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  • i need help?????????????????

    Singles & Dating - 4 hours ago

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    i want to ask this girl out but i dont know what to say and im to shy to ask. so can someone help me. dont give me the worst she could say is no crap because thats whats stopping me from asking her.
  • How do I pull him away from video games to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    Ever since he got this x-box 360, it's like our sex life is non-existent. I've tried sexy clothes, makeup. I feel like an idiot in our living room dressed up for him to say, "One more match," and fall asleep by myself.
  • okay. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. porn is alawys something we have argued about?

    Singles & Dating - 5 hours ago

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    and im done! i dont want to argue anymore. iv told him this amillion times.! but i cant tell if he ihas stopped. last time i found it on his computer about a month and a half ago he was just as upset as i was and disapointed in his self. he knows i hate it. just last night i found more on his computer/ he told me he swears its not his. that it must have been his brother who is 15, he told me he hates seeing me upset. that he only thinks of me and only me. that hes done with that shit as he called it and doesnt want to do it anymore. please dont tell me this is just something boys do. that its normal? thats not the answer im looking for. if he honestly is telling me the truth like hes saying..im to insecure about the subject to beleive him almost. hetold me if he looked at it he wud tell me because he said he wud rather me help him with it then him keep doing it behind my back. he also told me that he has had 4 urges to do it since i found out the last time. he told me that those times he had the urges he just went to bed or jacked off to me. i feel bad cuz i feel i cant trust him. and i also feel bad cuz when i feel like it was him and i get mad and upset he gets mad cuz i dont beleive him. i realy honestly dont know what to do to make my self feel confident about it. hes not one to lie. cheat. or any of that. i mean everyone says it cud be worse ya know? but i dnt want the porn in our relationship. last time what realy got him was...i told him i was gna leave if it didnt stop. a relationship of 2 years is pretty important to just let go like that. i honestly dont think he being hte person he is wud just drop that. can u guys help me? and before u say it i wont whatch it with him! and he has tons of pictures of me and stuff like that. i just want me and him without the porn. not me him and the porn ya know??
  • Have you ever.......?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    Have you ever looked in your spouses/significant other's phone text messages or facebook/myspace pages if you had a gut feeling that something was going on behind your back? And if so, wether you found something or not, did you feel guilty for looking in the first place? I looked out of curiosity while trying to download some music onto her phone, didn't like what I found, and felt guilty anyway. If I don't say anything, God only knows how long it will go on for. If I do say something, she'll think I don't trust her. My issue is, it could be nothing at all, she is a viscious flirt. We have a great marriage and a fantastic sex life, so if it is what I fear, why would she find the need to stray?
  • my mother-in-law yelled at wife to see if I would defend her and I didn't so her mother said see you don't-?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    love her -any thoughts
  • How cheap is cheap? im with a cheap a$s?

    Marriage & Divorce - 5 hours ago

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    My partner is cheap, all the time. Now when i get money i always spend it on what we need, i never whinge and feel that well if we want to eat out, then lets do it. We have no kids and arnt paying mortage etc...when he is broke im always there to buy him anything he needs. Now when it comes to his money, the day he gets it he will be quiet and not go places to spend money, he avoids it all costs. he will only eat once a day. Mind you he is arabic, i know sometimes they can be cheap and they eat a very basic diet his is chicken and rice, every day almost i cant stand no more chicken and rice.i will scream if i see another grilled drumstick. So come to today i want to make something, thai chicken curry, he is all for it, then its his turn to buy he changes his mind when i say get chicken breast fillet, i need it, he says no lets get a kilo of chicken drumsticks they are $2.50 a kilogram, i said why he said its cheaper i dont want to spend alot of money, i said to him how? he told me we can boil the chicken and peel the meat off, put that in the stir fry. I was so mad you cant believe. Then we had a massive fight in the car because i called him cheap, he says he isnt, but he is, and he dosent want to spend alot on food.cheap with everything..i pay more than him and i need to eat decent food, so he said to me okay i will cook myself and if you want to buy expensive stuff then by for yourself. Im still angry and want to know if this IS cheap and he is being?!! after the arguement we didnt buy food, he just went to macdonalds and spent $15 there? i thought he wanted to not spend alot of money? oh yeh and he ate half my fries too :(
  • Me and my boyfriend are ready to have sex?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    Ok me and my boyfriend have been going out a while now and we have spoken to each other about sex. Im 15 and he's 17 and we are both virgins. I AM going to wait until i am 16 in February, and i have a very open close relationship with my mum (thank god) so i have talked to her about it about it and she is going to take me to the doctors to get tested and to go on the pill in February. Well i am posting this question because i want to now will it hurt? He is fairly big (if you know what i mean) lol, about 7 inches erected, he has fingered me and i bled the first few times but i don't anymore when he fingers me now, so does this mean i wont bleed when i have sex? And also is it better for him to go on top for the first time or me???? By the way i would rather not have anyone say im to young because i AM READY and we love each other and want to take our relationship further. x Thank you i just needed to know about the pain is all so im prepared if there is any. lol xx thanks
  • Dose she like me??????

