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  • Do you think I'm in the wrong or am I right?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We just got a house together and everything has been going good for the most part. Now he is 27 and ready for a family and I'm 21 and not so sure I want kids. It really hasn't been a problem because for some reason he thinks I might change my mind. Well he had done overseas about 6yrs. for the military and ended up sleeping with some girl and she had got pregnant. Come to find out she was married she told him that it was either his kid or her husbands. Well when it was born she never got a dna test but she told him that it was her husbands. Now five years later she found him on facebook and told him that she thinks the kid is his but yet she still doesn't want him to be apart of the kids life. She also told him that is not why contacted him. Well if she didn't want to talk about that then why does she keep calling. I said something to him about it and he said well even if I can't see her I still want to make sure she is okay. How would you feel about this?? Honestly I don't like that he is talking to her. Plus he doesn't even know if that kid is his for sure and she want let him find out. Do you think it's wrong of me for not wanting him to talk to her. I guess I wouldn't care so much if she would let him get a dna test but since she has already said that she wont and that the kid is being raised by her husband and that is all the kid knows and she wants to leave it that way.
  • Girls.... What do you find attractive about boys?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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  • What's it feel like when you're in love?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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  • what to do when your man doesn't call you back?

    Marriage & Divorce - 6 hours ago

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    I don't know what's going on. I called him 5 times for the past 2 days, left messages and he doesn't bother to call me back or even pick up the phone. Why is he doing this ? I told him that if he wants to break it off, to tell me so. But still no calls, he doesn't even bother to pick up the phone and it drives me insane ! He knows it The 5th message, I told him that I would leave him alone and give him his space, that I wouldn't call anymore and that if he wants to see me, he's the one who will have to call. Any advise? do you think it's a cowardly way of saying it's over between the 2 of us ? Thanks Jude, Queen, you ladies are right !
  • Why would a guy keep looking at your breasts when you talk to him?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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  • Why Is He Acting This Way?!?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    me and my boyfriend have been together for 18 months we are engaged and we just lost a baby about a month ago, when i met him he was on heavy drugs but i changed him and helped him get off them and he did i used to not be so intrested in him in the begining of our relationship and he was so lovely to me and i knew i was wrong to be acting like that and he gave me no option but to change now we are at this stage where he has been lying to me latly where i found out he is back on the drugs and says hes to addicted to stop and can't, we dont really have a active sex life anymore and he can never be bothered to come and see me anymore which i understand kinda because he does work hard everytime i question him about why hes acting this way he just says i want to much off him, he also used to send me cute messages and really sweet things like buying me little gifts and things which really made me happy and im still doing the same to him, i really do love him and dont want to lose him we finished before but i missed him too much we got back together he's also saying he wants to start going back out with his mates that get him in trouble and make him take drugs, im not too sure why hes acting this way, please help?
  • Did i say the wrong thing or did i hurt his feelings?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    The guy that I used to like was blocking the door to the classroom.I started to go through,Then my whole class started crowding in.He yelled"HEY! WHOS PUSHING ME?!" I screamed"I'M PUSHING YOU STUPID!!!"Then i got in the classroom and He pushed my backpack.Then he screamed"YOUR STUPID!!" "NO YOUR STUPID!!!" Then his friends laughed,He laughed a little bit too.Then when I looked at him,I saw a sad expression on his face.He wasn't smiling and I thought he was gonna cry,But he didn't.He was playing with his phone and everything.He ignored me a little,He looked at me a little.But i just ignored him and He just looked away,Still with that sad expression.He went home like that,Same sad expression.Did i say the wrong thing? Or did I really break his heart by hurting his feelings? I used to like him,But then his friend(Thats a stuck up bottle blonde girl)said he doesnt like me.I thought she was lying cause she changed the topic saying"what school you go to?"The girl is liked by all the guys in the class and I'm the opposite(The guys never talk to me) :'( Its sad,But i have a life to live then look at the ugly guys.
  • GIRLS, should I text her first?

