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  • A girl I met yesterday said she was bored and wanted to do something. Did this means she wanted to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    We had an interesting conversation about global warming and following the conversation, she said that she was "bored and wanted to do something fun". I had to go to practice so I said I had to go, but was it an invitation for sex? Did I lose a golden opportunity?
  • would losin weight make my jawline less square/sticking out?? (pic)?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    my face is like a big square lol is there any way to make it 'normal' http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/92/l_fed7730369b846bc812fa6274d4b9155.jpg
  • GIRLS!! help a guy out here...?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Hi..we are in a relationship.. i want to tell her that i want to see her smiling and happy, i cant stand seeing her sad, i cant see her sad..it kills me to see her sad, and its my biggest weakness. And that i want to be the only person who understands her and i want to erase everything that makes her sad.. i dont have the strength to tell her that :(. is it ok to feel like that about a girl?.
  • she broke my heart and i don't know what to do?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    i really like this girl so i asked her out.she had been out with others in the year and they didn't really work out well.when i asked her out,we were really close friends.she told me ask her in about a month.within that month she goes out with somebody else.i don't want to show im mad or ignore her because i really like her.i don't know if i should ask her why she told me to wait if she goes out with somebody,or just move on and find someone else
  • He believes rumors over me? I really didn't do anything! help please!?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    jerry - my best friend in the whole world.me and him like each other as more then friends. bob-my friend i just met this year.he tells me everything.but i don't tell him anything about me.I don't trust him.But his been threw a lot and he just needs someone to talk to.his a player and is all the time joking around with me saying me and him need to get together and everything. They hate each other.Jerry is jealous of bob.Jerry tells me all the time that he thinks i like bob and etc.But i really don't.I like jerry so much. There was some rumors that went around that i was trying to touch bob's dick during class and a lot more. Jerry heard them and he was mad about it. We started talking again after a couple days of not talking. But yesterday he bought it up again saying that i did do it. He don't believe i didn't do it. He said he thinks i like bob and everything. I was going to stop being friends with bob a couple weeks ago because he was just coming in between me and Jerry, but bob said it was jerry's fault at the time and went to fight him. I jumped in the middle of them and said no, and talked to him. I had to be his friend or he was going to get Jerry suspend. ( he plays sports, he can't get suspended) What do i do? Is jerry just hurt from it all? I really didn't do those things.I don't feel anything for anybody but jerry!
  • how young is too young to get married?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    i want to get married between 20-25. ( thats not too far away from now) anyway i hear alot of people saying thats too young n crap. to me, 30+ is too old. but to me as long as the person has a stable job n decent salary money it doesnt matter what age you are
  • First Sex.... How Long shall a girl wait??? how many dates?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 6 hours ago

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    After how many dates shall the First Sex Happen? ...i like this guy and.. I'm going out with him tomorrow. I'm not too conservative but defenately cannot be too easy. can you help me with this? I mean i know guys start to push a bit, right? I'm old enough.... 17. Turning 18 soon, but just foreget about it and answer as how it happens usually.
  • First DATE! And he's older than I! How shall I act?? Please HELP!?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 7 hours ago

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    I'm 17 and he's 26 and i'm going on a date tomorrow, can you please advice me how shall I act? u know... or look? any advice would be great... Gosh! I never though I would turn to yahoo answers for this lol but i'm SO NERVOUS! Also i know that's a somewhat age gap but... i like hime like SO MUCH! He is a very nice and smart guy, so... and i'm quite a mature girl, but just i'm kinda nervous so...
  • Why are middle class people so jealous of upper class people?

    Marriage & Divorce - 7 hours ago

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    I could drag this question out into a full-blown essay, as I have years of experience under my belt in watching middle class people suffer in their middle class nightmares. But I'll only point to one example. Why do middle class people obsess over taking vacations? I mean, when middle class people take a vacation, they take millions of pictures and discuss the fact that they're actually on a vacation. And when they get back from the vacation, they don't shut up about the vacation. When I was growing up, we'd pack up and spend the summer months in the Bahamas (nothing too fancy but my parents have a bungalow down there). We didn't scream, "Oh, we're on a vacation! Let's take a million pictures to remind ourselves of it!" Nor did we treat the locals with disrespect as do many middle class people since it's there only opportunity to be the boss of someone else--similar to how they treat waiters in restaurants. Rich people actually treat waiters kindly. Middle class people abuse the power divide. Anyway, do middle class people just obsess over how they feel like 'royalty' for that one week? Is that what it is? Are they so frustrated with their class status that they worship the idea of not being enslaved for that one week every year? You guys have to know what I'm talking about. So why are they so obsessed with vacations?
  • what did he mean when he said all this?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    ok well me and my bf had a fight and after that he took me off facebook. its been a whole week since he has not contacted me but i saw him online and i said hi. how r u? and he said whats wrong? i dont knoww what he meant... so i said what do u mean and he said i mean nothing. anyway so i said ok how r u. then he said is it important for u 2 know how i am.. so i said yes thats why im asking.. then he said hes ok. thats it.. i then said why r u stubborn with me all the time.. he said i only spoke 2 u like that so i didnt have 2 rememeber u again. what did he mean?? and why do u think he said all this? anyway i said hello fist thats when he started talking, and now hes added me 2 his yahoo list. what is he thinking.. and what did he mean by "i didnt wanna remember u again"??? Im really confused.. is he hurt, or is he angry, stubborn? do u think he was waiting 4 me 2 say hi how r u?