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    so the amrocan girl i like blond hair brown eyes allways talkes to me at the lokers and lafhs. today she told me that i pray to much and that the man that im named after was a extrem patrot to germany(he went down with the bismark. i pray to jesus that she likes me (she dosant know). but at hoomrome and at S.S.R. i look at her and she looks at me but for some rison i cant look into her eyes and i have to look away.at the end of the day she told me bye. dose she like me?how can i make her like me?any tips?how do i hint i like her with out telling her?
  • When I was your age... _________ was cool.?

    Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago

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    It's a fill in question of when you were young/lil. What was cool?
  • When people say:"Oh, you make me so mad!"...who do you think cares?

    Singles & Dating - 7 hours ago

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    When you allow yourself to get angry or sad, frustrated or go spastic, what makes you think other people give a damn? You do it for no reason that's obvious to others...we just wonder why you think it's supposed to matter to us!

Sex good for your heart

Research has shown that sex can make you look younger, reduce stress and help you to sleep better. And now it just might help to prevent coronary disease, according to the British Heart Foundation (BHF). Drawing upon decades of research, the foundation is recommending sex as a way to…

By Cynthia Ross Cravit, 50Plus.com
Sex good for your heart

Research has shown that sex can make you look younger, reduce stress and help you to sleep better. And now it just might help to prevent coronary disease, according to the British Heart Foundation (BHF).

Drawing upon decades of research, the foundation is recommending sex as a way to stay active and maintain heart health. In a new advertising campaign people over 50 are encouraged to "Get your 30 minutes a day, any way." The billboard campaign features an older couple locked in a passionate embrace -- a woman, scantily dressed in a swimsuit, is hugging a man wearing, well, nothing but a swim cap.

The campaign addresses one of the most important issues affecting the health of older adults -- physical inactivity. In fact, a sedentary lifestyle is responsible for about 20 per cent of cases of coronary heart disease in the UK, as well as an increased risk of other life threatening diseases, the foundation says on its website.

Getting active is especially important for people over 50 because they are at greater risk of heart disease. Only 30 per cent of 50-64 year-olds are active enough to safeguard their health, according to the BHF.

Sex as exercise

A 2007 U.K. study indicated that a sedentary lifestyle is responsible for 35,000 deaths each year in Britain, the equivalent of someone dying every 15 minutes. Dr. Mike Knapton, director of prevention and care at the British Heart Foundation, told CanWest News Service the prevention of these deaths "is simple and achievable."

"Keeping fit doesn't have to mean sweating it out at the gym, he added.

Research has shown that having sex three times a week over the course of a year burns about the same number of calories as running 120 kilometres.

Sex not only lowers the likelihood of stroke or heart attack, but it has also been found to reduce blood pressure, help with migraine pain and enhance the immune system by triggering the hormone DHEA.

Of course, sex isn't the only way to get moving. Outside of conventional exercise regimens such as walking or jogging, other activities endorsed in the foundation's ad campaign include doing housework, walking the dog, washing the car, swimming, gardening, and dancing.

"I think the campaign is relevant for people the world over," says Lizzy Ray, a spokeswoman for the BHF.

Affairs of the heart

Research points to the health benefits of meaningful social interaction and support. Being happily married for a long time, for example, leads to greater life expectancy for both men and women. However, divorcing then remarrying actually increases the risk of dying prematurely, according to a study in Health Psychology Journal.

And a Japanese study found that people who engaged in adulterous relationships were more susceptible to fatal strokes.

Something as simple as holding hands can also have health benefits. Touch has been shown to increase premature babies' weight gain, heal the immune system and reduce risk for coronary disease.

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  • 1. Posted by Roguetheelf24 on Wed, Jul 8, 2009

    You know, not all women can be bought with gifts. I'm not like that and I wasn't raised to be an easy tart or to be shallow. And personally, I'm sick of society telling the world, especially singles like myself, that we HAVE to be dating or be in a relationship, or telling the world that its okay to sleep around outside of marriage or to cheat on your spouse when NONE of that is okay, not by my standards anyway. It's enough to make me want to live like a hermit, but then again, I wouldn't be a Phsychiatrist/Therapist who specializes in treating battered women and teenage girls with severe problems, and so I put up with the world and its crap and just try to help those who are up to their necks in it.

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  • 2. Posted by C156798 on Tue, Jul 7, 2009

    You can't buy a man's love, though it seems you can with a woman.

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