Friends - 5 hours ago
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So the guy is a player and his friend who is girl know. He is not her type and she just want to be good friend not friend with benefit. However, he can't held it. He play mind games with her (cold n hot 3 times get her attention and affection). She decided she final fed up and isn't going to put up with that. She is no longer friend with him.
Now he get to see her happy and have plenty of guys friends. She is successful, independent, and enjoying life. She help anyone that need her help but she is no longer willing to give her attention to him. Didn't he realize how good of a friend she was (getting him med when he was sick, listening to his stories, telling him jokes to make him happy, etc...)?
Was he never really her friend but was trying to use her? She been told she is cute and has a nice personality, etc...
Will he ever stop trying? He was so good at getting people to isolate her but she just expanded her circle friends.
Lolz, this is me but I like a 3 party prespective on this situation.
Friends - 6 hours ago
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One of my good friends from primary school has recently come back into my life.
We have a few classes together, and it seems like she flirts with me sometimes.
But sometimes its like we are just good friends.
I also flirt with her a fair bit, but i don't want to ruin our friendship in any way.
I only found out today that she had a boyfriend and that they broke up, because they barely ever even talked. i had never seen them together before.
Some of her friends, which are my friends too, told me that they think she likes me but i'm not sure if they are just guessing or if they really know...
I have a feeling she knows i like her, and she hasn't backed away from me or anything to show she doesn't like me, if anything she has probably come closer.
We are always talking at school, and when we are not at school we are texting each other.
W have organised to go to each others house in the holidays to watch movies and do heaps of stuff.
I'm 80% sure she likes me as i like her, but seeing as she only broke up with her boyfriend two days ago i was wondering how long i should wait to ask her to be my girlfriend?
It really does seem like she is over him but i don't want to let others to think she gets around even though she barely ever has any relationships.
And your opinion on whether she likes me.
Thanks everyone, for all you help :)
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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Well, my girlfriend and i have been going out for a little over a week.
We have liked each other for two months or so though, but finally agreed that we were going out a week ago.
Now, here's the problem;
I met her, cause she was in love with my best friend.
He told me to flirt with her, and get her to stop liking him.
So i said sure il flirt with her a bit, and started flirting with her, and she started to love me.
I said i didn't think i loved her, and that she should find someone else who loves her, but she refused and kept asking me.
She went from;
Loving friend>No feelings for friend>Loving me.
That happened within 4 days.
Well after a few weeks, i told her that i did like her, but i wasn't sure how far my feelings went.
I'll tell you this before i go any farther; I have never been in love, so i am not sure if i really do love her. But right now, i really do care for her, but im not sure if its love.
So she started flirting more, and i flirted back.
We became pretty serious in the past 7 days, and we cammed through msn quite a bit.
We are young, so we wanted to start off slow, and just went with visual pleasure.
We did this a lot, and she always told me she loved me, and talked about how much she wanted to get married, and what our kids names were going to be, stuff like that.
Well, today, i found out from my friend that she has been talking to him about something.
We live pretty far apart so we talk through xfire or msn.
Well, Turns out she loves him still.
Apparently, she never stopped.
She regrets everything shes done with me, but she still loves me.
She is willing to wait for him, and is willing to wait for me (wtf? she already had me.)
Heres the situation;
She liked my friend.
She stopped liking my friend.
She liked me.
We cammed.
Said she had no feelings
And she loved my friend still.
Now, how should i handle this situation?
P.S; my friend does not like her at all.
He has told her a false address, which is his friends house.
And his friend has been told to act like he is his brother.
He never turns his phone on, and bought a pre-paid and gave her that number.
He really does not like her that way, but she is a bit of a stalker.
Well, I told her she had one week to choose who she liked.
Me, or him.
I told her that i really do like her, and i just want her to be happy.
If she thinks she will be happier with my friend, then i wish her the best of luck with him.
If she wishes to be with me, then i will gladly accept her.
He has told her that he does not like her, and she still does not accept that.
She said she will wait for him, but she said she also loves me, and will wait for me (???)
How do you think i should handle this?
Any ideas?
