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  • HELP-I need some first date advice!!?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    I am a divorced 28 year old and have not been on a first date in forever and now I am going on one next week Friday. What do I wear, what do I ask him, HELP. I'm so nervous.
  • What do you guys think of this idea for a present for a girl I like?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    Its kinda of a confusing situation. Basically theirs this girl that moved up the street from me about 5 months ago and we became pretty good friends. We live in PA and she move up from Myrtle Beach SC. She really misses her friends and her life down their. Her birthday is coming up and I wanted to get something for her from the heart and something that has alot of meaning to it. So a couple of years ago I went to Myrtle Beach and as something to remember it by I collected a bag of sand from the beach. So I thought it would be a cool idea to give her the bag of sand so when she is upset and misses her old life she would have a little piece of home to comfort her. I was also thinking about putting a necklace in their to but Im not sure. Any suggestions or opions about this idea would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
  • My boyfriend and I have NEVER talked on the phone, is this weird?

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    It's not just him, I've NEVER been a phone person. I don't even talk on the phone with my friends. We usually text everyday, but not excessively. Usually a short conversation everyday. However, I see him in school, and I talk to him there, but that's only like once in passing during the day, and also at the end of the day. We also hang out and go places, so it's not like we're an awkward couple or anything. Is it okay that we never talk on the phone? Thanks:)
  • how long should i wait to have sex?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 4 hours ago

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    im not a virgin but my boyfriend is quite a bit older than me we've been dating a little over a week how long should i wait
  • I am feeling hopeless and have no money. Need someone to talk to/counseling?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    I have major issues in my life and there is no one to talk to. My family is tired of hearing it, but they have no clue how severe things are and how important it is that i get help. I have a fiance(3yrs) and she isnt compassionate anymore either. I need free counseling of some sort really fast cause im scared that being trapped in my own head so long will make me do something drastic. Ive held on sooo long and I know things are bigger than me at this point. Im very scared and alone--I dont want to die, but for the 1st time in my life ive contemplated how much better things would be if i were gone. Clearly I dont want to think this way or i wouldnt be reaching out. Please help by giving me information so that i may get counseling asap. I have no money 4 it though as that is a large part of the problem. Please just help and dont take advantage of my vunerable state by making snide comments. I really need help. Thank you all soooo much. I appreciate every single one of you. I am religious btw and you guys gave me great ideas and a great start. Especially you likewine. I would really love to talk to you if that is possible. Would you call me if i gave you my number? You seem so level in your situation and I could learn from you. You also didnt cross the line by tooting your own horn for what youve done and i can appreciate that.
  • Girls, what do you think of this guy? (PICSSSS)?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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    I really like this guy...he's really sweet and nice...absolutely hilarious...has the best personality...and my friends for the most part think he's really hot. I am just wondering out of pure curiosity what you girls think...I don't stalk him at all or anything lol...but I am just a little curious what you think...the pics on this photobucket are all that I have of him :(. http://s995.photobucket.com/albums/af78/laurr321/ there are several pictures on that photobucket you could scroll through if you want Thanks <333 Sorry I know I already asked this but it says it got delelted and I didn't have a chance to read the responses.
  • Are we really just friends?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Me and this guy have a kinda weird relationship, we're friends, well, not really. Last year I told him I liked me, and we had a thing going for about a week (we were never official) and he told me he didn't want a relationship...then he had a girlfriend the next week. Asshole right? Anyways, so for the remainder of last year we didn't really talk since I was really hurt by the whole thing, even though through this whole time he thought we were cool. So, this year, me and him have a class together, and ultimately I think I'm around him more than I'm around any one other person throughout the schoolday. So, he's a major flirt, but he messes with me A LOT, and I really thought nothing of it, that that was just how he was. But last week he texted me, (he was a tad drunk at the time) and said he wanted me to join him so "we could have some fun." I almost went for it too, but at the same time, I didn't want that to be that girl that he calls in the middle of the night, so I refused. Now I'm just really confused. Is he actually attracted to me? Or does he just see me as an easy target? What do you think? Sorry that was so long!
  • Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date, but a year to make love she wanted you to wait?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    The response to this question are definitely breaking down along generational demographics.
  • How Can I Make This Relationship Work?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Okay, so I finally have a boyfriend! The problem is, I'm fourteen, he's thirteen, so we can't drive or anything. My mom doesn't care if I have a boyfriend, but she doesn't allow me to go to his house or vise versa. So really, the only thing I can do to stay in touch, is computer, phone, and school, or if the school is having any events. What are some other ways, or even some more tips and keeping this a good relationship? Thanks!
  • Do you think that same sex marriage is wrong?

    Other - Family & Relationships - 5 hours ago

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Pared-back company party still an opportunity for team building, morale boosting

By Joyce M. Rosenberg, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
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NEW YORK - It doesn't have to be a downer when the weak economy forces small businesses to scale back their holiday parties from the big catered or restaurant affairs they held in the past. These events can still be opportunities to build teamwork and boost morale.

An owner hoping for a great party should include employees in the planning. The camaraderie that results can make the planning as worthwhile as the event itself, and create goodwill.

"The very coming together over a non-work task is in itself delightful, delicious and engaging," said Beverly Kaye, an employee retention consultant in Sherman Oaks, Calif.

Owners who have had to downsize agree - it doesn't have to be a depressing process.

"We're going to scale back and still have fun together," said Carin Warner, whose public relations firm, Warner Communication, is based in Boston. Her company used to have weekend getaways. This year, it'll be a potluck party on the beach.

NO MONEY? NO OBSTACLE

Remember that even if there's little money for a party, it's still possible to have a good time. But if you've had to cancel the company's usual lunch or dinner at a restaurant, don't think that just ordering pizzas in one day will suffice. It may be effortless and inexpensive, but it's also pretty sterile and won't give employees or the company the kind of benefits that a full-scale party will have.

Kaye suggested telling employees, for example, "I have $250 to feed everybody. What can we do that's out of the box, that would be a great, fun party?"

Often the answer is going to be a potluck party in the office or at someone's home. Many employees love potluck affairs because it gives them a chance to show off their culinary skills and to get new ideas from co-workers. Potlucks give staffers a chance to get to know more about each other, and they have a warmth that catered parties often cannot duplicate.

In that case, with the staff supplying most of the food, an owner should be sure to contribute something substantial - a cake and beverages or ice-cream sundaes, for example.

ASK THE EMPLOYEES

Before you tell everyone to start cooking, you should ask employees what kind of party they'd like - and be sure they want to have one. Many employees feel as if they have little control over their work lives these days, especially in companies where there have been layoffs or workloads have increased. So let them decide.

Some companies are having a particularly hard time right now even as the economy shows signs of recovering. All the more reason to rally the staff, Kaye said.

"Use the opportunity to have fun, to say, 'We're a team, we're going to get through this together,"' she said. "This is a great example of recession thinking: How do you go from, 'Oh, woe is me' to 'Oh, wow, this is fun'?"

Another reason to bring staffers into the process from the get-go is that someone may want to volunteer to host a party, or they may have friends or relatives who can offer party space, supplies or food.

BE CREATIVE

Being creative, and urging staffers to be creative, is the best way to have a great party.

Carin Warner's public relations firm has had to scale back dramatically. "We've had the luxury of going away to what we call our spa retreats the past few years, but not this year, for obvious reasons," she said.

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