest rate on your high-cost plastic is as simple as calling your credit-card company, says Lynnette Khalfani, a money coach and author of Zero Debt: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom(Advantage World Press). "People think that interest rates are set in stone, but credit-card companies know it's a competitive marketplace, so they want to keep you as a customer," she says. "If you have a good history of paying at least the minimum on your cards every month, nine times out of 10 your rate will be lowered on the spot."

Call and politely say you've been a loyal customer for years, but the competition has offered you a better rate and can the company beat it? A new rate of 10 to 11 per cent is a reasonable expectation, but see how low you can go.(This worked for Khalfani herself: before she became a money coach, she had a jaw-dropping $100,000 in credit-card debt, despite a six-figure salary. She negotiated lower interest rates, tripled her monthly payments and cut back on spending, and wiped out the debt in three years.)

3. Refinance your house

Sabrina Sabo, a health-care aide in Stratford, Ont., got a handle on her payments by refinancing her mortgage. She and her husband went to their bank halfway through their five-year term and increased the amount they owed - but kept their interest rate at a decent 5.8 per cent. "With the extra money, we were able to pay down some of our debt(which consisted of student and car loans), and our mortgage payment went up by only $30 a week. Before, our non-mortgage debt payments had been $500 a month because of higher interest charges."

Make sure you shop around to get the best possible rate on your mortgage. Visit www.allcanadamortgage.com to find a mortgage broker in your area.

4. Take advantage of your credit rating

Talk to your financial institution about a personal line of credit. This means it will pre-approve you for a maximum amount you can borrow, and the interest rate will be substantially lower than the 18 per cent or so you're paying on your credit cards, explains Christine Van Cauwenberghe, director of tax and estate planning at the Investors Group in Winnipeg. Your rate will depend on your credit rating and your assets(with more assets, such as a house, you'll pay a lower rate). Use this cash to pay off your high-interest debt. You then repay a minimum amount each month but you can pay off more than the minimum at any time.

5. Start small

Get out of the minimum-payment trap by setting up automatic money transfers through online banking, suggests Jessica Ludgate, an engineer in Whitby, Ont. "Start by transferring an additional piddly $25 a week from your account to your credit card or student loan. You won't miss it, but it adds up to $1,300 a year. Then, as your debts decrease, increase the amount of the weekly transfers." In just three years, Ludgate and her husband zapped $7,500 in student loans and $5,000 in credit-card debt.

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  • 1. Posted by Night on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    The best way to drop debt is not to buy what you can't afford or don't have the money in the bank to pay for. We didn't have one car until four years after marriage and had furniture from our parents basements or attics until our kids were old enough to care for what we bought. We bought our first home after 10 years of marriage and saving and paid it off in only 10 years. It wasn't fancy but had a huge yard and we painted and papered and redecorated it ourselves but hired pros to do the electrical and plumbing and even re-roofed it ourselves with our parents and friends helping. I got my first automatic washer and dryer when my parents moved to an apartment and gave me their old ones and bought my first dishwasher for our 25th anniversary. We went to baseball and hockey games regularly, coached and refereed and umpired in minor sports so our kids enjoyed their time with us and we with them. Going to a movie was a special event and we never bought fast foods but I cooked our meals and worked full time as well. After 30 years in our home we sold it for 80% more than we paid for it including the renovations etc. Life can be fun without all the amenities people seem to feel they must have today. Our kids could wash and dry clothes and dishes and cook when they headed off to university and even had money saved to help pay their fees. Things are just considered too important today and credit is just too easy. We now own a private school, two cars and two homes and an apartment and all are paid for. Life is only as easy as we make it ourselves and we've both worked hard for our life to be so good in retirement. No debts and only one credit card and a bank card were all we ever needed and our credit card was paid off each month and still is but it's seldom used. Our cars are paid for and less than two years old. We now have money, time and the joys of sharing all with our family. People today want everything all at once and pay forever for being lazy and impatient.

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  • 2. Posted by Nobody on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    A lot of bad advice that doesn't address the real problem. Lifestyle. We're on the third step of 7 baby steps that we started working on last September. It's not fancy, but it works. http://www.daveramsey.com/

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