    Friends - 7 hours ago

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    Me and this friend of mine tried dating recently. We used to text all day, good morning to good night. And If I didnt text her, she would text me first. But we decided just to stay friends. And now shes not texting me as much. Actually way less. Her messages are getting shorter, to the point. And if I dont text her, I dont hear from her. Should I text her "Happy Thanksgiving" first, or wait for her to text me? If she even does. Im puttin the effort in, but she doesnt seem to want to anymore. Did you miss the part where I said we tried to date? She didnt want to, she said lets be friends!
  • MEN ONLY help the fat chick ch 5?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    for health reasons in 5'4' 200 lbs how much do i need to loose
  • Relationship question for girls...?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    Alright girls...Here's my problem. I've had this crush for a long time. But I didn't think I had any chance with her whatsoever, so I never let my feelings show. A month ago, she told me she might like me. So we hung out a few times and we kissed a bit. Now, there's this guy from college that she used to date last year. He has come home a couple of times and they hung out both times. And now it kinda seems like she might not like me but I could just be being paranoid. Like I asked her to hang out friday and she just said "Yeah I'm kinda busy." Btw, the guy from college has abs and what not...and I don't really. I don't think she's that shallow, but I don't really know what girls want in a guy. I'm a sweet guy and I've not really had a serious relationship before, so I'm kinda new at this :P What do I do? Do I ask her about it? Do I just keep trying to hang with her? Please help.

Majority of Canadian employees living paycheque to paycheque, survey shows

By THE CANADIAN PRESS

TORONTO - Nearly 60 per cent of Canadians would have trouble paying the bills if their paycheque was delayed by one week, a new polls suggests.

The Canadian Payroll Association survey says not only are the majority of Canadians living paycheque-to-paycheque, but they have little ability to put money away for their retirement. 400. BC-Payroll-Survey. The survey, released Monday, said 59 per cent of Canadians would have trouble making ends meet if they missed a paycheque.

"We were surprised that people were that close to the line," said Patrick Culhane, president and CEO of the not-for-profit association.

Culhane said those results are despite the common advice from financial planners that people should set aside three months of expenses for such items as rent, groceries and monthly bills, in case of an emergency.

Of those surveyed, the younger workforce felt the greatest pinch. The survey said 45 per cent of people aged 18-to-34 would be difficult or very difficult to make ends meet if a paycheque were delayed. Another 21 per cent in that age group said it would be somewhat difficult.

Not surprisingly, 72 per cent of single parents said missing a paycheque would cause a problem for meeting financial obligations.

The survey also found that 50 per cent of Canadian workers can't save more than five per cent of their net pay for retirement, half of what financial experts often recommend.

Culhane said those results are despite the "guilt trip" Canadians get at the start of every year before the RRSP filing deadline.

"People know they have to do it," he said.

However, Culhane acknowledged it has become even more difficult to save for retirement recently with the stock market swings.

About 52 per cent of those surveyed believe they need between $750,000 to $3 million to live comfortably in retirement.

About one-third of Canadians report trying to save more money compared to last year due to the economic uncertainty, but can't. Another 42 per cent say they aren't trying to save more.

The survey was released as part of National Payroll Week, which runs until Friday.

Besides providing fresh data on Canadian attitudes, such surveys are a popular promotional tool for Canadian companies, who use public opinion polls to gauge consumer thinking and to promote specific brands to ordinary Canadians.

Banks and mutual fund companies have long used such surveys to make consumers aware of financial products and services and to learn more about the public's financial management habits.

The CPA survey was conducted by Calgary-based Framework Partners Inc. through online interviews of 2,800 employees across Canada. The results have a margin of error of 2.3 per cent, 19 times out of 20.

The CPA has more than 14,000 member and 1.5 million professionals in organizations across Canada.

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  • 1. Posted by Nehadup on Sat, Sep 26, 2009

    Living is tough here in canada. Too high taxes on a residential property, the exorbitant car insurance rates does not make sense at all, car repairs and maintenance bills sucks. At the end of the month, what you have left is zero in cash and a body which wears out sooner than your age with the hard work we put in at work. The time (hrs per day)which is supposed to be yours to take comfort in, is not yours anymore - even this belongs to the State! There is no question of savings here!

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  • 2. Posted by Robin C on Sun, Sep 20, 2009

    I have been trying to save money since the recession hit and its very difficult with rising land tax bills, utility bills, vehicle repairs, expenses for children's clothing and school needs. There is no way that I could set aside 3 months of living expenses as an emergency fund. We are self-employed and were hit hard by the recession. I had to cash in my RRSP's to help me make it through the winter. As posted by "dancer", people should begin saving very early in life and this should be taught to us by our parents and the education system. We should not try to live beyond our means or spend money we do not possess.

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  • 3. Posted by R on Fri, Sep 18, 2009

    I remember having a conversation with a girl I lived with in University. She said she couldn't believe that someone could live pay to pay. I told her that almost everyone I knew lived that way and she told me I needed to find new friends. She came from a family that had worked hard to build a greenhouse business so I am not sure where her brain was. Her parents must have lived from pay to pay at one time. I guess what I am trying to say is that I never realized that people didn't think that one day they would live pay to pay. I agree that the percentage of people living pay to pay would be higher if Yahoo did an actual survey. The recession has made it even more so. We just have to ride it out. If you have a job now in the recession be happy to have it and just keep plugging away!