Get out of debt - fast!

Money troubles got you stressed? We'll show you how to solve them

By Bonnie Schiedel
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11 ways to slash your debt

1. Psych yourself up

"Begin with your brain," says financial coach Nancy Zimmerman. "What works for your personality? If you need to meet a goal quickly to feel successful, for example, there's what I call the fast-and-furious method. Make your minimum payments and also direct as much money as you can each month to one debt(preferably with the highest interest rate)until you get it paid off. This gives you a real 'woo hoo' sense of satisfaction. Then move on to the next bill."

2. Lower your interest rate

Negotiating a lower interest rate on your high-cost plastic is as simple as calling your credit-card company, says Lynnette Khalfani, a money coach and author of Zero Debt: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom(Advantage World Press). "People think that interest rates are set in stone, but credit-card companies know it's a competitive marketplace, so they want to keep you as a customer," she says. "If you have a good history of paying at least the minimum on your cards every month, nine times out of 10 your rate will be lowered on the spot."

Call and politely say you've been a loyal customer for years, but the competition has offered you a better rate and can the company beat it? A new rate of 10 to 11 per cent is a reasonable expectation, but see how low you can go.(This worked for Khalfani herself: before she became a money coach, she had a jaw-dropping $100,000 in credit-card debt, despite a six-figure salary. She negotiated lower interest rates, tripled her monthly payments and cut back on spending, and wiped out the debt in three years.)

3. Refinance your house

Sabrina Sabo, a health-care aide in Stratford, Ont., got a handle on her payments by refinancing her mortgage. She and her husband went to their bank halfway through their five-year term and increased the amount they owed - but kept their interest rate at a decent 5.8 per cent. "With the extra money, we were able to pay down some of our debt(which consisted of student and car loans), and our mortgage payment went up by only $30 a week. Before, our non-mortgage debt payments had been $500 a month because of higher interest charges."

Make sure you shop around to get the best possible rate on your mortgage. Visit www.allcanadamortgage.com to find a mortgage broker in your area.

4. Take advantage of your credit rating

Talk to your financial institution about a personal line of credit. This means it will pre-approve you for a maximum amount you can borrow, and the interest rate will be substantially lower than the 18 per cent or so you're paying on your credit cards, explains Christine Van Cauwenberghe, director of tax and estate planning at the Investors Group in Winnipeg. Your rate will depend on your credit rating and your assets(with more assets, such as a house, you'll pay a lower rate). Use this cash to pay off your high-interest debt. You then repay a minimum amount each month but you can pay off more than the minimum at any time.

5. Start small

Get out of the minimum-payment trap by setting up automatic money transfers through online banking, suggests Jessica Ludgate, an engineer in Whitby, Ont. "Start by transferring an additional piddly $25 a week from your account to your credit card or student loan. You won't miss it, but it adds up to $1,300 a year. Then, as your debts decrease, increase the amount of the weekly transfers." In just three years, Ludgate and her husband zapped $7,500 in student loans and $5,000 in credit-card debt.

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2 Comments

  • 1. Posted by Night on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    The best way to drop debt is not to buy what you can't afford or don't have the money in the bank to pay for. We didn't have one car until four years after marriage and had furniture from our parents basements or attics until our kids were old enough to care for what we bought. We bought our first home after 10 years of marriage and saving and paid it off in only 10 years. It wasn't fancy but had a huge yard and we painted and papered and redecorated it ourselves but hired pros to do the electrical and plumbing and even re-roofed it ourselves with our parents and friends helping. I got my first automatic washer and dryer when my parents moved to an apartment and gave me their old ones and bought my first dishwasher for our 25th anniversary. We went to baseball and hockey games regularly, coached and refereed and umpired in minor sports so our kids enjoyed their time with us and we with them. Going to a movie was a special event and we never bought fast foods but I cooked our meals and worked full time as well. After 30 years in our home we sold it for 80% more than we paid for it including the renovations etc. Life can be fun without all the amenities people seem to feel they must have today. Our kids could wash and dry clothes and dishes and cook when they headed off to university and even had money saved to help pay their fees. Things are just considered too important today and credit is just too easy. We now own a private school, two cars and two homes and an apartment and all are paid for. Life is only as easy as we make it ourselves and we've both worked hard for our life to be so good in retirement. No debts and only one credit card and a bank card were all we ever needed and our credit card was paid off each month and still is but it's seldom used. Our cars are paid for and less than two years old. We now have money, time and the joys of sharing all with our family. People today want everything all at once and pay forever for being lazy and impatient.

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  • 2. Posted by Nobody on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    A lot of bad advice that doesn't address the real problem. Lifestyle. We're on the third step of 7 baby steps that we started working on last September. It's not fancy, but it works. http://www.daveramsey.com/

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