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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for the past couple weeks ive been noticing this one guy,
ive been thinking about him a lot and all
his locker is near mine, and the second i turn to the hall where my locker is, hes the first thing my eyes see, and he sees me as well
its just been eye contact for the past couple weeks
and one time when i walked past him, he put his head down and touched his hair
but how can i like him and know nothing about him?
and before i always saw him around, but i never thought anything of him, then one time BANG i did!
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
Singles & Dating - 6 hours ago
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One of my good friends from primary school has recently come back into my life.
We have a few classes together, and it seems like she flirts with me sometimes.
But sometimes its like we are just good friends.
I also flirt with her a fair bit, but i don't want to ruin our friendship in any way.
I only found out today that she had a boyfriend and that they broke up, because they barely ever even talked. i had never seen them together before.
Some of her friends, which are my friends too, told me that they think she likes me but i'm not sure if they are just guessing or if they really know...
I have a feeling she knows i like her, and she hasn't backed away from me or anything to show she doesn't like me, if anything she has probably come closer.
We are always talking at school, and when we are not at school we are texting each other.
W have organised to go to each others house in the holidays to watch movies and do heaps of stuff.
I'm 80% sure she likes me as i like her, but seeing as she only broke up with her boyfriend two days ago i was wondering how long i should wait to ask her to be my girlfriend?
It really does seem like she is over him but i don't want to let others to think she gets around even though she barely ever has any relationships.
And your opinion on whether she likes me.
Thanks everyone, for all you help :)
Friends - 7 hours ago
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if she goes, then everyday would be the same boring routine school, and home.
I do have hobbies and a lot of free time, but it hurts to have a friend move away
listen to this song this is how i feel
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrG0qkJgPZk
she is what makes the day feel so a live, and who makes me have feelings of caring and compassion.
she is all i think abt
Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago
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She is kind of hot, but the thing is, I found out she has had about 8 ex-bfs over a 5 year period time. I was raise in a family where you only date girl you see as a potential wife. Whats bothering me the most is, I could end up to be one of her ex too? 5 years = 60 months, 60 months / 8 ex = 7.5 month. So do you think if I go out with her and become her bf, that I would only last 7.5 month before I become her ex and she will now has 9 ex-bfs total? I don't want to fall for her and get my heart broken, so should I go for her or not? Thanks, sorry if I sound like an idiot.
Singles & Dating - 8 hours ago
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I dont understand why this always happens to me. I'm usually all happy to go around and play the field, flirt with lots of guys. Its tons of fun and all is good. And then a guy gets into me. I might not fancy him all that much, but we build a connection nonetheless. But then, at the slightest sign that he changes his mind, even if its something irrational like he is online but doesn't talk to me but he usually does, or I spot him talking with another girl and we aren't even dating yet, I get super depressed because I think i'm being rejected. Its the worst feeling in the world!
Really, I'm just over-reacting. But I can't stand it if a guy loses interest in me, or becomes interested in someone else, I get so jealous and hurt, and I get depressed and sad.
Is everyone this insecure or just me? How are you suppose to deal with it? I know I'm pretty and have no reason to have low self-esteem, I know there are plenty of fish in the sea... whats wrong with me? Why is my happiness so dependent on how much positive male attention I get?
Friends - 8 hours ago
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One of my good friends from primary school has recently come back into my life.
We have a few classes together, and it seems like she flirts with me sometimes.
But sometimes its like we are just good friends.
I also flirt with her a fair bit, but i don't want to ruin our friendship in any way.
I only found out today that she had a boyfriend and that they broke up, because they barely ever even talked. i had never seen them together before.
Some of her friends, which are my friends too, told me that they think she likes me but i'm not sure if they are just guessing or if they really know...
I have a feeling she knows i like her, and she hasn't backed away from me or anything to show she doesn't like me, if anything she has probably come closer.
We are always talking at school, and when we are not at school we are texting each other.
W have organised to go to each others house in the holidays to watch movies and do heaps of stuff.
I'm 80% sure she likes me as i like her, but seeing as she only broke up with her boyfriend two days ago i was wondering how long i should wait to ask her to be my girlfriend?
It really does seem like she is over him but i don't want to let others to think she gets around even though she barely ever has any relationships.
And your opinion on whether she likes me.
Thanks everyone, for all you help :)