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  • 4. Posted by Alisa N on Fri, Sep 18, 2009

    I wonder who took part in this survey because everyone I know that works hard for their money lives paycheque to paycheque....

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  • 5. Posted by Dave on Fri, Sep 18, 2009

    if we as canadians don't start fighting against the taxes that we are charged day in and day out --- pay cheque to pay cheque is how we will be living --- and it will get worse insted of better --- we need to approch our M.P.'s and tell them that we have had enough --- when a govt. says they will cut taxes --- hold them to it --- when a elected official says he or she is going to do something--- hold them to it rather than just say -- oh well here we go again --- nothing we can do --! canadians have gone to war and fight just as strong as any other country in the world --- maybe we should start fighting for ourselves and get our country back from the weak -- useless politicians that is createing the middle class to slowly die off while they fill thier pockets with our money-- vote themselves raises--and pat themselves on the back for doing such a great job in ripping us off --- and --- we take it --- it has got to stop ! as far as these RRSPs go --good luck -- i'm better off to go to a low risk mutual fund --- at least the interest rate is better -- from year to year canadians are going to be going without more and more --- if we don't get it together -- taxes have to come down --- not go up-- as the one person posted -- we need to take control of where the tax dollars are going and make it so that the govt. is accountable for every cent -- just because they are politicians-- does not mean they are above the law -- charge them and make them accountable --- and not let them sweep it under the table as if it had never happened or just make it go away as ususal-- we need to get on this not just for ourselves but for all the generations coming along behind us and get it right -- and do it right ---- NOW--- some may not agree and some will -- i'm not sure -- but this is the way i feel and i'm only one voice that can't do it alone -- if you agree speak -up -- if you don't -- just keep doing the same ol ' -- same ol'-- good luck to all --!

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  • 6. Posted by IDK on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    I have conditioned myself to be very frugal and I still have to live cheque to cheque. These studies always makes me make a funny face and go, "DUH". Sorry, but I do not make fifty dollars and hour nor even half that, so my paycheques dissolve very fast. Property tax combined with employment tax is can get very costly every month. Is there even any need to mention the interest rate and fees from banks (or rather legalized loan sharking)? I cannot afford to build a nest egg nor afford to dine out. Once my paycheque gets cashed, I have to feed the hungry, hungry hippos that almost devours the entire works. I do not have a living room per say, my entertainment system is my computer. I have no 'toys' because thirteen dollars an hour is crap. Food, fuel, tax, utilities, etc ... everything goes up except for our wages for us, the WORKERS who support this country and economy. I am not sure of a remedy, but the government has to ease off of taxing us. Screw the GST, PST, and rising rates. Screw penalty interest rates on credit cards. So much to screw and so little time. Workers are the lifeblood of Canada and a force to be reckoned with. It is about time the government and banks hear our loud voices and stop treating us like cash cows. Our communities do not hear us. Our cities do not hear us. Most importantly, our country does not hear us and that must change. I know life is not free, but the costs versus paycheque needs adjusting. The minimum wage is behind the times and a beacon that our government is behind the times, or they simply like ripping us off blind. It is a rich mans' market. The hard working middle class are slowly dropping off to the near poverty class. Death and taxes ... both are certain and unavoidable, even to the rich. Think about all of our tax money that is squandered. Think about all our tax money that we have no say how it gets spent. Keep bending over for the government and banks because you will get a sore back otherwise.

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  • 7. Posted by Ildmn on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    from no to yes now, a true Canadian. Found that it is harder to save than to spend with such little low wages but expensive groceries.

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  • 8. Posted by Frank C on Thu, Sep 17, 2009

    trying to save for a holiday is hard enough never mind retirment. a single parent who pays child support a mortgage bills etc. times being as tough as they are with work, u are forced to go in debt, nevermind save. JUST IMAGINE people thats all we can do.

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  • 9. Posted by Lorna B on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    How can we possibly save? The money I put away for a 'rainy day' always go to an emergency, such as expensive dental work (no coverage), taxes, car repairs...you name it,no luxury items or trips..where is the break?

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  • 10. Posted by 'dancer on Wed, Sep 16, 2009

    I'm not surprised by these "findings": we are urged to buy bigger, more, better, often, -now-. This consumerism prevents the necessary maturing required for postponing gratification. Being able to save and/or invest must begin early in life, with parents demonstrating and encouraging it. Value must be placed on protecting yourself, and less on satisfying urges that have no long-term benefits. Stop thinking you deserve gadgets and geegaws which eat up your potential savings and do nothing to put food on the table and a roof over your head.

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